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Febod
4th April 2006, 06:25
Hey everyone, I write for a student newspaper on my college campus. Here is an article I just wrote, so please comment, and be honest.

The Politics of Self-Esteem

Self-esteem is a concept to which pop psychology gives much attention, with little clarification. We have all heard of self-esteem, but most only have a vague idea of what it actually is, which is worse than it going unnoticed; it has become trivialized.

We find low self-esteem at the root of a wide range of disorders such as depression, anxiety, drug addiction, and anorexia. But perhaps self-esteem has effects which have even more breadth and depth than originally thought, like in our political views.

Dr. Nathaniel Branden, a pioneer in the psychology of self-esteem, defines it as the disposition to experience oneself as competent to cope with the basic challenges of life and as being worthy of happiness. Thus, self-esteem has two parts: self-efficacy and self-respect. A person with high self-esteem has a sense of confidence in the face of lifes challenges, and has the sense of being worthy of happiness.

One primary component of self-esteem is the concept of self-responsibility, or the ability to take responsibility for our own actions. This does not mean that we must accept responsibility for all problems that arise, but rather it means we accept responsibility for only those issues that are within our control.

Thus, self-responsibility presupposes that we must first mark what is outside of our control, and what is within our control and act accordingly. Low self-esteem is displayed when we repudiate responsibility for issues that are in our control or when we take responsibility for issues that are outside of our control. A common term for this is denialwe deny what we do and do not control.

When we initiate force on others through government, we are trying to control the minds of others, but ultimately, the only mind we have control over is our own. As a result, using government coercion as a means to an end is, at some level, the result of low self-esteem. Similarly, criminals who use force as a means to an end are of low self-esteem. Rapists, murderers, and white-collared criminals are not happy people. There is no difference, in principle, between forcing people directly through traditional criminal acts and forcing people through the institution of government.

Dissenters will protest to say that they do not wish to control the minds of others, only their actions. It is true that the actions of men are controllable: men can be killed, beaten, or imprisoned. However, there is no divorce between thought and action regarding the life of man, for better or worse.

Mans volition is his only means of survival, so to place the threat of force on man would be to stifle his means of survival by making him act against his own judgment. This is equivalent to destroying his capacity to live, like taking away food or oxygen, although be it a slower and less obvious process. When we only wish to control action, we are implying that we wish to control thought. The obstruction of action is the obstruction of thought.

Sure, we do have some control over anothers mind, but only in the loosest meaning of the word control; we only have indirect control over others. If you wish to change someones mind or actions, then use the power of persuasion, not force. Not only is this healthier for you, but its healthier for others as well.

Moreover, if we hold ourselves responsible for matters that are beyond our control, we will inevitably fail our expectations; we will never, ever succeed in controlling those things we cannot control. This is why so many political policies fail, because they wish to control the uncontrollable. Simple.

We do not have control over anothers bank account. We do not have control over the welfare of other nations. We do not control what people put into their bodies. A lapse in self-esteem is at the base of these aspirations.

With all the political debates we see on television, or hear on the radio, or experience in out own lives, we almost never see someone change their political beliefs; if it happens, it usually involves months or years of deep, inner transformation. Perhaps this is due to the fact that our political opinions do not only reflect our thoughts about government, but also the thoughts we have about ourselves.


Thank you.

red team
4th April 2006, 08:24
We find low self-esteem at the root of a wide range of disorders such as depression, anxiety, drug addiction, and anorexia. But perhaps self-esteem has effects which have even more breadth and depth than originally thought, like in our political views.


These effects are inevitable because it is biologically evolved behaviours. Back when life was simpler and I mean really simple as in hunting dinner and clubbing each other over the head to solve personal conflicts, people that had these feelings had a better survival rate.

When you're punished because your tribe don't like you then you should be anxious and depressed. That tells you that you better change your behaviour before somebody really doesn't like you and kill you. People that didn't change their behaviour and follow the tribe either got killed or was banished by the group that didn't like them and to later die out.

But here in our modern world, things get complicated because there are some things that you simply cannot change all by yourself. Things like consumer items, education, jobs, measures of wealth (money), mates, food, shelter and many others all take many people working in concert to accomplish. Also, your expectations are higher because you're not born in an environment of stone tools, mud huts or cave dwellings. Immediate solutions are impossible and will lead either to your extinction or confinement so you're stuck festering in your own bad emotions, that is until you find a "civilized" solution to it and that would be a solution which is acceptable to the tribe.

This also rips to shreds the myth of individualism because of all the items I've listed that simply cannot or very unlikely to be solved alone in the modern world.


