I find it very disturbing to take those jokes and remarks from literary everyone in town and vice versa telling them to anyone. This "politically too correct" thing comes from people who most certainly aren't aware of what oppressions the people they're joking about went and still go through. I myself have some people very close to me whose attitude I know, and in a certain context something may be okay, e.g. them joking about balkans stereotypes (since I'm from there) or the guy I like who's a total feminist making some sexist remarks only in my presence and knows how I will take them, and yeah, sometimes I find that funny as hell. But only because I know the person behind the joke well enough to be completely sure that is nothing they would really support or believe in.
Liberal Dudes are guys who will jump up and down to tell you that they’re all about equality and prosperity for everyone, but then tell you about the strip club they were at the night before or about the awesome anal porn site they last jerked off to. Liberal Dudes are ready to welcome us into the boardroom, provided we’re still willing to dance on the conference table at the employee party. Liberal Dudes love “sex-positive” “feminists” because Liberal Dudes support women’s freedom and “rights,” up to and including our “right” to strip and to suck dicks for money. Liberal Dudes love to see women embracing pornorific behavior like pole dancing, pube waxing, porn watching, thong wearing, chick kissing, and boob flashing as a means to “empowerment,” because that’s exactly the kind of power they want us to have: the power to give them boners.