17-Year-Old Virgin?

[Tovarisch]

Is it bad that I'm a 17-year-old virgin? It seems like everybody around my age has already lost it, and is constantly bragging about it. It gets annoying whenever I tell someone that I'm a virgin, and they think that I'm a loser:(


I only have 23 years to go before they make a movie about me

[Metacomet]

I'll just say I'm older then you and I'm a virgin.

Don't sweat.

[Tenka]

Never succumb to the peer pressure.

[Ostrinski]

Never lose it. Chastity is the revolutionary way.

[Ocean Seal]

Is it bad that I'm a 17-year-old virgin?

No, chill the fuck out, a lot of people have it worse.


It seems like everybody around my age has already lost it, and is constantly bragging about it.

Well I've had sex with 69 women. See what I did there, its called lying.



It gets annoying whenever I tell someone that I'm a virgin, and they think that I'm a loser:(

Stop telling people then and stop complaining.



I only have 23 years to go before they make a movie about me
You do realize how ridiculous this sounds right.

[hatzel]

Pro-tip: the more somebody brags about having sex, the less likely they are to be having (regular) sex, or, in fact, to have ever had sex. Okay I don't have any evidence to back that up with but the point is loads of people bullshit about this kind of stuff. So people won't think they're losers.

[Fawkes]

Is it bad that I'm a 17-year-old virgin?

No, who gives a shit? People who judge coolness off sexual experiences are douches. I was 19 when I lost mine.

[Rafiq]

Think. You haven't had sexual intercoarse with another human and your 17 years of age. What exactly is there to be ashamed of?

[Prometeo liberado]

Most people around your age are gonna lie about. The worst thing that you could do is obsess over it. This will only lead to bad decisions in even worse situations. When it happens it will happen, but please, please I implore you PLEASE! Have that talk about protection. Please!

[Agent Ducky]

Yeah, chill out. It's not like a badge or some shit. It's not bad.
It will happen when you're ready. All the people who brag/tell you you're a loser can go fuck themselves, their opinions count for shit. I'm 16 and a virgin, don't plan on changing that anytime soon. People who judge you for that aren't worth your time and energy.

[gorillafuck]

I'm 18 and I'm a virgin. it's fine.

also if you actually are forced into situations where you have to mention it, that sounds really irritating...

[Ostrinski]

Also 18 and a virgin. Virgins of the world unite imo

[Os Cangaceiros]

Well sexuality is a personal thing, you've gotta work that shit out for yourself. Kind of ridiculous to make other people make you feel bad about it...

[Pretty Flaco]

Lost mine when I was 16, but I sort of regret losing it to the person I lost it to because she cared a lot more for me than I did for her and it caused a shit storm of drama. But we enjoyed our sex while it lasted.

But honestly when people ask me if I'm a virgin I don't answer. I've fucked in some crazy places (a moving car, on a picnic bench in a park) but honestly it's nobody's fuckin business.

[Fawkes]

Sex is an enormously powerful marketing tool. Therefore, archetypes are created of teenagers that go around and fuck whoever they want that aid in the perpetuation of what is ultimately a myth. I didn't know a single person in high school who had had sex with more than a handful of people. Skins and all those other shows are bullshit, that's not how it really is/was for 99% of us.

If you're worried about not having had sex because you wish to be able to claim it as some status symbol, just try to think about the people that would judge you on that basis and whether it's even worth anything to try to impress them.

If you're worried about not having had sex because you feel left out of the connection and experience that comes with it, then maybe you just haven't found someone you feel comfortable having sex with yet. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that.


Sex in and of itself isn't particularly special anyway

[Ostrinski]

it's nobody's fuckin business.i see what you did there

[Fawkes]

Plus, just remember, the cool kids in high school always suck ass later in life and vice versa

[GatesofLenin]

I'll just say I'm older then you and I'm a virgin.

Don't sweat.

Same here. Don't feel forced to have to lose your virginity. Wait for the right person.

[Ostrinski]

I think it's also fair to point out that most people who brag about their sexual adventures are chauvinist scumbags.

[black magick hustla]

its ok. i didnt get naked with a girl until i was 18, and it was a random stranger chain smoking girl on the floor of some party. and then after that i didnt get any until i was in my 20s. just don't announce it around because unfortunately we live in a shitty world where people judge you on that and it affects your relationships.

[¿Que?]

This thread is epic.

Seriously, I think sex is a roller coaster of emotions, a magical ride into the abyss of ambiguity.

Point is, make sure you're tall enough to ride, or you might screw your life.

[Shotgun Opera]

If you're happy staying a virgin for now, then why does it matter if other people think it's good or bad?

I had sex very young and I dont regret it, but I dont fault others for making different choices. It depends how you want to live your life.

If abstaining for now is what you want, then why worry?

[Princess Luna]

I am 20 and a virgin

[NewLeft]

lol There's a couple who went around bragging about their amazing sex for about a good three years... They later came out as virgins.

17 and virgin is probably the norm. People are lying.. They full of shit...

[o well this is ok I guess]

Yeah OP just lie about it, nobody gives a shit enough to actually question that sort of thing.
But it's probably best to choose one lie and stick with it. It's a little hard to have to micromanage your co-workers based on which lies you told which ones.

[Veovis]

I was 20, and I only lost it because I made a conscious decision to sleep around. If I had waited until I was in a stable relationship where it would mean something, I'd still be a virgin. :(

[black magick hustla]

lol wtf, what is the point of "meaning something". i hate when people who lost their virginity say stuff like that. some people dont get the social pressure/social stigma/embarrassment with being a virgin. all your friends talk about their sexual escapades and you stay quite or make up something. when you are dating a girl, you can't say you are avirgin because that is a big red flag with a lot of people. i think people who say it doesn't mean anything are being patronizing, especially those who lost it really early. Sometimes people try to give all sorts of "comforting" platitudes that in this real, shitty world, mean nothing.

