Who has more pleasure during lovemaking? [Archive]

Bannockburn

21st July 2005, 17:36

I would express ignorance. Since I am male and I have only experienced a male orgasm, I have no way to tell what a female experiences when she has an orgasm. These are subjective among the individual and its purely known only to the individual who is experience it. However, I would speculate that the orgasm would probably relate pretty closely. I would imagine that since males and females have similar physiological structures, and orgasm is a psychological response, I would imagine they would be similar in sensation. I don't know, but its an educated guess.

resisting arrest with violence

21st July 2005, 18:19

I remember the old mythological story of the prophet Tiresias--- he was ordered by Zeus to solve a dispute he was having with Hera his sister/wife over this same topic and Tiresias had sex as a man and as a woman and he gave his answer that women experience more pleasure. Remember what they say about myths: Myths are stories that are never real but always true.

Pawn Power

21st July 2005, 18:43

Originally posted by [email protected] 21 2005, 11:36 AM
I would express ignorance. Since I am male and I have only experienced a male orgasm, I have no way to tell what a female experiences when she has an orgasm. These are subjective among the individual and its purely known only to the individual who is experience it. However, I would speculate that the orgasm would probably relate pretty closely. I would imagine that since males and females have similar physiological structures, and orgasm is a psychological response, I would imagine they would be similar in sensation. I don't know, but its an educated guess.
I agree it is most likley a similar sensation.

most men dont understand how to please wymin so they dont get the girl off.
Ohh, please inform us...

*Hippie*

21st July 2005, 19:28

I am a female but I think sometimes the male does and sometimes the female does. It depends on the situation. The best sex is where the pleasure is equal or as close as possible.

Fidelbrand

21st July 2005, 19:35

I would say man, because

1) it is "relatively" harder for a woman to have an orga.

2) (maybe a reason of point 1 above?) man usually don't last long enough and might not be considerate enough the delay and eject until the woman says "she has had enough".

Clarksist

21st July 2005, 20:40

Originally posted by resisting arrest with [email protected] 21 2005, 05:19 PM
I remember the old mythological story of the prophet Tiresias--- he was ordered by Zeus to solve a dispute he was having with Hera his sister/wife over this same topic and Tiresias had sex as a man and as a woman and he gave his answer that women experience more pleasure. Remember what they say about myths: Myths are stories that are never real but always true.
Most ancient myths about the differences between men & women were created to make women filled with guilt so that the man could be dominant.

Plus its much harder for a chick to get off. Just ask my girlfriend. :P

Anarcho-Communist

21st July 2005, 21:03

I think it can vary from time to time. Sometimes Men sometimes Females. :lol:

dietrite

21st July 2005, 22:22

The female orgasm, I think, or I've been told and read, is several times more powerful than the male orgasm, so I would say the woman.

Obviously, this differs in particulars based on the abilities of the male and female, etc. If we assume that both are ideal, perfect lovers, though, cancelling out all variables, I think the female receives more pleasure.

resisting arrest with violence

21st July 2005, 23:08

Who wants to volunteer to ask Dr. Noam Chomsky?

[email protected]

Xvall

21st July 2005, 23:31

Women actually enter a mental "trance" while achieving an orgasm, men do not.

Snitza

21st July 2005, 23:59

Well, just take a gander at the AUDITORY evidence! A woman pants, screams, moans, and makes all kinds of crazy sounds of pleasure. What does the man do, besides grunt and moan?(Some men don't even make any noise). So it seems, atleast on face value, that the woman is having a better time than the man.

Not to mention the condom. That severely cuts back on the pleasure for the guy. :(

22nd July 2005, 03:20

Enjoying sexual stuff isn't all about having orgasms though...everyone likes making out but no one comes from it.

But really its a silly question because there is such a big range of how much people enjoy sex depending on who they're with and how much they're in the mood for it and how much their partner is in the mood and how into it they are and all...sometimes the guy has more fun and sometimes the girl has more fun and sometimes its the same i think really. So i think because the circumstances make such a huge difference you can't really ascribe it to gender.

C_Rasmussen

22nd July 2005, 04:16

I suppose its due to how well the other partner is going about TRYING to please the other.

Taiga

22nd July 2005, 08:54

What about multiple orgasms? It's almost only females' prerogative.

Raisa

23rd July 2005, 08:58

We are talking about this like it is sex, and the question says "DURING LOVE MAKING"

Love making is when each person is concerned about the others pleasure. If its real love making, then no one has any less pleasure then the other. Youre equal, its love making.

Led Zeppelin

23rd July 2005, 12:59

I would say women, i saw it on Discovery Channel.

Hiero

24th July 2005, 05:02

Originally posted by resisting arrest with [email protected] 22 2005, 09:08 AM
Who wants to volunteer to ask Dr. Noam Chomsky?

[email protected]
Why would he know?

24th July 2005, 05:41

Mmmm i am kindof surprized how many people say that men or women have more fun...because when people think their partner isn't having fun they feel bad and when people feel like their partner is having way more fun and its not fun for them they feel used...

