If socialism can't work in one country alone, it's not gonna work within the confines of one commune.
Anarchy in one punk house!
Sincerely though, just as capitalism will not collapse suddenly and uniformly, it seems to me that there's something to be said for experimenting with different social forms in an immediate setting. I agree, there should be no illusion that such experiments constitute "socialism" in-and-of-themselves, but, rather, they may have practical use in pushing forward struggle. This is potentially true both on a bread-and-butter level, and in terms of creating spaces for political development.
Of course, as with countries, if they don't proliferate, and expand in scope, spilling over the narrow boundaries of a housing arrangement or w/e, or course they degenerate.
Socialism isn't about just abolishing the market though. You seem to envision socialism as some ethical project based on 'sharing stuff more'. Socialism means a radical overhaul of social production under the control and management of the producers, in order to massively increase the productivity of labour so that the conditions for a classless society - material abundance - can be brought about.
While I'd agree with your first point ("Sharing stuff more" isn't the essence of communism), I'd have to disagree in very strong terms with your definition of socialism. An appeal to "increasing the productivity of labour" and "material abundance" is laden with all sorts of assumptions. "Material abundance" exists regardless of technical organization (though certainly it's at risk due to the massive environmental degradation wrought by a system that fetishizes production). There is an implicit ethic in your description, and its disturbing: an ethics of quantity. In a sense, it represents a bizarre inversion of the original wrong headed proposition. "Not sharing more stuff! More stuff shared!"
The ethical essence of the communist project, however, doesn't really concern "stuff" at all, but, rather, overcoming the relations-between-things in restoring relations-between-people.
This is unlikely to be achieved in a commune of hippies, compost heaps and organic carrots.
I concur whole-heartedly. My point vis-a-vis "communes" (of hippies or otherwise) is that it's amazing how useful a supply of fresh local vegetables can be for organizing. "Food" is a pretty central and immediate question that needs to be grappled with - it's a survival question.
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