[Buitraker]

Be punk


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[Zealot]

I think you'd be surprised about how common a "17-Year-Old Virgin" is. I remember reading a list of celebrities and the ages they lost their virginity and they were all around 18-20+. Those who brag about how many women they've slept with are, as a rule, full of shit and it's nothing new.

[The Douche]

I don't think your situation is abnormal, lots of people are still virgins in high school.

[brigadista]

your choice - forget what others say - most of them are lying

[RedAnarchist]

I'm 25 and still a virgin, and I see nothing wrong with that. Ignore the desperate braggers and be yourself. Sex is not as important as they or society like to think.

[feral bro]

party harder.

[Thirsty Crow]

Is it bad that I'm a 17-year-old virgin? It seems like everybody around my age has already lost it, and is constantly bragging about it. It gets annoying whenever I tell someone that I'm a virgin, and they think that I'm a loser:(


I only have 23 years to go before they make a movie about me
Oh what the fuck.
I'd imagine it's annoying (no one really did brag openly and annoy other people where I grew up), but maybe you could try not giving a flying fuck about what a bunch of kids is expecting you to have done.

I remember reading a list of celebrities and the ages they lost their virginity and they were all around 18-20+
I can't imagine why would anyone want to do that (read the list, to be clear).

[Sasha]

Don't stress it, as long as you dont socially isolate yourself it will happen soon enough.
Assuming your a guy i think 17 is even still on average for straight people in most countries, if your gay its even later.
I had my first time really young, then got nowhere again for about 3 years, then made it all up again in a couple crazy years between long term steady relationships.
Even in my current ltr the amount comes en goes in waves.
And the only people I know who are still or mostly virgins now are more or less asexual and not really interested anyway
Long incoherent rambling story short; in all likelihood you'll get your end away soon enough.

[Nox]

I'm 17, and I only know a few people who could have lost their virginity.

I haven't even kissed a girl yet, and neither have most people I know. I couldn't even imagine most people I know losing their virginity anytime soon, but then again, I couldn't imagine myself losing my virginity soon either.

The rule of thumb is that if you're still a virgin after college/university, you're doing something wrong.

What you've got to do is try to expand your social network as much as possible. The more people you know, the more new people you'll meet (including girls) and you'll meet even more people through them.



Source: 17 year old who thinks he knows everything about love

[The Douche]

17 year olds haven't kissed people? That seems so fucking strange to me, but I'm sure we run in different circles.

[Zealot]

I can't imagine why would anyone want to do that (read the list, to be clear).

They were complete interviews but this was one question that was asked to each of them.

[feral bro]

yeah, being 17 and a virgin doesn't matter, unless it bothers you. i can understand younger people being virgins, that don't want to be virgins, more than older ones though, obviously.
don't people round here go to pubs, clubs and parties?
i mean sex is epic and plently of people want to fuck. so if you really want to get down to it then it shouldn't be that hard. unless, of course you're waiting for something special or some shit.

[Nox]

17 year olds haven't kissed people? That seems so fucking strange to me, but I'm sure we run in different circles.

Most people I know have never had a girlfriend. Myself included.

[piet11111]

Im 26 and still a virgin i just don't know any women i like enough to actually have sex with.

Small town so i grew up with most of them.

[Bronco]

I think there's definitely more pressure on guys to have sex than girls, mainly because of things like American Pie and Superbad, and over here in the UK the Inbetweeners, where it's presented as a kind of necessity to get laid before you go to University/College, and you're weird if you don't. There also seems to be kind of an idea where at Uni you're having sex all the time which isn't really true, if you were successful before going then maybe but if you weren't than it isn't going to suddenly become really easy, it depends more on you than the place you are. I'm 18 and only had sex once and that was when I was very drunk and nervous, the same with my first kiss actually lol, but yeah I think it's made out to be a bigger deal than it is, don't feel like it's something you have to rush into, just relax about it and it'll happen when it happens

[gorillafuck]

this is the thread in which leftist guys say that they are still virgins

guess revleft is full of pretty huge freaks, eh?!?

[Sasha]

Even worse, now I'm starting to feel a freak with my 14...

[NoOneIsIllegal]

Don't worry about it. Everyone tries to brag about it in high school, but honestly: it doesn't matter. It only matters to you, it isn't of their concern.
There's no problem waiting. What's the rush? If you aren't comfortable with it, or whatever the reason is, don't sweat it. The right time will come, eventually.
Before I lost it to the girl I did lose it with, I had an ex or two where we kind-of made plans to have sex but we both decided against it. In retrospect, I'm still glad we made those decisions mutually. Hell, I was so dumb in my younger kids. If we had gone through it, I may of ended up with a kid. Yikes.

[#FF0000]

I think there's definitely more pressure on guys to have sex than girls

A lot of girls I know lie about it too.

[Misanthrope]

I'm 16 and a virgin I guess. I've had girls suck my weeny and have had multiple opportunities to have vaginal intercourse but just never went down. I don't really put in any effort at all with the ladies either lol... and I'm a commie nerd. I have the brain of a 13 year old

[Thirsty Crow]

I'm 16 and a virgin I guess. I've had girls suck my weeny and have had multiple opportunities to have vaginal intercourse but just never went down. I don't really put in any effort at all with the ladies either lol... and I'm a commie nerd. I have the brain of a 13 year old
Now that's what I'd call a screaming discrepancy in rhetorics within just one sentence :laugh::laugh:

[Nox]

I hope to lose my virginity by age 20. I refuse to enter my 20's as a virgin. When I start university I've sworn to myself that I will be much more sociable and pretend to be confident (even though I'm not) and go to parties etc as well as get as many jobs as possible and join lots of clubs to meet people. It's a sharp contrast to my life at the moment lol

[gorillafuck]

I hope to lose my virginity by age 20. I refuse to enter my 20's as a virgin.being a virgin isn't something you can "refuse", lol.

[Nox]

being a virgin isn't something you can "refuse", lol.

Metaphorically speaking ;)

[The Young Pioneer]

Virginity is a stupid concept.

I'm female.

When I was 9 my doctor told me gymnastics had already "broken" me, so what virginity was I supposed to lose after that? :rolleyes:

I'm 22 and have never had a penis in me.

(That said, I've had plenty of nice female-on-female action, as is my preference.)

Sexual experiences are what you appreciate them as- Don't let others define your concept of self.

[Misanthrope]

I hope to lose my virginity by age 20. I refuse to enter my 20's as a virgin. When I start university I've sworn to myself that I will be much more sociable and pretend to be confident (even though I'm not) and go to parties etc as well as get as many jobs as possible and join lots of clubs to meet people. It's a sharp contrast to my life at the moment lol

aren't you the one who always brags about cheating on his girl friend:rolleyes:

[Nox]

aren't you the one who always brags about cheating on his girl friend:rolleyes:

Yeah I was bullshitting lol, do you really think I'm that mean!?

[¿Que?]

Keep in mind folks, that if you have sex, and then you go through a dry spell of 1 year or more, you become a born again virgin, so says Urban Dictionary, anyway.

So you see, you not only have to get it once. You have to keep getting it, at least once a year, for the rest of your life!!!

Otherwise, you're back to your unpopular status.

[feral bro]

y'all should have an orgy or someting.

[TheGodlessUtopian]

I'm 19 and still a virgin... I'm cool with it; high school will come and go, forget what the jackasses there say.Whether or not you have actually had a chance to spill seed in a person's orifice as versus your hand does not matter.

[Искра]

I fuck like a beast. I'm an animal (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pxHl3gr-WMM).

[Nox]

Put it this way: If I haven't got a girlfriend by the end of university, it's off to Eastern Europe for me.

[Sasha]

Put it this way: If I haven't got a girlfriend by the end of university, it's off to Eastern Europe for me.

What? Option 3 will be Thailand and 4 Africa? What kind of leftist where you again?

[Искра]

What kind of leftist where you again?
An anarchist.

[Crux]

Put it this way: If I haven't got a girlfriend by the end of university, it's off to Eastern Europe for me.
Yes. Siberia.

[Искра]

Yes. Siberia.
That's in Asia.

[Sasha]

An anarchist.

Strange, most anarchists at least try to keep a fineer of feminism.. not i believed nox was an anarchist to begin with...

[Nox]

What? Option 3 will be Thailand and 4 Africa? What kind of leftist where you again?

I was being sarcastic, lol.

[Искра]

I was being sarcastic, lol.
Sarcasm should be funny, you know...

[Crux]

That's in Asia.
So's your face.

[Crux]

As for the OP, don't sweat it. Even if they are having sex it is probably terribly bad sex.

[Susurrus]

I'm seventeen, in the last half-year of HS and haven't so much as been hugged in a romantic fashion, nor ever had a partner. Do I give any sort of a fuck? No. (Pun time: because I've haven't received any fucks to give lolololol110101).

[Искра]

So's your face.
My face is in mirror.

[Crux]

My face is in mirror.
That's a window.

[Agent Ducky]

(Pun time: because I've haven't received any fucks to give lolololol110101).

Man, I fucking hate it when people punnify that.
like
Me: "I don't give a fuck!"
Guy: "I wish you did. Mostly to me."
Me: ":cursing:"

[Susurrus]

Man, I fucking hate it when people punnify that.


Sorry, I had to.

[Lucretia]

Losing virginity is a process not a single act. Stop being so melodramatic.

[TheGodlessUtopian]

Losing virginity is a process not a single act. Stop being so melodramatic.

How is it a process? :confused:

[Искра]

It's permanent penetration.

[gorillafuck]

How is it a process? :confused:it can take from a few months even up to a year with many regularly scheduled appointments to fully eradicate virginity from your body

[Искра]

it can take from a few months even up to a year with many regularly scheduled appointments to fully eradicate virginity from your body
what a bollocks... it's goes like this: you put your dick in, you put your dick out.. .you do a hokey pokey.... blah blah blah

[gorillafuck]

what a bollocks... it's goes like this: you put your dick in, you put your dick out.. .you do a hokey pokey.... blah blah blahno, if you try to get rid of all of it at once then you'll still have a shitload of it left. it also builds back up very quickly if it's not professionally dealt with and medicated for.

[Franz Fanonipants]

pro-tip you guys are all babies

[Agent Ducky]

Also when you're a teenager it always seems like "everyone around you is doing X" but in reality a lot of people aren't, and just don't brag loudly about it. It's like the vocal minority vs. the silent majority...

[NewLeft]

lol i bet people on here claiming to be virgins are on some bullshit too..

[NewLeft]

solution to revleft's virginity: huge revolutionary orgy, liberate yourselves.. you chastes

[Fawkes]

I was being sarcastic, lol.

Yeah, and you did a very poor job.

[Agent Ducky]

solution to revleft's virginity: huge revolutionary orgy, liberate yourselves.. you chastes

DO NOT WANT.
http://c.cslacker.com/802l.jpg

[smk]

Why would you want to have sex? I would prefer to be liberated from such addictions of the body.

[A Revolutionary Tool]

solution to revleft's virginity: huge revolutionary orgy, liberate yourselves.. you chastes
I agree with the concept but the problem is us guys seem to vastly outnumber the girls...

[A Revolutionary Tool]

Why would you want to have sex?
Because it's awesome...

But really dude, don't even sweat that shit. I lost my virginity when I was pretty young because I wanted to fit in with all the other cool kids who were doing it(Now that I think back I think they were full of shit too) and I think that was a stupid decision. I haven't had sex in a while and I could probably do without for the rest of my life, it's not really a big deal anymore to me, to bad a lot of other people don't see eye-to-eye with me on that. Also it could be fun but it can also really fuck with your emotions.

[Klaatu]

...It seems like everybody around my age has already lost it, and is constantly bragging about it.


I will bet they are lying. Most of them probably are greatly exaggerating their sex lives. ;)

[Nox]

I agree with the concept but the problem is us guys seem to vastly outnumber the girls...

gangbang

[Sasha]

gangbang

Hey, another "joke" I guess, have a infraction...


(besides the obvious and usual solution to too much boys in a orgy is having them do each other instead of mass abuse of the few girls but that of course didn't cross your misogynist little brain)

[Paulappaul]

I'm 12, what is this?

[Thirsty Crow]

Also when you're a teenager it always seems like "everyone around you is doing X" but in reality a lot of people aren't, and just don't brag loudly about it. It's like the vocal minority vs. the silent majority...
Oh how do I hate you for bringing up this idea of a "silent majority".

What I've been saying to strikebreakers, I'll say it here: there's no majority if it doesn't express its views :p

[Obs]

Why would you want to have sex? I would prefer to be liberated from such addictions of the body.
Hahaha, it's funny because you're lying to yourself and your life is boring and your self-esteem is crippled


Hey, another "joke" I guess, have a infraction...


(besides the obvious and usual solution to too much boys in a orgy is having them do each other instead of mass abuse of the few girls but that of course didn't cross your misogynist little brain)
Now I hate Nox as much as the next guy but a gangbang (as much as I hate that term) is not necessarily abuse.

[Thirsty Crow]

Hahaha, it's funny because you're lying to yourself and your life is boring and your self-esteem is crippled
Penetrating insight, comrade.

[Sasha]

Now I hate Nox as much as the next guy but a gangbang (as much as I hate that term) is not necessarily abuse.

If its not abusive its just called an orgy...
anyways I gave him a infraction for trolling, not sexism, he should count his blessings as those expire.

[TheGodlessUtopian]

Pro-tip: Axe body spray will not do you any favors in trying to attract a mate as every woman I have talked to seems to hate the stuff... also every man I have talked to says the same when smelling it on other guys.

[NoOneIsIllegal]

Why would you want to have sex? I would prefer to be liberated from such addictions of the body.
I'll probably get shit for this post from some people but I really don't give a fuck.
Oh, and forewarned TMI-alert: (you should expect that in a sex thread)

I enjoy sex. However, it makes a big difference between someone you enjoy being with, and casual sex. I realized with my last ex, I hadn't truly enjoyed sex until then. I mean, I had some good times in the past (including steady ex's), but it felt empty, pointless, meaningless, passionless. Being with her sent it to a completely different level.

Having sex with someone you have great passion for really does make a difference from sex with a stranger for the sake of getting off.
I'm not trying to make it sound like life is some sort of fairytale. The person you lose your virginity to, face it: you two aren't going to last a lifetime. If you enjoy casual sex, good for you, I have no problem with it. But if you're a virgin, don't go trying to lose it for the sake of losing it.

[El Chuncho]

Hahaha, it's funny because you're lying to yourself and your life is boring and your self-esteem is crippled


Now I hate Nox as much as the next guy but a gangbang (as much as I hate that term) is not necessarily abuse.

Yeah, not if a gangbang is consensual (and if it is non-consensual it is gang rape), but sadly many leftists have a pseudo-puritan view of sexuality so they project sexism and abuse into anything. It doesn't matter if there are more men in a gangbang, it doesn't matter if there are more women in a gangbang, it is only abuse if it is non-consensual (e.g. rape). Same with threesomes, twosomes, double penetrations etc. etc.

I am not keen on many things sexually, but I am not going to pretend that they are abusing and that people have no right to practice consensual sexual acts in their own private time. Each to their own I say, people having orgies is not a problem, it is just what they find to be fun and sexually stimulation. Why should they be oppressed for it? That is bullshit. I'd say that people who have a problem with the sexuality of others have the most problems and are possibly projecting their own inner-sexism into such acts, and seeing them as abuse.

[Oswy]

Is it bad that I'm a 17-year-old virgin? It seems like everybody around my age has already lost it, and is constantly bragging about it. It gets annoying whenever I tell someone that I'm a virgin, and they think that I'm a loser:(


I only have 23 years to go before they make a movie about me

No it's not bad, it'll happen when it happens. And in my experience those who 'brag' about their conquests turn out to be very insecure and/or are making stuff up to appear 'cool' or worldly.

[Sasha]

Yeah, not if a gangbang is consensual (and if it is non-consensual it is gang rape), but sadly many leftists have a pseudo-puritan view of sexuality so they project sexism and abuse into anything. It doesn't matter if there are more men in a gangbang, it doesn't matter if there are more women in a gangbang, it is only abuse if it is non-consensual (e.g. rape). Same with threesomes, twosomes, double penetrations etc. etc.

I am not keen on many things sexually, but I am not going to pretend that they are abusing and that people have no right to practice consensual sexual acts in their own private time. Each to their own I say, people having orgies is not a problem, it is just what they find to be fun and sexually stimulation. Why should they be oppressed for it? That is bullshit. I'd say that people who have a problem with the sexuality of others have the most problems and are possibly projecting their own inner-sexism into such acts, and seeing them as abuse.

We are going wildly and disturbingly off topic here discussing orgies and gangbangs in a innocent thread about virginity but while I completely agree with what I think is your point (i pride myself on being one of the most sexpositive members of this board) I strongly disagree with your portrayal of a gangbang as a another act of consensual sex.
Maybe its definition in years of glorification in porn, bro-culture and consensual role playing got wattered down but in its origin a gangbang is by definition abusive.

[Crux]

I just had sex. This feels like the appropriate thread to sexbrag. It was great. And just to get us off the topic of "gangbang".

[El Chuncho]

Maybe its definition in years of glorification in porn, bro-culture and consensual role playing got wattered down but in its origin a gangbang is by definition abusive.

That might be true, but it just means ''orgy'' pretty much now, in every day talk, although I am sure gang rapists will no doubt use it. People do consent to orgies, therefore it is consensual sex. Gangbangs that are not consensual are gang rape.

Many slang terms words used to have more sinister meanings than they do now. But humans either allow words to get more negative (such as common words like ''shit'', ''fuck'' and ''****'' - all traditional and polite names in English, deriving from Old English) or more positive. It is just human nature, I guess.

The fact that people use ''gangbang'' as another word for consensual orgies, whilst others use it for gang rape. means that ''gangbang'' has multiply definitions* (as is actually very common with words) and thus can be consensual or non-consensual, now - though I do fundamentally agree that it did have a negative origin and thus probably should not have been adopted into slang as a neutral (negative or positive) term. I know nothing of bro-culture etc that you have mention but I do know some modern slang1.

*[SIZE="1"]gang·bang or gang-bang (gngbng)
n. Vulgar Slang
1. Sexual intercourse, often rape, involving one person or victim and several others who have relations with that person in rapid succession.
2. Sexual intercourse involving several people who select and change partners.

[Nox]

I didn't mean it as rape but w/e

[Quail]

That might be true, but it just means ''orgy'' pretty much now, in every day talk, although I am sure gang rapists will no doubt use it. People do consent to orgies, therefore it is consensual sex. Gangbangs that are not consensual are gang rape.

Many slang terms words used to have more sinister meanings than they do now. But humans either allow words to get more negative (such as common words like ''shit'', ''fuck'' and ''****'' - all traditional and polite names in English, deriving from Old English) or more positive. It is just human nature, I guess.

The fact that people use ''gangbang'' as another word for consensual orgies, whilst others use it for gang rape. means that ''gangbang'' has multiply definitions* (as is actually very common with words) and thus can be consensual or non-consensual, now - though I do fundamentally agree that it did have a negative origin and thus probably should not have been adopted into slang as a neutral (negative or positive) term. I know nothing of bro-culture etc that you have mention but I do know some modern slang1.

*[SIZE="1"]gang·bang or gang-bang (gngbng)
n. Vulgar Slang
1. Sexual intercourse, often rape, involving one person or victim and several others who have relations with that person in rapid succession.
2. Sexual intercourse involving several people who select and change partners.

See the problem with using a word that can mean consensual or non-consensual group sex on an internet forum is that when you just see a word written down, you don't get any sense of whether it's meant in a negative or positive way. So to avoid being misunderstood, read back what you've written and if it could be misconstrued as offensive, don't post it.

[feral bro]

this is bollocks. go make total penertration already.

[gorillafuck]

We are going wildly and disturbingly off topic here discussing orgies and gangbangs in a innocent thread about virginity but while I completely agree with what I think is your point (i pride myself on being one of the most sexpositive members of this board) I strongly disagree with your portrayal of a gangbang as a another act of consensual sex.
Maybe its definition in years of glorification in porn, bro-culture and consensual role playing got wattered down but in its origin a gangbang is by definition abusive.is that even a thing in the Netherlands?

[Sasha]

We have got "kelder-box sex" and "breezersletjes" as established kind of related terms, the former being the personal storage boxes in the basement of working-class estates where a lot of juvenile sexual behaviir and abuse take place, the latter being pubescent girls trading sexual favors for next to nothing (in this case liqour)

[kuros]

have a infraction..
It's called an infraction :tt2:

[gorillafuck]

We have got "kelder-box sex" and "breezersletjes" as established kind of related terms, the former being the personal storage boxes in the basement of working-class estates where a lot of juvenile sexual behaviir and abuse take place, the latter being pubescent girls trading sexual favors for next to nothing (in this case liqour)these terms don't sound very related to "bro-culture", tbh.

[Sasha]

these terms don't sound very related to "bro-culture", tbh.

The boys doing it there with those girls have a culture somewhere between bro-culture and gangbangers, its hard to explain let's just say that all the same mechanisms and cultural behavior wich lead to "girlfriends" ending up gang raped happen here just as it happens in everything including and between gangs and frathouses in the u.s.

[gorillafuck]

The boys doing it there with those girls have a culture somewhere between bro-culture and gangbangers, its hard to explain let's just say that all the same mechanisms and cultural behavior wich lead to "girlfriends" ending up gang raped happen here just as it happens in everything including and between gangs and frathouses in the u.s.I'm even more confused now...

please explain what you think a frat house is. because I think you're seriously misunderstanding how rape occurs at fraternities.

[Ravachol]

We have got "kelder-box sex" and "breezersletjes" as established kind of related terms, the former being the personal storage boxes in the basement of working-class estates where a lot of juvenile sexual behaviir and abuse take place, the latter being pubescent girls trading sexual favors for next to nothing (in this case liqour)

I had never heard of the former term before. See, that's why I come to revleft, to learn about abusive sex slang in my own country.

[Agent Ducky]

Oh how do I hate you for bringing up this idea of a "silent majority".

What I've been saying to strikebreakers, I'll say it here: there's no majority if it doesn't express its views :p

You know I wasn't referring to that. Virginity isn't a matter of views. :lol:

[piet11111]

I'm even more confused now...

please explain what you think a frat house is. because I think you're seriously misunderstanding how rape occurs at fraternities.

Get a bunch of girls in a place encourage them to binge drink and then use peer pressure to have them do sexual acts.

If they wont drink or do stuff then they are not-cool etc etc
Thats what happens in kelderbox sex and what i suspect happens in fraternity's too.

[gorillafuck]

Get a bunch of girls in a place encourage them to binge drink and then use peer pressure to have them do sexual acts.

