Relationships

[Positivist]

Just a poll to check out the relationship statuses of revlefters, and to discuss relationship issues, share stories, or give/seek advice.

[Lynx]

40+ years of Me, Myself and I ;)

[ВАЛТЕР]

I checked "other" Since I just started seeing this girl on Sunday. She seems pretty into me, but her stupid roommate wants to fuck it all up and sabotage me because she is a jealous pile of ass. Little does she know just how charming I can be though. ;)

[Positivist]

BA/TEP I have had quite a bit of experience with jealous friends myself. Haha ugh awful place to be.

[ВАЛТЕР]

BA/TEP I have had quite a bit of experience with jealous friends myself. Haha ugh awful place to be.


It's the worst thing ever...

Now the only way I figure I can stop this is if I get one of my friends to date her roommate for a while, or at least long enough to get her off of my case. However, because she is a stuck up, spoiled, 24 year old brat, I don't think anyone has any interest of speaking to her longer than 5 minutes.

[Admiral Swagmeister G-Funk]

Single. I don't operate well in scenarios of commitment, not because I'm unfaithful but because I don't agree that monogamy is a healthy way to enjoy my sexuality, I feel that monogamous relationships suppress my genuine sexuality and that is based on experiences of commitment. I've yet to find a partner who feels the same and as such I remain single and promiscuous. I'd be all up for an open relationship with the right person but in my circles this is a taboo subject sadly. I tend to have female friends to fill the emotional void and then have casual sexual relationships to feel that void.

[Prometeo liberado]

I keep it real on the DL with some road dawgs and such. Gots my lovin' touch for sure. You know the whole me and mine thing going on. Keep 'em lined up around the corner like that.:wub:

My name is jbeard and I endorse this nonsense.:(

[Book O'Dead]

I checked "other" Since I just started seeing this girl on Sunday. She seems pretty into me, but her stupid roommate wants to fuck it all up and sabotage me because she is a jealous pile of ass. Little does she know just how charming I can be though. ;)

Boy, all that in just five days!?!

I call that tumultuous.

[Book O'Dead]

I have an 'on again-off again' relationship with a very nice, attractive woman; we are good friends and occasional lovers. As far as I'm concerned, who needs more?

[ВАЛТЕР]

Boy, all that in just five days!?!

I call that tumultuous.


Her and her roomie work at a gym I frequent. I'm there every day. While she works there only when they need someone to cover for another person. So yeah, the roomie kinda knows me already and is jealous I haven't tried to get with her even though she's been flirty.

I hate shit like this. Why can't she fuck off and mind her own business? She's now using things my friends have said, against me. As if I have any control over what they say. Which they have never even brought her up, once.

She called me a "man whore" and a "womanizer" today. It is annoying to have to put up with this disinformation campaign against me. Especially when she doesn't even know me beyond that I come to the gym to train for free because the owner likes me, and that I am a boxer. That is about all she knows.

[Positivist]

It's the worst thing ever...

Now the only way I figure I can stop this is if I get one of my friends to date her roommate for a while, or at least long enough to get her off of my case. However, because she is a stuck up, spoiled, 24 year old brat, I don't think anyone has any interest of speaking to her longer than 5 minutes.

Hahahahaa oh God... in my case I had this one girl who tried to dissuade every girl I began to get involved with for several years. Fortunately I don't have to deal with her anymore.

[Comrade Trollface]

I'm in an open relationship.

[Nox]

There was no "Forever Alone" option so I just put single.

This might sound like a douchebag thing to say, but one of the main things that gives me hope when it comes to relationships is knowing that there's no way any of my friends will get in one before me.

[Book O'Dead]

Hahahahaa oh God... in my case I had this one girl who tried to dissuade every girl I began to get involved with for several years. Fortunately I don't have to deal with her anymore.

For years now I don't date "girls", I date women. For me, girls are females between the ages of 0 to 17.

[Positivist]

Her roomie works at a gym I frequent. I'm there every day. While she works there only when they need someone to cover for another person. So yeah, she kinda knows me already and is jealous I haven't tried to get with her even though she's been flirty.

I hate shit like this. Why can't she fuck off and mind her own business? She's now using things my friends have said, against me. As if I have any control over what they say. Which they have never even brought her up, once.

She called me a "man whore" and a "womanizer" today. It is annoying to have to put up with this disinformation campaign against me. Especially when she doesn't even know me beyond that I come to the gym to train for free because the owner likes me, and that I am a boxer. That is about all she knows.

Yeah, I don't understand the logic behind the actions of people like this. All disrupting relationships like this does is makes the person being disrupted revile the disrupter. Its petty playground games.

[ВАЛТЕР]

Yeah, I don't understand the logic behind the actions of people like this. All disrupting relationships like this does is makes the person being disrupted revile the disrupter. Its petty playground games.

It's because she is a piece of shit who can't stand seeing other people happy.

If she fucks this up, I will make her life a living hell. Not because I am madly in love, but out of principle. However petty and spiteful she wants to be, I can be ten times worse.

[Magón]

In my case, relationships come and go. Sometimes it's just for a couple weeks, others it's for a year or so. I don't invest too much emotion into a relationship, because I don't want whatever woman I'm with, to think I want to get "too serious" and lead to marriage.

It's more have fun, then when we get bored, go our separate ways.

[Positivist]

I'm in an open relationship.

Are you satisfied with this situation, or where you kinda pushed into it? I just know of a lot of people being pushed into these kinda things.

[Positivist]

Single. I don't operate well in scenarios of commitment, not because I'm unfaithful but because I don't agree that monogamy is a healthy way to enjoy my sexuality, I feel that monogamous relationships suppress my genuine sexuality and that is based on experiences of commitment. I've yet to find a partner who feels the same and as such I remain single and promiscuous. I'd be all up for an open relationship with the right person but in my circles this is a taboo subject sadly. I tend to have female friends to fill the emotional void and then have casual sexual relationships to feel that void.

In theory I'm right with you, but unfortunately I fall in love hard and fast, its one of my most despised qualities.

[Agent Ducky]

Single and not giving a single fuck.
I've only been in one relationship before, and that person and I are still really good friends.
My life is awesome.

[Comrade Trollface]

Are you satisfied with this situation, or where you kinda pushed into it? I just know of a lot of people being pushed into these kinda things.I'm satisfied with the arrangement. I was actually dating another person when I met my boyfriend.

[Prometeo liberado]

I checked "other" Since I just started seeing this girl on Sunday. She seems pretty into me, but her stupid roommate wants to fuck it all up and sabotage me because she is a jealous pile of ass. Little does she know just how charming I can be though. ;)

"That" girl huh? These people are sooo miserable and afraid of the happiness that will take others away from sharing in his/her misery that they would sooner live a scorched earth policy rather than begin to try an understand why it is they are alone. The desert and high seas were made for people like this. I am of the firm opinion that this is the sole reason why tigers eat their young. Good luck my friend, your riding the whirlwind on this one. I have a buddy in south Australia that can solve your problem and much more for the low sum of $5,000 American. He calls it "the pro-flogging" solution.


p.s. I may have misspoken. I don't think he can touch her for anything under say, $7,000. Charges by the pound you know.

[Landsharks eat metal]

I'm single. I kind of wish I weren't, but I don't know if I'd be able to handle an actual relationship. I had a boyfriend when I was 17. It lasted one month. I wasn't really attracted to him at all, but he was so nice I felt bad and kind of tried to pretend I was into it even though I was uncomfortable every time he touched me. He was also a bit obsessed with me (which I'm assuming was because he'd liked me for longer and hadn't gotten the opportunity to talk to me until we went to a big Model UN conference together.)

After I broke up with him, I thought based on the experiences that I wasn't really attracted to guys at all, which led to a week or so of believing I was a lesbian until I realized the issue was not with me having a boyfriend, but with me being a girlfriend.

So I'm not really eager to go through the guilt of that again (added to the fact that, a few months later, after graduation, he deleted his Facebook and practically dropped off the face of the earth and I'm worried he killed himself because of me or something), but I really kind of want a boyfriend (or a girlfriend, or a partner of any other gender, but lately I've wanted a boyfriend more), but not one that sees me as a girl, and also someone who understands that me having Asperger's doesn't just mean I'm adorably awkward [which was exactly what my boyfriend thought], but that I am sometimes incapable of fully understanding others' emotions.

Way more information than anyone needs, but I'm feeling kind of outgoing tonight.

[Deicide]

I'm single. Single on purpose. I could get a gf right now if I wanted to. I prefer one night stands and shag buddies. I don't have the time to invest into a serious relationship. Some day perhaps, when I'm older.

[mew]

70% of revleft is single? what a surprise...

[Positivist]

I'm single. I kind of wish I weren't, but I don't know if I'd be able to handle an actual relationship. I had a boyfriend when I was 17. It lasted one month. I wasn't really attracted to him at all, but he was so nice I felt bad and kind of tried to pretend I was into it even though I was uncomfortable every time he touched me. He was also a bit obsessed with me (which I'm assuming was because he'd liked me for longer and hadn't gotten the opportunity to talk to me until we went to a big Model UN conference together.)

After I broke up with him, I thought based on the experiences that I wasn't really attracted to guys at all, which led to a week or so of believing I was a lesbian until I realized the issue was not with me having a boyfriend, but with me being a girlfriend.

So I'm not really eager to go through the guilt of that again (added to the fact that, a few months later, after graduation, he deleted his Facebook and practically dropped off the face of the earth and I'm worried he killed himself because of me or something), but I really kind of want a boyfriend (or a girlfriend, or a partner of any other gender, but lately I've wanted a boyfriend more), but not one that sees me as a girl, and also someone who understands that me having Asperger's doesn't just mean I'm adorably awkward, but that I am sometimes incapable of understanding others' emotions.

Way more information than anyone needs, but I'm feeling kind of outgoing tonight.

Yea I get the whole not falling into the binary gender roles assigned to relationships. My thing is that I seem to frame my behavior around the social environment that I'm in. Because of this I am sometimes more "feminine" around girls which has resulted in some broken relationships.

[Positivist]

70% of revleft is single? what a surprise...

Yes because being in a relationship is somehow a mark of superiority and intelligence...

[Zav]

I checked 'other' because I have no idea what to call it. I've decided not to try and be serious anymore with my Nazi on-off former ex boyfriend. I figure that if he just wants me for sex and porn, then I'll use him just the same. I'd have nothing more to do with him, but he's hot. :blushing:
The mods have been ban-hammering a lot lately, so I hope this doesn't count as Nazi sympathism.

[Positivist]

I checked 'other' because I have no idea what to call it. I've decided not to try and be serious anymore with my Nazi on-off former ex boyfriend. I figure that if he just wants me for sex and porn, then I'll use him just the same. I'd have nothing more to do with him, but he's hot. :blushing:
The mods have been ban-hammering a lot lately, so I hope this doesn't count as Nazi sympathism.

Are you physically a male? I'm just curious because you site yourself as a masculist which leads me to believe that you are, and if you are and your partner identifies as a Nazi and is also male, isn't that a little contradictory?

[Magón]

Model UN conference

Out of all that, this is what's surprised me the most.

THEY ACTUALLY HAVE THOSE!?


Are you physically a male? I'm just curious because you site yourself as a masculist which leads me to believe that you are, and if you are and your partner identifies as a Nazi and is also male, isn't that a little contradictory?

Uh, Ernst Rohm was both a Nazi and homosexual. So no, it's not contradictory, it's rather being one's self.

[Positivist]

Out of all that, this is what's surprised me the most.

THEY ACTUALLY HAVE THOSE!?



Uh, Ernst Rohm was both a Nazi and homosexual. So no, it's not contradictory, it's rather being one's self.

I've heard of them before, but the Nazi ideology is anti-homosexual.

[Magón]

Maybe publicly, but privately, it's another story.

[Nox]

I want at least 10 kids

[Positivist]

So I just overreacted at this girl, and she responded so sweetly. Anyone who can tolerate my outbursts is a keeper.

[bcbm]

im 'dating' a couple people i guess but it isnt serious

[Vladimir Innit Lenin]

In a very happy relationship.

[Vladimir Innit Lenin]

I'm single. Single on purpose. I could get a gf right now if I wanted to. I prefer one night stands and shag buddies. I don't have the time to invest into a serious relationship. Some day perhaps, when I'm older.

Badass in the house.

[bcbm]

every moment spent in a serious relationship before you are 30 is a wasted moment

[Quail]

I'm in a relationship, have been for over a year now. I don't really believe that humans are monogamous and mating for life is the most sexually and/or emotionally fulfilling arrangement, but I'm happy to be in a monogamous relationship with my boyfriend :)

[Leonid Brozhnev]

Been in a relationship for six and a half years, loved every day of it, even the shitty ones where we've fought, argued and nearly broke up. She's highly intelligent, a socialist, couldn't give a shit about marriage or kids, she's on my wavelength for pretty much anything. Funny to think we met while we both lived in the middle of bumfuck nowhere, 5 minutes from each other. At this point it's gone beyond some adolescent fling to get my rocks off, it's caring and respectful, I love that girl immensely, we look out for each other.
Hardly a waste of my time, had I not entered a serious relationship I'd probably still be packing fish in some dingy factory in the middle of fucking nowhere. Might not be the same for everybody but then again, i'm with somebody pretty fucking fantastic:lol:

[Positivist]

Yea with everyone that says monogamous relationships, or even relatioships entered into at too early of an age, I really do agree but I cant seem to pull it off. Guess I'm just not the badass deicide is.

[Blackscare]

I tend to have female friends to fill the emotional void and then have casual sexual relationships to feel that void.
I see what you did there, and I like it.

[#FF0000]

single not really interested in anything serious right now so

[Panda Tse Tung]

Single and not giving a single fuck.
I've only been in one relationship before, and that person and I are still really good friends.
My life is awesome.
In my head this pretty much read as confidence progressively deteriorating into an all-out crying fest (Right around 'My life is awesome'.

[Positivist]

In my head this pretty much read as confidence progressively deteriorating into an all-out crying fest (Right around 'My life is awesome'.

Nah agent ducky is a badass he doesn't cry.

[smellincoffee]

I'm an ordinary man, who desires nothing more than just an ordinary chance, to live exactly as he likes, and do precisely what he wants. An average man am I, of no eccentric whim, Who likes to live his life, free of strife Doing whatever he thinks is best for him.


I'm something of a romantic, really, but I don't anticipate getting in a relationship anytime soon. L'amor is too powerful for my liking.

[cynicles]

Single, not because I want to be. Haven't had a single positive or good sexual experience in my life and I'm 23 already. Increasingly anti-social and the anxiety and depression don't help. I've pretty much almost given up on human contact with the exception of friends and family, relationship and sex don't seem worth it.

[Welshy]

I'm single but I think there is something going on with this girl I'm friends with. Unfortunately there is a lot of geographic distance between us for the time being and right now we are at that stage were it's pretty obvious that we are both interested in each other but either we are too nervous to bring it up or, at least in my case, are trying to find things that disagree with what I've been noticing. I think it will probably go on like this for a couple months unless one of our mutual friends can verify anything for me.

[cynicles]

I'm single but I think there is something going on with this girl I'm friends with. Unfortunately there is a lot of geographic distance between us for the time being and right now we are at that stage were it's pretty obvious that we are both interested in each other but either we are too nervous to bring it up or, at least in my case, are trying to find things that disagree with what I've been noticing. I think it will probably go on like this for a couple months unless one of our mutual friends can verify anything for me.

That sounds tedious.

[Nox]

I'm single but I think there is something going on with this girl I'm friends with. Unfortunately there is a lot of geographic distance between us for the time being and right now we are at that stage were it's pretty obvious that we are both interested in each other but either we are too nervous to bring it up or, at least in my case, are trying to find things that disagree with what I've been noticing. I think it will probably go on like this for a couple months unless one of our mutual friends can verify anything for me.

Just tell her you like her. If you think she likes you too, it's well worth the risk seeing as she could be the woman you live the rest of your life with. Even if it all goes wrong and she doesn't like you, it won't be so awkward because she lives so far away.

[Welshy]

Just tell her you like her. If you think she likes you too, it's well worth the risk seeing as she could be the woman you live the rest of your life with. Even if it all goes wrong and she doesn't like you, it won't be so awkward because she lives so far away.

Well the two of us will be working in the same field of a fairly close knit academic community, so I at least want to keep her around as a close friend and colleague. However I kinda enjoy the period of uncertainty for some reason, so I'm pretty happy where I am with her until our friend can verify.

EDIT: Also she has convinced me to learn japanese (she is a native speaker) and now I'm kinda hooked so I need her to help me practice and to teach me stuff.

[Nox]

Well the two of us will be working in the same field of a fairly close knit academic community, so I at least want to keep her around as a close friend and colleague. However I kinda enjoy the period of uncertainty for some reason, so I'm pretty happy where I am with her until our friend can verify.

EDIT: Also she has convinced me to learn japanese (she is a native speaker) and now I'm kinda hooked so I need her to help me practice and to teach me stuff.

Hmmm. I guess it's your call. Even if she does reject you, it's only awkward if you make it awkward. Like, if a girl asked you out but you didn't like her, you would try not to make it awkward right?

