Quail

I don't see why there would be a problem with you joining to learn about how to be supportive and understanding of trans friends and how to be more of an ally. Though it would be up to those who run the site, not me.

There are a few cis women and cis men there but they are usually family members or significant others of trans people.
http://www.lauras-playground.com/forums/index.php?

I know of a trans support forum site that has a section for eating disorders.

I need to register to read it says.

I think I was a mildly drunk when I sent it. However I have a terrible memory anyhow. I think I was just trying to tell you I understand your pain, I feel similar pain and I wanted to let you know you aren't alone. Sure I may be pulled down into the pain myself but feel free to vent to me if you need to.