why do i get annoyed when i am around other people

[#FF0000]

i was standing around in brooklyn today surrounded by folks around my age and man was i just angry at everyone for no reason. and thinking about it i sorta realized i haven't met anyone in the past few years who i haven't thought "oh haha fuck this persons life they are awful" after talking to for a few minutes no matter who they are or what we have in common or anything.

explain my feelings to me, revleft.

[ВАЛТЕР]

You are a bad person and should feel bad.

You may be selective about who you want to spend your time with. Some people are like that. Everyone has standards, some peoples are different than others.

[#FF0000]

yeah maybe.

i'm getting tired of a lot of my friends too though haha

[Dennis the 'Bloody Peasant']

I am the same in some ways; I stand in a lift with a few people having a natter and laughing and it just irritates me, I silently mock the topics they yap about and their stupid opinions (especially hate it when they are gossiping about their own lives, I don't care about your boring shit life, keep it to yourself).
I prefer my own company 90% of the time, it's amazing that my wife puts up with me...hope my infant son isn't too heavily influenced by my anti-social attitude.

Sorry, made that post too much about me, just thought I could relate is all.

[bcbm]

sounds like you are too negative

chill out

everyone has their worth. find it instead of trying to hate them

a real human respects people for their good qualities, not hate themf or bad

[Comrades Unite!]

I noticed how AntiSocial I have become these day's.
I hardly even go out anymore.

[cynicles]

Maybe you're like me and have a potent combination of anxiety and manic-depression.

[L.A.P.]

yeah maybe.

i'm getting tired of a lot of my friends too though haha

Word

[Admiral Swagmeister G-Funk]

because people are stupid dumbasses a lot of the time

[mew]

get therapy and work on your self-esteem

[Ostrinski]

I'm the same way. You might have some mild or common form of depression or anxiety. I don't think there's anything particularly "wrong" with you as a person, you might see a doctor if you are concerned.

Edit: on the other hand, you might have attachment complications. I know for me personally, if I'm acquainted with someone for so long, I start to resent and dislike them for reasons unknown to me.

[farleft]

Maybe you are frustrated at being surrounded my complete idiots.

It used to happen a lot to me.

[Robocommie]

i was standing around in brooklyn today surrounded by folks around my age and man was i just angry at everyone for no reason. and thinking about it i sorta realized i haven't met anyone in the past few years who i haven't thought "oh haha fuck this persons life they are awful" after talking to for a few minutes no matter who they are or what we have in common or anything.

explain my feelings to me, revleft.

Hey wait, you only met me within the past few years...

:(

[Robocommie]

sounds like you are too negative

chill out

everyone has their worth. find it instead of trying to hate them

a real human respects people for their good qualities, not hate themf or bad

See, now this guy right here, is hard not to like

And believe me, I've TRIED.

[cynicles]

sounds like you are too negative

chill out

everyone has their worth. find it instead of trying to hate them

a real human respects people for their good qualities, not hate themf or bad
lol I love it when people use the "you're too negative" excuse as if you flip a switch and your attitude changes.

Like I said, anxiety and depression, chances are if you can't explain it then it's ones of those or a combination there of. Try some exercise and good eating to deal with depression and work on your self-esteem for the anxiety.

[#FF0000]

nah you can definitely just make a conscious effort to work on your attitude, i think.

[cynicles]

Lol ok but that generally results in faking it all the time. My inner dialogue is nothing like my outer.

[Ele'ill]

I get annoyed with people like that. I've had roommates that I should have otherwise always gotten along with where it ended in bitter hatred where upon time spent away from one another we came back together but I feel like they changed and I didn't (cause they were wrong always all along to begin with)

[PC LOAD LETTER]

Sounds like a symptom of depression

[Art Vandelay]

I find it a reoccuring characteristic with people of our politics. To be a radical is to be audacious, its not a far step away from arrogance (paraphrasing labor days here).

[Sea]

I love being around people, in general; I hate is being around certain types of people.

[MarxSchmarx]

Part of it may be that you don't feel the relations are on equal footings. It happens a lot you might feel like you are giving more than you are receiving, so hanging out ends up being kind of a chore.

[The Intransigent Faction]

I'm the same way around most people. I'm not sure how to articulate it beyond this, but I just can't identify with most people in a lot of ways at all. In my case maybe it's partly to do with having been around some really shitty people as a kid and losing a few close friends---but in general the more you're by yourself, the more easily you probably find faults with other people, and maybe with yourself as well even if subconsciously.

NRZ really had a point as well---it's not uncommon for those on the radical left to feel this way---alienated.

To the people spouting lines such as "chill out", and all that bs---the world isn't all sunshine, lollipops and rainbows, and some people really are unpleasant to be around. You don't have to ignore that to feel better (if you do I'd rather walk around a miserable douche, thanks).

The friends I have are generally people who've approached and made an effort to get to know me. Not everyone walks around trying to befriend each person they see with an insufferable, insincere grin on their face, because all too often the seemingly most friendly people are the first to stop caring about you because they're more concerned about quantity than quality of friendships.

[Igor]

I'm the same way around most people. I'm not sure how to articulate it beyond this, but I just can't identify with most people in a lot of ways at all. In my case maybe it's partly to do with having been around some really shitty people as a kid and losing a few close friends---but in general the more you're by yourself, the more easily you probably find faults with other people, and maybe with yourself as well even if subconsciously.

NRZ really had a point as well---it's not uncommon for those on the radical left to feel this way---alienated.

To the people spouting lines such as "chill out", and all that bs---the world isn't all sunshine, lollipops and rainbows, and some people really are unpleasant to be around. You don't have to ignore that to feel better (if you do I'd rather walk around a miserable douche, thanks).

The friends I have are generally people who've approached and made an effort to get to know me. Not everyone walks around trying to befriend each person they see with an insufferable, insincere grin on their face, because all too often the seemingly most friendly people are the first to stop caring about you because they're more concerned about quantity than quality of friendships.

chill out

[Rusty Shackleford]

welcome to the world of neurosis.



though, i enjoy many peoples company, i get that feeling sometimes.