R_P_A_S
12th May 2007, 21:22
I'm 25 years old now. and one year into my new philosophy and ideology.
BUT when I was younger, about 19 years. My best friend who at the time was 22 and who I consider wise and had lots of respect for told me that that women were the downfall of men! "It's even in the bible bro!" he reaffirmed me! And well I believed him and If is in the Bible, well it must be true! LOL :rolleyes:
Subconsciously I started to think this way. and I reflected back to the time were I felt betrayed by a girlfriend or just a female I cared for and this just confirmed my friends statement. I was never disrespectful or subjective towards women. But the thought was in the back of mind always.
Obviously I don't think this way anymore and I laughed on why I believe this crap. But I'm glad that this ignorance has forever left me.
Regardless this attitude continues. And I noticed it even more now than ever. Maybe is because I've learn that those views are completely fraudulent and there for stick out like a sore thumb!
People I work with and Live with are constantly accusing women and blaming them for their "downfalls"
"We pay for them, give them money and they screw us!"
"I took her in my home, get in a couple of arguments and calls the cops on me!!"
"Fuck all *****es!" etc. etc.
I guess way before any of us were born. Women have been sort of close to second class humans. depicted as evil even by god, and society quick to make them out to be whores if they are promiscuous or 'gold-diggers' if they are materialist and 'pawn of men'.
Though this antagonism may not be as harsh in present day the condescending sentiments remain.
I'm not sure what my conclusion is. But it could possibly be that we as men are judging women on distorted facts with dogmatic elements. It's my belief that men have been playing the victim for a while. Society seems to be more forgiving when men are unfaithful, That's no secret!
Obviously this is not always the case. There are a few exceptions. But in the society we live in, capitalism. This view of women and the antagonism that exist is encouraged and patronized by the system. :angry:
BUT when I was younger, about 19 years. My best friend who at the time was 22 and who I consider wise and had lots of respect for told me that that women were the downfall of men! "It's even in the bible bro!" he reaffirmed me! And well I believed him and If is in the Bible, well it must be true! LOL :rolleyes:
Subconsciously I started to think this way. and I reflected back to the time were I felt betrayed by a girlfriend or just a female I cared for and this just confirmed my friends statement. I was never disrespectful or subjective towards women. But the thought was in the back of mind always.
Obviously I don't think this way anymore and I laughed on why I believe this crap. But I'm glad that this ignorance has forever left me.
Regardless this attitude continues. And I noticed it even more now than ever. Maybe is because I've learn that those views are completely fraudulent and there for stick out like a sore thumb!
People I work with and Live with are constantly accusing women and blaming them for their "downfalls"
"We pay for them, give them money and they screw us!"
"I took her in my home, get in a couple of arguments and calls the cops on me!!"
"Fuck all *****es!" etc. etc.
I guess way before any of us were born. Women have been sort of close to second class humans. depicted as evil even by god, and society quick to make them out to be whores if they are promiscuous or 'gold-diggers' if they are materialist and 'pawn of men'.
Though this antagonism may not be as harsh in present day the condescending sentiments remain.
I'm not sure what my conclusion is. But it could possibly be that we as men are judging women on distorted facts with dogmatic elements. It's my belief that men have been playing the victim for a while. Society seems to be more forgiving when men are unfaithful, That's no secret!
Obviously this is not always the case. There are a few exceptions. But in the society we live in, capitalism. This view of women and the antagonism that exist is encouraged and patronized by the system. :angry: