Sexual perversion

[Elysian]

Is there something wrong with sexual fantasies, not talking about the usual fantasies like imagining a beautiful person etc. but fetishes? A nonsexual object or event turns you on, or other weird stuff that turns you on?

Why does it happen? I can understand beautiful thighs or breasts turning you on, but why do certain things like domination, sadism etc. turn you on?

[Sperm-Doll Setsuna]

Is there something wrong with sexual fantasies, not talking about the usual fantasies like imagining a beautiful person etc. but fetishes? A nonsexual object or event turns you on, or other weird stuff that turns you on?

Why does it happen? I can understand beautiful thighs or breasts turning you on, but why do certain things like domination, sadism etc. turn you on?

What is the question, even? I am as perplexed as to why you fancy breasts beautiful as you are baffled by sadism and domination. Do you begin to fathom? Do you know why you find those things attractive? Do people often know specifically why they find a particular thing arousing in some way? I don't think they do. It just flows.

[Igor]

Is there something wrong with sexual fantasies, not talking about the usual fantasies like imagining a beautiful person etc. but fetishes?

No.

[Искра]

Because sex is not just "in-out" thing...

[roy]

How do you know about my sado-masochistic dominatrix fetish?

[Aurora]

No, if you like something you like it, it's not harming anyone else so it's fine. In some cultures breasts aren't considered sexual at all and some cultures don't kiss, to these people you'd be a weird fetishist :p

[gorillafuck]

no. sexual fetish basically means a sexual turn-on that isn't widely practiced by whatever culture you're in.

[Princess Luna]

As long as you are not harming another person against their will, then it is a private matter, and besides I think everybody has a secret fetish of some kind

[#FF0000]

Why does it happen?

Who knows, but nope, there's nothing wrong with it.

[Neoprime]

As long as you are not harming another person against their will, then it is a private matter, and besides I think everybody has a secret fetish of some kind

But what if someones a Pedophile, or into Necrophillia, or love having sex with pigs(and the pig actually show an emotional response to liking it) what if in every scenario all like it(in Necrophilla the person gave thier body for sex under a contract.) what do you say then.:D

[Ostrinski]

Why the fuck do we like boobs anyway. I have always wondered this

[Prometeo liberado]

I can't help but stare when a women is cooking on a professional line. Don't understand it! Is this a food thing or a sex thing? Or maybe a saute' pan thing?

[Os Cangaceiros]

But what if someones a Pedophile, or into Necrophillia, or love having sex with pigs(and the pig actually show an emotional response to liking it) what if in every scenario all like it(in Necrophilla the person gave thier body for sex under a contract.) what do you say then.:D

what the hell are you babbling about?

[Lobotomy]

Why the fuck do we like boobs anyway. I have always wondered this

I heard a theory that large breasts indicate a woman's capability to provide nourishment to offspring, but I could be wrong.

[Ele'ill]

Is there something wrong with sexual fantasies, not talking about the usual fantasies like imagining a beautiful person etc. but fetishes? A nonsexual object or event turns you on, or other weird stuff that turns you on?

Why does it happen? I can understand beautiful thighs or breasts turning you on, but why do certain things like domination, sadism etc. turn you on?

It's pretty common. It has to be consensual and not emotionally or physically harmful in any way. A slippery slope then when physical harm is consensual but I think that tends to be different too.

[The Machine]

It's pretty common. It has to be consensual and not emotionally or physically harmful in any way. A slippery slope then when physical harm is consensual but I think that tends to be different too.

Define physically harmful. I mean if a girl scratches my back so hard that it bleeds that's definitely a little bit physically harmful but it's also hot as fuck so...

[RGacky3]

Whats wierd is asking questions about pyschology, science or whatever on a revolutoinary leftist forum ...

[Caj]

Whats wierd is asking questions about pyschology, science or whatever on a revolutoinary leftist forum ...

It filters out the bourgeois propaganda.

[Sperm-Doll Setsuna]

Why the fuck do we like boobs anyway. I have always wondered this

Do we? I don't like them. I always found them to be detrimental to the overall shape, like foreign parasitic growths wrecking the organic symmetry.

[9]

Whats wierd is asking questions about pyschology, science or whatever on a revolutoinary leftist forum ...

er... why is that weird?


Do we? I don't like them. I always found them to be detrimental to the overall shape, like foreign parasitic growths wrecking the organic symmetry.

that's pretty dumb. I guess you should be content with men, then, because they have no shape anyway :sleep:

[dodger]

Is there something wrong with sexual fantasies, not talking about the usual fantasies like imagining a beautiful person etc. but fetishes? A nonsexual object or event turns you on, or other weird stuff that turns you on?

Why does it happen? I can understand beautiful thighs or breasts turning you on, but why do certain things like domination, sadism etc. turn you on?