[Welshy]

Hmmm. I guess it's your call. Even if she does reject you, it's only awkward if you make it awkward. Like, if a girl asked you out but you didn't like her, you would try not to make it awkward right?

Yeah though I'm dealing with someone from a culture I don't have much experience with, so just in case I'm playing it a bit safe at the moment. However I'm expecting to know soon, so this issue won't be here for much longer.

[Art Vandelay]

I have been in a relationship for 3 and a half years to the most caring and beautiful girl I have ever got my hands on. While I am pretty young and sometimes miss the freedom of being single, I wouldn't ever be dumb enough to lose the girl of my dreams cause of some non-issue like "were too young for a serious relationship." She is literally the only person who has ever understood me.:wub:

[Nox]

Yeah though I'm dealing with someone from a culture I don't have much experience with, so just in case I'm playing it a bit safe at the moment. However I'm expecting to know soon, so this issue won't be here for much longer.

What culture is she from?

[X5N]

Not in a relationship, no desire to be in one, ever.

[Welshy]

What culture is she from?

She is japanese.

[Igor]

i have my left hand and jack daniels

[Art Vandelay]

i have my left hand and jack daniels

Left hand eh? Very impressive :cool:

[La Guaneña]

Left hand eh? Very impressive :cool:

I've been told that you can sit on your left hand untill it goes kinda senseless, whole new feelings, man. I'VE BEEN TOLD.

[Art Vandelay]

I've been told that you can sit on your left hand untill it goes kinda senseless, whole new feelings, man. I'VE BEEN TOLD.

Haha sure sure....you've been told eh? :laugh:

[Quail]

Oh come on... We don't want to hear about masturbation. There is too much masturbation talk on this website.

[Positivist]

Well this thread is certainly taking an interesting turn. I should've added "jack Daniels and left hand" as an option.

[Quail]

Since you all talk about masturbation so much, I could just gloat that I'm a woman so I can just have orgasm after orgasm when it's just me and my right hand. One of the few advantages of being a woman. Although don't use that against us, anti-feminists.

[Ostrinski]

Oh come on... We don't want to hear about masturbation. There is too much masturbation talk on this website.god this is so true

Time and place people

[Art Vandelay]

In my defense, this is the first time I have ever mentioned it. I just thought that comment was kinda funny.

[RedSonRising]

Haven't had a real romance since two years ago in college. There's simply nobody around. I had a thing for this one girl; we'd hang out for a period, then I'd reveal my feelings (since her body language never suggested an opening for a move, but was never overtly platonic) and she'd be all shocked (though I was pretty obvious) and we'd stop talking, until a year later. This happened a few times. It's that time again, she's texting me to hang out and stuff, but I'm just going to see her without any expectations and leave it at that.

[Nox]

I've always wanted a girlfriend, but lately I've been thinking... What the fuck would we do together? (besides seks) I'm a very introverted person so I am not good in social events and I'm not a good conversationalist. I mainly just play WoW and browse the Chan.

[Quail]

I am quite an introvert and I really appreciate time on my own, but it is nice having a partner I can talk to when I want to talk about stuff and it's nice to get drunk or whatever together, go to concerts, etc. It's nice to have someone to talk to about just stuff and have someone there to cuddle and give/receive emotional support. I can't imagine what I'd do without my partner now.

[rylasasin]

I've always wanted a girlfriend, but lately I've been thinking... What the fuck would we do together? (besides seks) I'm a very introverted person so I am not good in social events and I'm not a good conversationalist. I mainly just play WoW and browse the Chan.

That's pretty much my line of thought as well. Well, that and I tend to think that in this day and age it's just way too risky and probably not worth the effort anyway.

[Nox]

I am quite an introvert and I really appreciate time on my own, but it is nice having a partner I can talk to when I want to talk about stuff and it's nice to get drunk or whatever together, go to concerts, etc. It's nice to have someone to talk to about just stuff and have someone there to cuddle and give/receive emotional support. I can't imagine what I'd do without my partner now.

It would be weird though. I can't imagine living with a partner. I'd just be on my computer all day except for a few times when I walk out and say "can we have seks please"?

[Vladimir Innit Lenin]

Maybe spend more time away from your computer dude?

