Strange question re: 'erotic asphyxiation'

[Five Year Plan]

I've noticed sometimes that if I am particularly tired, and have just finished working out on top of it, that when I masturbate, that my orgasms are then heightened to the point where I almost feel like I am losing total control over all my muscles and even feel like I might be on the verge of passing out. These are probably some of the most intense orgasms I've ever had, including those I have had with the best sex partners.

Now, for you doctors or medical types out there, is this related to the restriction of oxygen or bloodflow from the heart to the brain, as sometimes occurs in the practice of scarfing or "erotic asphyxiation"? Note that I've never tried, and will never try, scarfing, since it is so dangerous. But I was just curious about whether I've inadvertently stumbled upon a safer way of achieving the same feeling.

[Lord Testicles]

I'm not a doctor or a "medical type" so I have no idea but I'm thinking maybe it has something to do with the endorphins that are released due to exercise.

[Five Year Plan]

I'm not a doctor or a "medical type" so I have no idea but I'm thinking maybe it has something to do with the endorphins that are released due to exercise.

See, I had thought about this, but this doesn't happen every time after I exercise, and not even after my most rigorous exercise routines. It only happens when I'm tired, then exercise, then jerk off. And the endorphins wouldn't explain the feeling of (nearly) passing out.

[BIXX]

I'm gonna agree with skinz.

Plus (and correct me if I'm wrong) I think after you work out you get extra oxygen to the brain due to blood pumping at a higher rate, and it no longer being used on the muscles to work out.

[Sasha]

first: there is no safe breathing play.

second: there is NO safe breathing play!

third: if you ignore one and two there are ways to keep the risks to a minimum but non of those involve playing by yourself

so presuming you found a willing partner to keep an eye on you and call the paramedics if needed; the only way breathing play is remotely within manageable risks you buy an gasmask with an hose, this can be an old chemical warfare mask but i would recommend a new one from a specialized BDSM store, it needs to be a short hose that cant be crushed or otherwise get blocked which you block with your own hand palm in a way that if you pass out air flow will resume because your hand falls of the hose end. no one but you is allowed to control the air flow, do not attach anything to it that can keep the air flow restricted if you pass out.

fourth: there is no such thing as safe breathing play so forget what i said above, go to a sex store and buy a bottle of poppers and sniff that during your jackoff and you will have the same effect with a lot less danger (not that poppers are good for you and def do not mix them with viagra because that will get you killed).


greetings, you friendly sex advise columnist.

ps. there is no safe breathing play, stay away from it, dont become a david caradine or michael hutchence

[Patrice O'neal]

Just stop masturbating all together and only cum during sexual activity with another person.

My orgasms went from a 3 to a 10 in 8 days of not jacking of and quitting porn.

I was talking about this with my mate recently. After watching airtight porn videos since 12 years old, I didn' realise how desensitised I had become.

After a few weeks of no wanking or porn I had rods like I hadn't had in years, an awesome sex drive, was way more productive and had added 30lbs on my bench press. No fap for life. Shit saves lives :)

Also if you really want to do the asphyxiation gig, why not just do it with a partner and have a set procedure or something. as for doing it alone, seems way too risky.

Do you want to be the person found in french lingerie and lipstick hanging from his work tie with his eyes trying to escape the sockets? That has to be one of the worst ways to go ever. Imagine if your mum found you.

If that didn't put you off the idea you were born to do it, get at it. Ideally with someone who has siscors on hand and knows CPR.

[BIXX]

Just stop masturbating all together and only cum during sexual activity with another person.

My orgasms went from a 3 to a 10 in 8 days of not jacking of and quitting porn.

I was talking about this with my mate recently. After watching airtight porn videos since 12 years old, I didn' realise how desensitised I had become.

