Originally posted by Black Dagger+Jul 8 2006, 11:32 AM--> (Black Dagger @ Jul 8 2006, 11:32 AM)
Originally posted by C Ras+--> ( C Ras)Sexual orientation has nothing to do with this, Black.[/b]
Yup coz white people are the best when it comes to things like anti-black racism, men when it comes to sexism etc. Not being a member of the group that is subject to a prejudice does have a practical effect on how you understand and 'feel' prejudice towards that group, that's straight logic - you can never be as intune with prejudice that targets a group that you are not a part, least of all more intune than someone who experiences that prejudice themselves.
Sure you can 'empathise', but there's still a good chance that you'll fall into making stupid assumptions or saying stupid shit, sexist, racist and homophobic attitudes and assumptions are still very rife on the 'left' - despite the fact that these are things that we reject.
Originally posted by C Ras
The admin TAT is gay I believe and even though he comes down on it when need be he's nowhere near as complaining about it as you are.
'Complaining about it'? You mean like when someones makes a homophobic statement or whatever, i dont ignore it? Let it slide? What are you really talking about here?
And for your information, TAT is in one of the most committed on this board when it comes to fighting homophobia, he's been doing it a lot longer than me, and on other boards - if it wasnt for TAT we would be having a lot more problems with homophobia and related ignorance - but i suppose you could just whinge about how 'over-sensitive' i am, guess that's a progressive stance to take :rolleyes:
Originally posted by C Ras
More tolerant of homophobia?
Yes.
You're always whinging about how 'intolerant' people are when it comes to prejudiced language, that people need to 'lighten up' and not take such things so 'seriously' - you're tolerant of prejudiced attitudes in general, that is very apparent.
Originally posted by C Ras
Is that just because we dont turn over each topic where someone slips up and says the word "fag" or "this is gay"?
So what are you suggesting? That no one should say a word when another member calls someone a fag or says 'this is gay' in homophobic contexts?
What is the solution?
How should i respond?
C
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Is it because even though we disagree with it we're not willing to turn it into a massive CSPAN debate?
I see, so you're fine with just letting it slide by, unchallenged?
How do you think prejudiced ideas are gonna be overcome and cut-out-of the left if we just ignore them?
Or treat them as if they're no big deal, nothing to make a fuss about?
C Ras
Maybe we realize people make mistakes and thats good if the person in question gets corrected but shouldn't be made an example like you like to do.
What's the difference between getting 'corrected' and making an 'example'?
Do you have any examples where i've treated a homophobe unfairly?
P.S. can you please reply to this post in full? If you're gonna call me out, then actually respond to what i say, not the usual, 'quote the whole post but reply in one line' routine that usually use. [/b]
1. Way to jump to extremes like you seem to like to do. Did I ever say ignore it? or "let it slide"? No you fuckin make a huge deal about it and debate about it some little slip up in a topic thats not even really for much social debate. Remember this isn't Discrimination, k?
TAT may be a long standing member who's committed to stand against homophobia but in the time I've been on RevLeft I've NEVER seen him go off like you have. MAYBE (not quite sure) he believes in telling the person in question what they did wrong, warning them, and LETTING IT GO like you should.
2. Me being tolerant of prejudiced attitudes? Just because I dont make it as obvious as a fucking neon light like you do doesn't mean I'm tolerant of it, fuck.
3. Once again there ya go with the taking shit to the extremes. Did I ever say people shouldn't say a word about it? NO I DIDN'T. No the person who says it should have it brought to their attention but no need to be overly dramatic about it. Thats all I'm fucking saying about it.
4. See above statement for example
5. I've never seen you treat a homophobe poorly but you make a bigger deal out of it than anyone else I've seen.