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Noah
22nd January 2007, 11:34
Temporary ‘enjoyment marriages’ back in Iraq

Banned under Saddam Hussein, some say they are cover for prostitution

BAGHDAD - Fatima Ali was a 24-year-old divorcee with no high school diploma and no job. Shawket al-Rubae was a 34-year-old Shiite sheik with a pregnant wife who, he said, could not have sex with him.

Ali wanted someone to take care of her. Rubae wanted a companion.

They met one afternoon in May at the house he shares with his wife, in the room where he accepts visitors seeking his religious counsel. He had a proposal. Would Ali be his temporary wife? He would pay her 5,000 Iraqi dinars upfront — about $4 — in addition to her monthly expenses. About twice a week over the next eight months, he would summon her to a house he would rent.

The negotiations took an hour and ended with an unwritten agreement, the couple recalled. Thus began their "mutaa," or enjoyment marriage, a temporary union believed by Shiite Muslims to be sanctioned by Islamic law.

The Shiite practice began 1,400 years ago, in what is now Iraq and other parts of the region, as a way to provide for war widows. Banned by President Saddam Hussein's Sunni-led government, it has regained popularity since the 2003 U.S.-led invasion of Iraq brought the majority Shiites to power, said clerics, women's rights activists and mutaa spouses.

"During Saddam's time, there was no religious freedom," said Faris al-Shareef, a sheik who lives in the mainly Shiite city of Hilla.

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Full sotry - http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/16717237/

It's 3 pages long...Man that is disgusting, religious extremists exploiting women in the name of religion..jeez.

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Cheung Mo
22nd January 2007, 16:54
But to Islamist wackos, religious freedom seems to involve prostituting women, lynching homosexuals, and stoning Marxists.

manic expression
22nd January 2007, 20:01
That is beyond wrong. However, compared to some of the insanity going on in Iraq right now, this can be considered somewhat minor. "Misery gangs" (groups of men that roam the streets and rape women at random) and "honor killings" (the practice of killing a female family member for any sexual "'offense") are not uncommon at all in Iraq today.

Cheung Mo
22nd January 2007, 21:20
Not to mention that anyone perceived as not being heterosexual is in danger of being gunned down by Shiite militias if they leave their homes.

Severian
23rd January 2007, 01:36
They say a mutaa marriage is not much different from a traditional marriage in which the husband pays the wife's family a dowry and provides for her financially.

Well, yeah. This does not make it a wonderful thing. Or even equivalent to regular monogamous marriage - note the main temporary marriage described was to an already married man.

Allowing polygamy and probably also these "temporary marriages" seems to be a step backward in the modernization and secularization of Iraqi society - one of many such steps under the "sanctions" and now the occupation and the Islamist-led Baghdad government.

BTW, these marriages - and polygamy - are common in Iran as well - I've heard about some people there beginning to criticise their consequences.