LSD

24th July 2005, 05:54

Love making is when each person is concerned about the others pleasure.

"Love making" is often used as a euphemism for sex.

Why would he know?

I'm fairly certain that that was a pardody of the belief found in certain liberal circles that Chomsky has "all the answers".

Organic Revolution

24th July 2005, 11:00

Originally posted by Marxism-[email protected] 23 2005, 05:59 AM
I would say women, i saw it on Discovery Channel.
ah ha all our problems are solved now! discovery channel and the history channel have saved us from an hilarious mishap again! <_<

jvs

24th July 2005, 12:29

unless anyone here is a hermaphrodite...

no one has a clue

Eldred

24th July 2005, 16:31

Interestingly enough tests have been done measuring brain signals during an orgasm. Men require some sort of thought to get it up and assumadely with the orgasm, while women, quite the opposite, who have absolutely no thought usually have the best orgasms. Seems to be the other way around when we aernt procreating though... (except driving... :P )

RevolverNo9

24th July 2005, 23:39

coda

25th July 2005, 00:45

only the first one is 8x as powerful, ---but the time you get to the 8th one, it's only 1x more powerful.

Seeker

26th July 2005, 07:08

Most people are not experiencing orgasams to their full potential. I've read some Tantric stuff, and found that it works to some extent. With enough time, patience, and endurance there is potentialy no limit to the duration of orgasam for either sex (after years if not decades of practice).

Clarksist

26th July 2005, 07:29

The female orgasm is, on average, 8 times more powerful than the male. I don't suppose a mna can begin to imagine the sensation of the female orgasm. And yes, as someone said, ever tried having a listen?

Getting periods every month must be SO worth it then.

Most people are not experiencing orgasams to their full potential. I've read some Tantric stuff, and found that it works to some extent. With enough time, patience, and endurance there is potentialy no limit to the duration of orgasam for either sex (after years if not decades of practice).

No limit? That is insane.

In the end, sexual stimulation can all be fixed with a few chemical changes (like everything).

Theorists have stated that someday we'll be able to take pills so that you fall in love more or less. Its that simple.

Change some brain chemistry and maybe a guy can have an orgasm 8x as powerful as a females. Which would be 64x as good as an original males.

That would be a mighty orgasm.

Black Dagger

27th July 2005, 11:10

Women, have the greater capacity, but this is obviously not always reached. But on average i'd say women, i've yet to have anything that i would think is even closely comparable to a female orgasm.

*jealous*

omegaflare

8th August 2005, 03:32

Are we talking about men that are circumsized or not?

Palmares

10th August 2005, 08:48

Originally posted by Raisa+Jul 23 2005, 05:58 PM--> (Raisa @ Jul 23 2005, 05:58 PM) We are talking about this like it is sex, and the question says "DURING LOVE MAKING"

Love making is when each person is concerned about the others pleasure. If its real love making, then no one has any less pleasure then the other. Youre equal, its love making. [/b]
If that were the case, since the answer is already known, then this whole thread would hence be redundant.

But as LSD said,
"Love making" is often used as a euphemism for sex.

In answering the question, I would probably say women.

My reasoning is simply that since it is much easier for men to have orgasms, the event becomes less "special". Women have it harder, but when they reach their climax, they reap great rewards as they also can have many more orgasms then men...

Black Dagger[/quote
*jealous*

Amen to that... :(

Des

10th August 2005, 09:15

Change some brain chemistry and maybe a guy can have an orgasm 8x as powerful as a females. Which would be 64x as good as an original males.

That would be a mighty orgasm.

that would kill!

dying with a massive grin tho!

DarkAngel

14th August 2005, 06:52

Originally posted by [email protected] 21 2005, 11:17 PM
Not to mention the condom. That severely cuts back on the pleasure for the guy. :(
Not to mention the girl...so shhh

Freidenker

18th November 2005, 09:34

Well, you just gotta know how to work it. :P Actually, the most enjoyable part of lovemaking is getting my love off as many times as I can. Being madly in love helps her out too. :)

C_Rasmussen

18th November 2005, 17:33

Actually I retract my last statement. Probably the guy as someone said earlier because most guys PROBABLY (yes I'm a guy myself) don't know what the fuck we're doing.

Chimera

20th November 2005, 13:13

Women, definitely. The female orgasm is neurological, requiring so much energy in the part of the brain responsible for it that other parts have to shut down to maintain a balance. Last orgasm I had I didn't notice my shoulder had slipped out until I'd finished.

Simotix

21st November 2005, 03:05

Originally posted by Chimera+Nov 20 2005, 01:18 PM--> (Chimera @ Nov 20 2005, 01:18 PM)Last orgasm I had I didn't notice my shoulder had slipped out until I'd finished.[/b]
What do you mean by slipped your shoulder? Dislocated? That is some crazy sex ...

Originally posted by [email protected] 24 2005, 04:07 AM

resisting arrest with [email protected] 22 2005, 09:08 AM
Who wants to volunteer to ask Dr. Noam Chomsky?

[email protected]
Why would he know?
I believe this was a joke.