Paradox
25th July 2005, 04:23
These quotes are from a book I'm reading titled The Art of Time. Thought they were interesting and wanted your thoughts on them.
Time-chopping spares nothing and most of all not love. Love is not stated; it is proven by time spent. Working mothers count the hours spent with their children, either to reassure themselves or to feel guilty. Friendships also require an investment of time. As for romanitc love, it is a plant that must be watered with hours and days of intimacy.
Alas, romantic love also wastes away for lack of nourishment. Courting means using outmoded circumlocutions- and patience. Maintaining a relationship demands an investment of time whose productivity is no longer assured.
We have come to believe that love happens right away or not at all.
Today lovers spend more time on the telephone than in bed.
If conjugal fidelity is on the rise, it may be more as a result of the pace of life than of changing morality.
Thanks to this king of time-destroyers (cellular phone), anyone can interrupt a crucial negotiation, a family meal, a moment of creative reflection or worship, your sleep, your shower, your moments of tenderness or of private enjoyment at the theater or concert hall... That is, if you wish so, because luckily voice mail was developed almost simultaneously. Many have learned to use these fashionable tools... in order to make themselves inaccessible.
In the growing battle for control of our time, the mobile telephone has become for all of us what the Kalashnikov is for a terrorist: an indispensable weapon of attack or of defense.
(emphasis in original text)
That part about the Kalashnikovs was quite amusing to me. :lol:
Because of our stressed approach to time we do nothing thoroughly in order to do more. Impatient and therefore superficial, we avoid asking profound questions. And when we must answer our own legitimate preoccupations concerning our motives or our way of life, we call that an existential crisis.
Thoughts?
Time-chopping spares nothing and most of all not love. Love is not stated; it is proven by time spent. Working mothers count the hours spent with their children, either to reassure themselves or to feel guilty. Friendships also require an investment of time. As for romanitc love, it is a plant that must be watered with hours and days of intimacy.
Alas, romantic love also wastes away for lack of nourishment. Courting means using outmoded circumlocutions- and patience. Maintaining a relationship demands an investment of time whose productivity is no longer assured.
We have come to believe that love happens right away or not at all.
Today lovers spend more time on the telephone than in bed.
If conjugal fidelity is on the rise, it may be more as a result of the pace of life than of changing morality.
Thanks to this king of time-destroyers (cellular phone), anyone can interrupt a crucial negotiation, a family meal, a moment of creative reflection or worship, your sleep, your shower, your moments of tenderness or of private enjoyment at the theater or concert hall... That is, if you wish so, because luckily voice mail was developed almost simultaneously. Many have learned to use these fashionable tools... in order to make themselves inaccessible.
In the growing battle for control of our time, the mobile telephone has become for all of us what the Kalashnikov is for a terrorist: an indispensable weapon of attack or of defense.
(emphasis in original text)
That part about the Kalashnikovs was quite amusing to me. :lol:
Because of our stressed approach to time we do nothing thoroughly in order to do more. Impatient and therefore superficial, we avoid asking profound questions. And when we must answer our own legitimate preoccupations concerning our motives or our way of life, we call that an existential crisis.
Thoughts?