After a few weeks of no wanking or porn I had rods like I hadn't had in years, an awesome sex drive, was way more productive and had added 30lbs on my bench press. No fap for life. Shit saves lives :)

Also if you really want to do the asphyxiation gig, why not just do it with a partner and have a set procedure or something. as for doing it alone, seems way too risky.

Do you want to be the person found in french lingerie and lipstick hanging from his work tie with his eyes trying to escape the sockets? That has to be one of the worst ways to go ever. Imagine if your mum found you.

If that didn't put you off the idea you were born to do it, get at it. Ideally with someone who has siscors on hand and knows CPR.


Dude, fuck off with this shit. Like, it's one thing if it's about safety, but you're trying to shame people into being the way you like. Ew.

Also what you said about the "quit masturbating altogether":

http://www.clickhole.com/blogpost/why-i-stopped-watching-porn-and-so-should-you-576?

[Five Year Plan]

What's truly sad about this thread is that it has transformed into people warning me away from asphyxiation, when I openly stated in my OP that I had no intention of ever even trying it because of the dangers entailed.

[BIXX]

Lol, well, do you think maybe my first post had any useful info?

[Sasha]

What's truly sad about this thread is that it has transformed into people warning me away from asphyxiation, when I openly stated in my OP that I had no intention of ever even trying it because of the dangers entailed.

i know, it was just a friendly reminder to people who might give it a try, also i was pretty drunk last night when i wrote that so i guess i forgot to add that essential line.

[Patrice O'neal]

Dude, fuck off with this shit. Like, it's one thing if it's about safety, but you're trying to shame people into being the way you like. Ew.

Also what you said about the "quit masturbating altogether":

http://www.clickhole.com/blogpost/why-i-stopped-watching-porn-and-so-should-you-576?


How am I shaming anyone, what the fuck are you talking about? Why can't I promote people quitting porn and masturbation? How is it implying if they don't they should feel ashamed? Stop looking for things to be offended by, it is cringeworthy.

If you type in NOFAP on google, you will find thousands of people who are athiests, not christian reactionary moralists trying to get people to give up porn or wanking for stupid moralistic reasons, but people who genuinely have gotten huge benefit from not wanking and not watching porn that completely desensitises you from real sex.

The ammounts of guys in NOFAP threads online who at 16-17 can't get solid erections and can't cum from regular sex is insane. All I am doing is saying rather than going further and further down the rabit hole of fetishes why not try and reclaim you ability to become sexually aroused by regular intercourse with actual people.

Not that the OP can't and does not, but I think its something alot of young people, especially young boys need to hear.

There are similar threads by women talking about how years of extremely powerful sex toys and porn has left them unable to climax during sex with their partners. This is not some moral stance against kinky sex or porn. It is just a healthy suggestion to rethink just how addicted to masturbation and pornography you are and how it might be affecting your sex life.

As someone who has enjoyed bisexual porn to cucko,d porn to lesbian porn and anything inbetween I am harldy the fucking moralist you are so eagerly trying to paint me as.

[Ethics Gradient, Traitor For All Ages]

I think you would be better served by learning how to masturbate without porn rather stopping all together. The issue that most of the no-fap people are trying to address has more to do with porn induced alienation rather than an addiction to masturbation itself.

[Patrice O'neal]

I think you would be better served by learning how to masturbate without porn rather stopping all together. The issue that most of the no-fap people are trying to address has more to do with porn induced alienation rather than an addiction to masturbation itself.

I think the general consensus is no porn no masturbation. They even have their own forum now, its quite remarkable.

I feel enormous benefit from it, plus I think alot of us can use things like porn and masturbation to avoid dealing with real prolbems in our lives.


If you feel fine with porn and masturbation then why stop? But if you need to go more and more extreme with fetish play and porn, I would suggest the 90 day no fap challenge.

I finally enjoy blowjobs again.

[Ethics Gradient, Traitor For All Ages]

No no, I understand the reboot process or whatever it's called. But masturbation with porn is drastically different from masturbation with out it, once you've broken that addiction. With porn its an almost mechanical process combined with shame and loathing (not necessarily a judgment about people who dig porn), without porn its something that's actually sexual in nature. If it's not something you've tried since you jumped on the no-fap bandwagon, its worth checking out. I don't masturbate very often since I have a partner but stopping entirely probably isn't in the cards for a lot of young people, and it doesn't need to be the alienating act that it becomes for a lot of people, if not a majority of people at this point.

[Lord Testicles]

"NOFAP"

http://i.imgur.com/rvxAv.jpg

[Rosa Partizan]

I think you would be better served by learning how to masturbate without porn rather stopping all together. The issue that most of the no-fap people are trying to address has more to do with porn induced alienation rather than an addiction to masturbation itself.

yes. That porn thing can most def be adressed without moralistic background. From my own experience as someone who used to watch porn almost every day and needed harder stuff to get aroused, I can tell that it changed a lot when I quit completely. My phantasies became more exciting and creative and I had no problems drawing pictures in my mind, something I hadn't been able for the time watching porn, that's why I couldn't stop it for a while, since I needed these pictures. This is something you'll find a million times on the internet, exactly the same experiences with porn. But as you pointed out, that has nothing to do with masturbation. I mean, we all know that feeling that orgasms feel more intense after not having masturbated for some days or also maybe weeks. But I don't see in how far masturbating blocks your mind from getting aroused during ordinary intercourse or even makes it hard to get an erection. I heard that when it comes to porn addicts, but not in combination with masturbation.

[Patrice O'neal]

No no, I understand the reboot process or whatever it's called. But masturbation with porn is drastically different from masturbation with out it, once you've broken that addiction. With porn its an almost mechanical process combined with shame and loathing (not necessarily a judgment about people who dig porn), without porn its something that's actually sexual in nature. If it's not something you've tried since you jumped on the no-fap bandwagon, its worth checking out. I don't masturbate very often since I have a partner but stopping entirely probably isn't in the cards for a lot of young people, and it doesn't need to be the alienating act that it becomes for a lot of people, if not a majority of people at this point.

I am in the same boat, having a partner I really don't see any positive benefits from wanking, I would rather have sex with the person I lvoe, which is infinitely more enjoyable than humping my hand.

[Five Year Plan]

You fuckers need to stop turning my thread into a battlefield for you to dish out your sexual shame, masturbation issues, porn issues, and sexual dysfunctions. K? Thanks!

[Rafiq]

You fuckers need to stop turning my thread into a battlefield for you to dish out your sexual shame, masturbation issues, porn issues, and sexual dysfunctions. K? Thanks!

Yes, only Five Year Plan's sexual issues matter.

[BIXX]

Well to be fair the conversation is off topic.

Can someone please tell me if my first post has any merit? I wanna pretend I can science good.

[Five Year Plan]

Yes, only Five Year Plan's sexual issues matter.

How did I guess you couldn't resist peeking into a thread about my sexual habits, you naughty, naughty mystic? :laugh:

Now stay on topic or be summarily shat upon.

[Five Year Plan]

Lol, well, do you think maybe my first post had any useful info?

I still don't think it's about endorphins. It only happens when I am particularly tired then exercise on top of it. Maybe the fatigue heightens the effect of the endorphins? The aspect of feeling like I'm almost going to pass out (pleasurably, no less) does have me making the link to erotic asphyxiation, though.

[Patrice O'neal]

I still don't think it's about endorphins. It only happens when I am particularly tired then exercise on top of it. Maybe the fatigue heightens the effect of the endorphins? The aspect of feeling like I'm almost going to pass out (pleasurably, no less) does have me making the link to erotic asphyxiation, though.

I might be wrong but I don't think endorphins work like that. It could simply be the same effect eating some toast after a 10 mile run has, the sheer pleasure of doing somehting that feels good after something hard and exhausting generally gives a heightened state.