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The Garbage Disposal Unit
14th February 2013, 00:07
. . . a few nights ago. My father was with her at the time, and performed an improvised last rights.
While my Catholicism is highly suspect, in a way I admire her quiet and lifelong conviction. She came from a dirt-poor Acadian family, and only ever received a third grade (as in three years of elementary schooling, not metaphorically) education; yet none the less devoted herself to good works and service that went largely unrewarded (save a medal from the archdiocese in 1998).
In some ways, I feel like she was the last of my connection to an Acadian heritage. My father's generation was, practically when not officially, forced to anglicize, both linguistically and culturally. By and large, my Grandmother's generation of trappers, fishers, and small farmers have disappeared through attrition and economic necessity.
While French persists in some parts of the province, and to a much greater degree in New Brunswick, I feel like my grandmother's passing is another death in a slow cultural genocide that is achieving what "le grand derangement" failed to.

Sorry if this is an over-share.

Art Vandelay
14th February 2013, 00:37
I'm sorry to hear about your loss comrade. It can be tough, I know that the best advice I ever got when dealing with the death of a family member was to simply remember the good times you spent with them (and if you're an atheist like myself) realize that while they haven't gone on to another life, their 'after life' is living on in the genes they passed down.

The Intransigent Faction
14th February 2013, 01:19
I'm so sorry to hear that. :( Don't have much to add, but what 9mm already said is great advice.

MarxSchmarx
14th February 2013, 04:03
My condolences, comrade. That sucks, so cherish those memories.

Geiseric
14th February 2013, 06:46
Sorry to hear that man. As Gandalf said, Death is but a newer stage of life. People live on through memories, so write about her if you want. I was thinking about writing something about my grandpa, who was a railroad worker/union member in the 30's, and played jazz with a bunch of black people, while he was white! That shit was unheard of, he even picked up weed and passed it on to my family though his jazz experience.

The Garbage Disposal Unit
14th February 2013, 11:54
Thanks all.

Comrade Dracula
14th February 2013, 14:51
You have my condolences, comrade.

Prometeo liberado
14th February 2013, 16:48
All condolences comrade.

Mather
14th February 2013, 17:10
I'm sorry for your loss, VMC.

My grandma passed away this January, she was 85. Having just gone through what you must be going through, I really do feel for you.:(

MarxSchmarx
16th February 2013, 04:57
I'm sorry for your loss, VMC.

My grandma passed away this January, she was 85. Having just gone through what you must be going through, I really do feel for you.:(

that soon. That doesn't make it any easier. I'm sorry for you too.

Vladimir Innit Lenin
16th February 2013, 10:28
Sorry to hear about your loss. It's nice to be proud of your family and their achievements, though!

khad
16th February 2013, 11:35
I'm moving this to non-political, as this is a bit of a heavy topic for chit chat.

Danielle Ni Dhighe
16th February 2013, 11:50
My condolences.

ind_com
16th February 2013, 11:51
My condolences, comrade.

Q
16th February 2013, 12:03
Also my condolences.

Luís Henrique
16th February 2013, 12:10
. . . a few nights ago.

My condolences.


She came from a dirt-poor Acadian family, and only ever received a third grade (as in three years of elementary schooling, not metaphorically) education; yet none the less devoted herself to good works and service that went largely unrewarded (save a medal from the archdiocese in 1998).

Seems a life that was worth living.

Luís Henrique