My mother and her younger sisters were the ones who decided to get her a wheel chair as opposed my grandparents theory of "she is un able to do anything for her self so just let her lay there" my mother took her traveling and treated her to things we "normal" people do. despite the difficulty in mexico and the ignorant finger pointing.
Good for your mother. It's important that people with visable disabilities aren't treated as something shameful to be hidden from the world (of course I'm not saying this was the way your grandparents thought but I know people who do have that attitude).
As for the staring, the majority of people have a comfort zone where people are relatively healthy so when they see someone who isn't, it's a curiosity.
Economic Left/Right: -8.88
Social Libertarian/Authoritarian: -8.05
And unnatural, irrational, sinful, wicked, unjust, devilish and tyrannical it is, for any man whatsoever - spiritual or temporal, clergyman or layman - to appropriate and assume unto himself a power, authority and jurisdiction to rule, govern, or reign over any sort of men in the world without their free consent...
John Lilburne, 1647
I'm not anti-intellectual, I'm just not an intellectual.
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