Dr. Nathaniel Branden, a pioneer in the psychology of self-esteem, defines it as the disposition to experience oneself as competent to cope with the basic challenges of life and as being worthy of happiness. Thus, self-esteem has two parts: self-efficacy and self-respect. A person with high self-esteem has a sense of confidence in the face of lifes challenges, and has the sense of being worthy of happiness.


Pop psychology for the privileged.

You may try to inhibit those emotions, but those feelings never go away completely.


One primary component of self-esteem is the concept of self-responsibility, or the ability to take responsibility for our own actions. This does not mean that we must accept responsibility for all problems that arise, but rather it means we accept responsibility for only those issues that are within our control.


That make's sense to most people, but some people may instead like to blame their failures on other people. Again, it makes evolutionary sense because whatever works adds to your survival and hence your gene's survival value. Irresponsible people are as much a product of evolution as responsible people. If you don't get the blame for your spectacular blunders, somebody else might get killed for your failures.

This is all just speculation on my part though. Nothing proven.

That's it for now.

Check out new field of evolutionary psycology for more.

redstar2000
4th April 2006, 13:39
Originally posted by Febod
Rapists, murderers, and white-collared criminals are not happy people.

I have no idea if rapists and murderers are "happy people".

Successful white-collar criminals appear to be be very happy indeed. In fact, when they are apprehended and charged, they are quite indignant..."everyone they know does the same thing!"

We live, after all, under a ruling class composed entirely of successful white-collar criminals. If they were "deeply unhappy", wouldn't it show? :lol:

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Febod
4th April 2006, 17:52
Originally posted by red [email protected] 4 2006, 07:33 AM
This is all just speculation on my part though. Nothing proven.

That's it for now.

Check out new field of evolutionary psycology for more.
Redteam,

Thanks for your comments. Yeah, I have read some on evolutionary psychology; The Red Queen, The Mating Mind, and The Selfish Gene. All three are really good books, in fact, from your comments it sounds like you've read one or more of them yourself. Are there any other good books on evolutionary psychology that I'm missing out on?

You might be right about your comments, but we should keep that certain behaviors like blaming your actions on other people may help us survive long enough to find a mate and have children, it doesn't necessarily mean that these things will make us happy, or at least content in our own lives.

And yes, all of evolutionary psychology can't be proven until we are able to read other people's minds and figure out all those unconcious thoughts i hear so much about.



Successful white-collar criminals appear to be be very happy indeed. In fact, when they are apprehended and charged, they are quite indignant..."everyone they know does the same thing!"

We live, after all, under a ruling class composed entirely of successful white-collar criminals. If they were "deeply unhappy", wouldn't it show? laugh.gif

money power and fame doesn't necessarily make someone happy. All it gives us is money power and fame. Happiness is a different component of humans entirely.

redstar2000
4th April 2006, 20:34
Originally posted by Febod
Money, power, and fame doesn't necessarily make someone happy.

They've got a big lead on whatever's in fourth place. :lol:

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Lord Testicles
4th April 2006, 20:41
Originally posted by [email protected] 4 2006, 05:01 PM
money power and fame doesn't necessarily make someone happy.
I find that only rich people or fairly well off people say that money doesnt bring happiness.

Febod
4th April 2006, 22:48
Originally posted by Skinz+Apr 4 2006, 07:50 PM--> (Skinz @ Apr 4 2006, 07:50 PM)
[email protected] 4 2006, 05:01 PM
money power and fame doesn't necessarily make someone happy.
I find that only rich people or fairly well off people say that money doesnt bring happiness. [/b]
It helps to have an apartment, car and three meals a day for your happiness. That's where capitalism comes in. Oh, i mean, let's just give everyone an apartment, car, and three meals a day. That'll work.

cyu
5th April 2006, 00:54
It helps to have an apartment, car and three meals a day for your happiness. That's where capitalism comes in. Oh, i mean, let's just give everyone an apartment, car, and three meals a day. That'll work.

Let's just give a big mansion, a fleet of expensive cars, and the hardest to get food to a shareholder who doesn't even do any real work. Yeah, that'll show those stupid employees that working hard is it's own reward.

Anarcho-syndicalists believe it's the people who are actually doing the work that should get the rewards, not the shareholders. As far as unemployment goes, anarcho-syndicalists believe access to be productive capital should be made available to everyone, without a precondition that a portion of all sales revenue have to be handed off to a shareholder.

KC
5th April 2006, 15:53
Oh, i mean, let's just give everyone an apartment, car, and three meals a day. That'll work.

Glad you're starting to see it our way!! :lol: