Hey guys, I joined this group because there was this particular question I wanted to asked. I'm a heterosexual since birth, and when I imagine myself having sex with someone of the same sex, to me, I find it disgusting. I mean, imagining myself doing it irks me. No I'm not against homosexuals, it's just, well you get it. I don't know if heterosexuals feel this same way. But the question I wanted to ask is, do you, homosexuals that realised they were homosexuals some time later after being born (better even if you had an opposite sex partner before realising it), get this feeling towards people of the opposite sex? Do you feel ''disgusted'' (I'm sorry, I know the word sounds discriminatory, but I don't mean any offense, I just can't find another word. Pardon me for being portuguese :P) when you imagine yourself kissing a guy? (imagining your a lesbian) Or does it feel normal since you thought you were a heterosexual before? The question is just this, for those lazy to read You are a lesbian that only realised it sometime after being born, and someone says, ''Hey, imagining kissing that guy'' You say: ''Ew, that's disgusting'' ''Done, now what?''
Huh? I imagine kissing guys all the time. I find the idea of "Strokin" a woman to be, quite unnecessary. Pointless. Uninteresting. Impure. Unusual. Not needed. etc.
I find the idea of sex with a woman to be unfulfilling and uninteresting. I don't necessarily think it is "disgusting", just indifferent really.
Obviously the "disgust" heteros have towards homo sex stems to a significant extent from the prevalent homophobia that exists in society. (Not blaming the OP personally in any way) While for hetero sex there is no such phobia. Therefore it is natural for homos to not show any disgust towards hetero sex. The root of this asymmetry is social, not intrinsic.
i have a question also and i dont feel like making a thread so here goes...im bisexual but im beginning to question that also...for one thing i identify much better with girls and like them more (personality speaking) and though im often aroused by men and would gladly partake in oral sex or mutual masturbation with a guy im afraid to have anal sex.
I find the idea of sex with a woman to be unfulfilling and uninteresting. I don't necessarily think it is "disgusting", just indifferent really. That's kind of how I feel about it. I don't find women disgusting sexually, just uninteresting.
I "knew" I was gay around the age of 18, but I had been having sex with my best friend since I was 13. Women have never attracted me sexually, and I find the idea of sleeping with a woman off-putting.
Kind of. I wouldn't be able to... perform... if you know what I mean. It's just completely unappealing to me.
I'm disgusted by the idea of sex with a woman. Though I am aroused by the idea of being tied up and caned by a woman I think I could pop a Viagra and perform for reproductive purposes. Cheaper then in-vetro.
I "knew" I was gay before I was 9. I was never "interested" in girls. But I would often dream of Men and Boys my age. I would find sex with a female disgusting. I just couldn't do it - especially oral sex on a woman - I would rather die first...don't understand how anyone could get that close to that smell...