[Quail]

We do things separately. I like to unsociably watch an episode or two of Star Trek before bed each night and I like to have my space. But you can spend time apart together, if that makes sense, and it's nice to know he's there upstairs playing a game or whatever even if we're not actively spending time together.

[Art Vandelay]

It all changes when you have a partner you really care about; you no longer just think about yourself.

[Crux]

I have sex with people whom I know the name of and, usually have the phone numbers of. I have come to realize, quite seriously, that monogamy simply isn't for me. And it kind of freaks me out. So until I figure this thing out I am the conversation and sex partner of many.

[Quail]

A couple of friends from school that I haven't reallly spoken to in ages are always posting things on facebook about polyamory and I think they've helped to organise stuff like speed dating and meet-ups for people who are polyamorous. Maybe if you investigate you'd find something like that where you are? Or maybe you'll just be lucky enough to find people who'd be happy in an open relationship or whatever.

[Stand Your Ground]

I checked other, I'm in a relationship but considering getting out...:(:confused:

[NoOneIsIllegal]

Single.
Blah.
Crushing hard on a good friend who's also a fellow Wobbly.
I don't want to make things weird, for friendship and union.
I sent her a smiley face
i shouldnt drink

[NoOneIsIllegal]

I've been told that you can sit on your left hand untill it goes kinda senseless, whole new feelings, man. I'VE BEEN TOLD.
it's called...
THE STRANGER

[Positivist]

Single.
Blah.
Crushing hard on a good friend who's also a fellow Wobbly.
I don't want to make things weird, for friendship and union.
I sent her a smiley face
i shouldnt drink

You sound like a fun guy.

[NoOneIsIllegal]

You sound like a fun guy.
:thumbup:
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[Agent Ducky]

Oh come on... We don't want to hear about masturbation. There is too much masturbation talk on this website.
I second this. Seriously.

:thumbup:
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WINKY EMOTES?
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[NoOneIsIllegal]

WINKY EMOTES?
http://static.tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pub/images/darth_vader_nooo_7675.jpeg
My winky emotes are unstoppable!!!! They are spreading all across the internet as I type this.

[Quail]

I always think of winky emoticons as kind of creepy. Because who actually winks at other people IRL?

[helot]

I'm in a relationship and met my partner last year on a picketline. The problem is, though, that sometimes i'd rather just be alone and not bother with relationships.

[human strike]

My girlfriend introduced me to someone as her "ex-boyfriend/boyfriend" the other day. I'm not really certain what that means... According to the state I am her "partner" since we "cohabit", apparently as if we're "married". The state can go fuck itself though. Live without constraints, right?

I guess, in facebook terms, it's "complicated".

[Nox]

I guess, in facebook terms, it's "complicated".

Facebook's the way to go. It's not official until it's facebook official!

[Agent Ducky]

Facebook's the way to go. It's not official until it's facebook official!

Unless your relationship is secret.

In other news, it's fun to change my relationship status on Facebook from time to time and watch people freak the fuck out over nothing. :laugh:

[Le Socialiste]

Unless your relationship is secret.

In other news, it's fun to change my relationship status on Facebook from time to time and watch people freak the fuck out over nothing. :laugh:

I've considered doing this myself just to see how people would react, but always end up deciding against it. :lol:

I've been single for about two years now. My last girlfriend and I (who I was with for about three years) didn't handle our separation well. She started sleeping with a bunch of different people (which I don't necessarily frown on, it just hurt given the context of it all), and I started engaging in behavior that can only be described as destructive. I came out of it though, and I'm thankful we parted ways when we did. We didn't have the healthiest of relationships. But now that over a year has past, I'm starting to miss that closeness and feeling of companionship. It's like I ache (creepy, I know) for want of a relationship. Most times I forget that feeling's there; other times it feels like I've run straight into a brick wall. It's not that I want to get back together with my ex, I'd just like to be in a relationship again.

Anyway...yeah.

[Crux]

A couple of friends from school that I haven't reallly spoken to in ages are always posting things on facebook about polyamory and I think they've helped to organise stuff like speed dating and meet-ups for people who are polyamorous. Maybe if you investigate you'd find something like that where you are? Or maybe you'll just be lucky enough to find people who'd be happy in an open relationship or whatever.
I kind of dislike the word polyamory though. And where I am right now? Haha. No. Just no. In the meantime I'll pretend I'm just in it for the sex. Less complicated and the only one who gets hurt is me. And I mean casually sleeping around is something many people yearn for so I shouldn't complain.