I shall give you some sound advice. If you are forced to take part in a sexual act(cause offence not to). Get the beastly business over and done with as soon as possible, preferably with the lights off. You may need to give a running commentary, so that your partner knows when to brace herself before penetration is achieved. A set time each month for penetration is the considerate method, your partner can prepare herself mentally and physically for the coming ordeal. Probably best not to smoke during actual coupling operation.Eating boiled sweets are a NoNo. Music is an aid to getting the right strict tempo rhythm . A British Military Band playing a medley of tunes will suffice. It may drown out any untoward noises your partner might emit. If you don't deviate from these simple instructions I can assure you of a long and splendid married life together. If you have any further questions of a more intimate nature, I will be most happy to furnish you with them by private email. Complete with line drawings and an approximation of where the female sexual organs are to be found.

[MustCrushCapitalism]

I believe in the domino effect. You know, how christian conservatives say that gay marriage will lead to polygamy, bestiality, and so on?

I take it the other way around. I think that if we're not accepting of "strange" and kinky fetishes etc, we'll slowly regress and regress in a domino effect where first homosexuality is rejected, then sex for pleasure as a whole will be rejected and we'll begin a slow decline into a boring society lacking in any kind of sexual diversity whatsoever.

Free love. :thumbup1:

[RGacky3]

er... why is that weird?


Because why the hell would we know any more than anyone else, its like going on a forum about architecture and asking questions about marine life.

[lombas]

I'm gonna have to quote Sade on this issue:

C'est pour rendre heureux tes semblables,
pour les soigner, pour les aider, pour les aimer
que la nature te place au milieu d'eux
et non pour les juger et les punir.

Badly translated:

(It is to give happiness to your fellows
To care for them, help and love them
That Nature puts you in their midst
And not to judge and punish them.)

[9]

Because why the hell would we know any more than anyone else, its like going on a forum about architecture and asking questions about marine life.
IDK, I think psychology and science are a little more relevant to politics than marine life is to architecture.

[hatzel]

Reasonable guidelines for sexy living:

1. Don't masturbate on the street in front of a primary school or some shit. I don't care if it turns you on...it's generally a bad idea. Also don't rub yourself against unsuspecting bums on the train. Naughty. And no matter how hot you think it is, don't kill people or anything like that because you'll be arrested and also it's kinda mean to kill people for your boner.

2. Apart from that you're pretty much okay. Okay there are other limitations but basically you're cool if you don't cause anybody a serious load of mental or physical anguish.

n.b. calling the thread 'sexual perversion' already suggests a certain...disapproval...

[Nothing Human Is Alien]

"I interviewed a young anthropologist working with women in Mali, in a country in Africa where women go around with bare breasts. They're always feeding their babies. And when she told them that in our culture men are fascinated with breasts there was an instant of shock. The women burst out laughing. They laughed so hard, they fell on the floor. They said, 'You mean, men act like babies?'" - Carolyn Latteier, Breasts, the women's perspective on an American obsession

"'Natural' is a very dangerous word to use about sexuality ... Our society's notions of normality are completely fake and meta-trendy, since they rely on the changing standards of superstition, religion, Christianity and gender bias to define themselves. Americans, in particular, exhibit very childish reactions to sexual practices that are new to them, much like little kids who are offered a vegetable they haven't seen before: 'That's disgusting!' 'But darling, you haven't even tried it!' 'I don't care, I hate it, I hate it!'" - Susie Bright and Jill Posner, eds., Nothing But the Girl

[ÑóẊîöʼn]

I believe in the domino effect. You know, how christian conservatives say that gay marriage will lead to polygamy, bestiality, and so on?

I take it the other way around. I think that if we're not accepting of "strange" and kinky fetishes etc, we'll slowly regress and regress in a domino effect where first homosexuality is rejected, then sex for pleasure as a whole will be rejected and we'll begin a slow decline into a boring society lacking in any kind of sexual diversity whatsoever.

Free love. :thumbup1:

You're sort of on to something here. Sexual lust is a primal thing with it's own goals and functions that can extend beyond mere reproduction. I can't help but notice that religion and authoritarian governments have an overwhelming tendency to try and control human sexuality. It seems that authoritarians take it as a personal affront that people could spend their time rubbing their naughty bits together for mutual pleasure rather than be out giving glory to God or the State, and thus do their best to stamp out healthy forms of sexual expression whenever and wherever they gain power. Demonisation of homosexuality, the cultivation of transphobic attitudes, and various other attacks on sexual minorities are used by authoritarians to "otherise" a select group for the purposes of scapegoating.

This kind of attempt to control sexuality for political purposes is even more blatant in cults.

[Luís Henrique]

I think everybody has a secret fetish of some kind

Except me, of course; I have no feetish at all.

Oops... :blushing:

Luís Henrique

[Anarpest]

Why the fuck do we like boobs anyway. I have always wondered this

Men like things they can't see. Same reason people like God, in fact.

[RGacky3]

I think it also has to do (According to some people in evolutionary biology) with the fact that it shows youthfullness and health, not the size of the breast but its perkiness, and large breasts show it more.