If they wont drink or do stuff then they are not-cool etc etc
Thats what happens in kelderbox sex and what i suspect happens in fraternity's too.what you described isn't gang rape. we need to be careful to not throw around terms like that.

[The Stalinator]

Ah, who cares how old you are when you lose your virginity? It happens when it happens, I'm a very shy person so I can't see myself getting rid of it before 18. The only reason why it's seen as some sort of embarrassment to lose it late is because of societal constructs that don't make an ounce of sense. Don't worry.

[kitsune]

I remember that time, around 16 or 17, when everyone was a little anxious about it. I suppose nobody wanted to be that awkward kid sitting by the punchbowl staring at their shoes while everyone else is out on the dance floor having a good time.

I figured it would happen when the time was right. There were a few opportunities, but it just didn't feel like the thing to do and then one time, for whatever reason, it did.

[Azraella]

Don't feel bad. I lost mine when I was 23.

Hell, I think the idea of sex is generally disgusting. Don't let peer pressure get you.

[Sendo]

Get a bunch of girls in a place encourage them to binge drink and then use peer pressure to have them do sexual acts.

If they wont drink or do stuff then they are not-cool etc etc
Thats what happens in kelderbox sex and what i suspect happens in fraternity's too.

You've been watching Girls Gone Wild? You realize those aren't meant to be documentaries, right?

I can't get mad about this anymore. It's just funny. People have no clue about fraternities, whatsoever, but they know the horrible truth because they're not in fraternities and are so smart for not being a "frat boy" (!) But they all usually go to frat parties, drink the beer, meet people they'll leave with and sleep with. Or the people who think like this choose not to drink at all but feel like frat boys are easy to look down even though frat boys (like college students in general) have seen a trend of fewer drinkers but more intense drinkers.

Of course, most people who say this are in the 16-26 age range, when your average man or woman has discovered the truth of the universe and knows how things REALLY work.

When a rape occurs in a dormitory or in some non-fraternity club, it is usually only the person responsible who gets punished. Before the whole Duke Lacrosse deal, sports teams weren't much of a target, to my recollection. My alma mater had a rape in a dormitory building across the street from a series of fraternities. The building was a dormitory on "Fraternity Road." All the city papers reported it as a fraternity or implied it by saying "on Fraternity Road" without context.

It's like fraternities are country clubs, drug dens, boot camp, and Hell's Angels all at once. Nevermind that many fraternities actively combat racism or are chartered specifically to multi-cultural.

Many prep schools are racist and reactionary and train trust-fund kids to grow up to be GOP bigwigs. All private schools, nay, all schools are bad. Many pro athletes are violent criminals. Many pro football/baseball/basketball players get in lawsuits over sexual misconduct. Many association football fan clubs are racist/chauvinist/fascist and start riots.

Now let's talk about how high school football players are jocks and bullies.

[Nox]

This might sound harsh, but sometimes knowing that my friends probably won't lose their v-card before me makes me feel a little better about being a virgin.

[Sendo]

My advice to the OP. Never think of it as "losing virginity." Sex is just something people may or may not do depending on mood/day/relationship status/circumstance.

It's like going on a roller coaster. I'd be glad if I got the opportunity to go on a roller coaster tomorrow, but I'd rather not today. It's been a while, but so what. My friend Charles, has never been on a roller coaster before, but I don't have a special label for him.

Whether or not you go on a roller coaster in 2012 has no impact on whether you are able to ride a roller coaster in June 2015 and it has no impact on whether or not you enjoy your roller coaster ride in June 2015. None whatsoever.

I had the most opportunities to go on a roller coaster during high school and college on a whim before I had a year-round full-time job, but whether I went on a roller coaster 2 times or 200 times when I was in high school won't affect my ability to get on a roller coaster in 2012 or 2013 or 2015. It won't affect my enjoyment either. I might have wished I could have gone on the roller coaster more times in my life, but I got to go on the water slide and that was fun. It's not like I have to or can go on the roller coaster every time I go to the theme park. Sometimes I only have time for the Ferris Wheel and Pirate ship.

I know you'll be nervous the first time and you might keep your eyes closed during most of it. Don't worry, you'll get more chances to go on the roller coaster again. Some people like to go with their friends. Some like to go on the roller coaster, get off, then get back in line immediately. Sometimes the roller coaster is closed for repairs and it's not your fault. You might even find out you like the Condor ride equally or even more. I personally prefer roller coasters, but to each his own.

The best roller coasters are ones where you have to pay to enter the park and get all the rides for free as long you are "tall" enough. It will probably involve a full day of walking around and stopping for food. Avoid the cheap carnivals that come to your town. They may seem like an easy thing, but if you're paying for each ride, it's probably of lower quality and will likely be a little dirtier.

(For the hard of thinking, the roller coaster is a metaphor for coitus, not the woman. The Condor ride is whatever you want it to be.)

[gorillafuck]

This might sound harsh, but sometimes knowing that my friends probably won't lose their v-card before me makes me feel a little better about being a virgin.I lost my v-card a while back but it was okay because I cancelled it immediately when I got home before anyone else could find it and use it

[Crux]

http://a2.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/396745_303297839719917_112681105448259_856787_1360 801072_n.jpg

[Agent Ducky]

http://a2.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/396745_303297839719917_112681105448259_856787_1360 801072_n.jpg

I'd hit that.... with a cardboard sword in an epic battle to the death. That I would win.

[Enragé]

i was 18.

and i've had looooaaaaaaaaadssss of sex since.

So dont worry, once you're on a roll you'll be fine :)

[Lanky Wanker]

This might sound like a bit of a weird point to raise, but here I go. I know that a first kiss and a first shag are two different things (physically), but isn't it a bit strange that we cast them apart so far? It's rare that I hear anyone get all "z0mg I've never kissed anyone", and I'm not sure whether that's because few people haven't, or because few people care about it. What I'm trying to say is, both kissing (you know what I mean, not granny kisses) and sex can happen in different ways with different meanings. Making out with someone at a party because you're drunk and making out with your soul partner underneath the stars are two different things with different meanings, much like sex - it can either be a quickie behind the shed or a romantic night of passionate bla bla bla. Maybe I'm just a sad little loner who needs to get a girlfriend, but I find it interesting how putting a penis into a vagina (or whatever else you need to do to get things flowing... or growing ;)) is such a huge concern when it can represent a lot of the same emotions associated with a good old passionate snog. Sure, shagging generally provides much more pleasure than other physical activity not involving penis/vagina/anus, but why have we chosen penis-in-vagina as the centre of our worries? If it's purely a physical thing, i.e. which feels better, then why is there so much social/psychological meaning attached to it? I probably haven't made my point too clear, but hopefully someone knows what I'm getting at.

[Bostana]

Is it bad that I'm a 17-year-old virgin? It seems like everybody around my age has already lost it, and is constantly bragging about it. It gets annoying whenever I tell someone that I'm a virgin, and they think that I'm a loser:(


I only have 23 years to go before they make a movie about me

First don't worry I bet you 2/3 or more of those kids are lying to make their ass seem kool. Sex makes their lame asses seem superior when really they're just damn Posers.

[Sperm-Doll Setsuna]

This might sound like a bit of a weird point to raise, but here I go. I know that a first kiss and a first shag are two different things (physically), but isn't it a bit strange that we cast them apart so far? It's rare that I hear anyone get all "z0mg I've never kissed anyone",

I'm almost 25 and I've never kissed anyone (not even granny-kiss).

I have used improvised sex-toys, but I don't think that counts. :lol:

[Lanky Wanker]

I'm almost 25 and I've never kissed anyone (not even granny-kiss).


I'm 16 and the closest I've gotten to kissing a girl is when I was like 7 and had a pretend wedding. I was such a boss back then. :cool:



I have used improvised sex-toys, but I don't think that counts. :lol:

If I go into full detail this will create a completely different thread, but if using improvised sex toys counts as losing your virginity then I'm in the clear. Yay for banana skins... and I probably shouldn't have said that but oh well. Is it even legal for me to be saying this shit online at my age? :confused:

[gorillafuck]

yes it's legal to say that you fuck banana peels. it's not advisable though.

[9]

lol wow... Only on revleft.

[Lanky Wanker]

yes it's legal to say that you fuck banana peels. it's not advisable though.

You make it sound so bad. :crying:


lol wow... Only on revleft.

We are an interesting bunch.

[gorillafuck]

You make it sound so bad. :crying:no I didn't I have nothing against those who wrap lubed up banana peels around their erect cocks

[Lanky Wanker]

no I didn't I have nothing against those who wrap lubed up banana peels around their erect cocks

That's the beauty of it, you don't have to lube it up. 30 seconds in the microwave and you're ready to go (until the banana skin gets cold). Just as a disclaimer, this isn't exactly something I do on a daily basis when I get home from school as the focus of my day -- in my experience, it's not worth the hassle.



I'm definitely not a complete weirdo.

[gorillafuck]

I bet it catches your spunk real nice

[revhiphop]

14 when I lost mine. 15 now. Don't worry dude. I thought I'd be virgin till I was like 30, lmao.

[Lanky Wanker]

I bet it catches your spunk real nice

I really think we need a sub-forum or at least a thread for this kind of thing, it must bother the other users who just want a friendly conversation.

[revhiphop]

That's the beauty of it, you don't have to lube it up. 30 seconds in the microwave and you're ready to go (until the banana skin gets cold). Just as a disclaimer, this isn't exactly something I do on a daily basis when I get home from school as the focus of my day -- in my experience, it's not worth the hassle.



I'm definitely not a complete weirdo.


Ahhhhhhhh, what the fuuuuuuuuck?

[gorillafuck]

I really think we need a sub-forum or at least a thread for this kind of thing, it must bother the other users who just want a friendly conversation.I think they can handle the thought of you shooting a fat load into a nice hot banana peel with your throbbing erection

[revhiphop]

What is this I dont even

[Lanky Wanker]

I think they can handle the thought of you shooting a fat load into a nice hot banana peel with your throbbing erection

You sound like you're thoroughly enjoying that thought, and holding onto it for as long as possible. Such powerful adjectives you use, comrade.

[Nox]

My first (and only) kiss was when I was 3 years old in a playschool. I don't even remember it but my parents remind me of it all the time.

[human strike]

Your situation is very normal. I dunno about your situation exactly, but for males in the UK, for example, 17 is the average age most lose their virginity. So you see it's likely your situation isn't abnormal at all. But really this misses the actual point that it doesn't matter. I lost my virginity at 20 and I'm glad that I did when I did and with whom I did. I shouldn't worry, you can always make up for lost time later if you really feel that way. lol

[Nox]

for males in the UK, for example, 17 is the average age most lose their virginity

And that includes people who are in relationships (a minority in my area), chavs, people who lose it abnormally young, etc so I guess the average age for someone like me is 19/20 ;)

[TheGodlessUtopian]

I don't like "average ages" because it creates this social illusion among youth that if one doesn't do "something" by a certain age than they are somehow socially unacceptable. or deficient.

[Rooster]

I remember when I lost my virginity. My dad and I drove 20 miles to go to a brothel on my fourteenth birthday. I was laying in bed with a woman and my dad just kept yelling at me "God damn it, Rooster! We didn't just drive 20 miles for you to just lie there with a limp dick! Just stick it in her!" and I was like "stick what where?". It begin to get weird when my dad decided to help and grabbed my junk and started tugging and I was yelling "mummy!" oh wait.... maybe I shouldn't have wrote all of this out.

The moral of this story is, don't stress out about it. You see all of those branches in your family tree? Fuckin'. You'll get there too at some point.

[#FF0000]

dude what

[Kitty_Paine]

I remember when I lost my virginity. My dad and I drove 20 miles to go to a brothel on my fourteenth birthday. I was laying in bed with a woman and my dad just kept yelling at me "God damn it, Rooster! We didn't just drive 20 miles for you to just lie there with a limp dick! Just stick it in her!" and I was like "stick what where?". It begin to get weird when my dad decided to help and grabbed my junk and started tugging and I was yelling "mummy!"

Your country's customs are strange to me, yet very intriguing :p

Is this typical? :rolleyes:

[Nox]

I remember when I lost my virginity. My dad and I drove 20 miles to go to a brothel on my fourteenth birthday. I was laying in bed with a woman and my dad just kept yelling at me "God damn it, Rooster! We didn't just drive 20 miles for you to just lie there with a limp dick! Just stick it in her!" and I was like "stick what where?". It begin to get weird when my dad decided to help and grabbed my junk and started tugging and I was yelling "mummy!" oh wait.... maybe I shouldn't have wrote all of this out.

The moral of this story is, don't stress out about it. You see all of those branches in your family tree? Fuckin'. You'll get there too at some point.

Woah, is that really true?

[Rooster]

Woah, is that really true?

No, of course not. I don't need to drive 20 miles to get to a brothel.

[Nox]

No, of course not. I don't need to drive 20 miles to get to a brothel.

So you did go to a brothel? Is that really how you lost your v-card?

[JustMovement]

i think this website has reached new heights with the bannana

[Caj]

Waaaay too much information in this thread. . . .

[Rooster]

So you did go to a brothel? Is that really how you lost your v-card?

I wish. I handed mines in at a bus station bathroom in Birmingham when I was 35.

[RedAnarchist]

I wish. I handed mines in at a bus station bathroom in Birmingham when I was 35.

That's disgusting and totally vile!

I mean really, Birmingham?!



(:P)

[piet11111]

Many many years from now when internet-anthropology is an actually existing thing scientists will look at this thread scratch their head and wonder why nobody posted any lolcats yet that apply to the immense weirdness of this thread.

[RedAnarchist]

http://dudelol.com/oldimgs/the-fuck-was-that-gif.gif

[Franz Fanonipants]

the persistence of this thread makes me nauseous

[Deicide]

I didn't have sex until I was 19. Not because I couldn't get it. In fact I turned it down several times. It was a personal choice.. A strange one at that. But yeah, I don't think there's anything wrong with being a virgin. The girls love it too. From my experience at least, they'll respect you more, because they know you're not a man whore, who's only interested in
getting inside girls panties.

The first time I had sex it was with a 27 year old (I prefer older women) :laugh:

[CountryKid]

A virgin here too, I have had the opportunity, but everytime it was incredibly awkward.


I remember one time I was with a buddy and we walked to this girls house, and she was really into me at the time. She said wait a second, I want to show you my pvc skirt. Cool right, I figured I'd wait around. I was then told by my buddy that her PVC skirt was see-through and she was probably going to come out of her room 'exposed'. My friend and I bounced and we werent around when she finally came back into the living room. I could have totally hit it, but pvc isnt my thing.


I was with this girl at the movies on a double date with the same friend as before, and the girl I was with grabbed her tits and smiled at me saying something along the lines of, "This is all yours." The aforementioned friend and I who was on a double date bounced leaving the girls alone.

Got really drunk and high with my friend and we were chilling in his room. Next thing I know he was trying to ride me like I was a wild beast and we were making alot of noise. His grandma walks into the room and we quickly did the jump up, and put our WTF faces on maneuver. No sex involved, but that wasnt a flashlight in his pocket.

:o

I guess I am trying to say is, wait for the right moment.

[Nox]

I remember one time I was with a buddy and we walked to this girls house, and she was really into me at the time. She said wait a second, I want to show you my pvc skirt. Cool right, I figured I'd wait around. I was then told by my buddy that her PVC skirt was see-through and she was probably going to come out of her room 'exposed'. My friend and I bounced and we werent around when she finally came back into the living room. I could have totally hit it, but pvc isnt my thing.





Aaaaargh you missed out big time!

[Paul Cockshott]

No, you are well within the normal range.

Is it bad that I'm a 17-year-old virgin? It seems like everybody around my age has already lost it, and is constantly bragging about it. It gets annoying whenever I tell someone that I'm a virgin, and they think that I'm a loser:(


I only have 23 years to go before they make a movie about me

[Nox]

My view on losing my virginity is that I don't expect to lose it while I'm at Sixth Form (British equivalent of high school) but if I do that's great. I'll start getting worried if I don't lose it while I'm at college. I will give up entirely if I haven't lost it by the time I'm 30.

I think I've already said this but one thing that makes me feel a whole lot better is knowing that the vast majority of people I know haven't lost their virginity and probably won't for a long time.

[Tavarisch_Mike]

I remember when I lost my virginity. My dad and I drove 20 miles to go to a brothel on my fourteenth birthday. I was laying in bed with a woman and my dad just kept yelling at me "God damn it, Rooster! We didn't just drive 20 miles for you to just lie there with a limp dick! Just stick it in her!" and I was like "stick what where?". It begin to get weird when my dad decided to help and grabbed my junk and started tugging and I was yelling "mummy!" oh wait.... maybe I shouldn't have wrote all of this out.

The moral of this story is, don't stress out about it. You see all of those branches in your family tree? Fuckin'. You'll get there too at some point.



Hahaha!!! LMFAO!!! :laugh:


Ok, ontopic: OP i seems to me that you are more concerned about what you think is how you should do, rather then actually wanting to have sex.
Wich brings me to that the concept of virginity (as many before have said) is overated. After having sex the first time you wont automaticly break the ice and become the allmighty kamasutra guru.

I last mine when i was 14, No bragging, but it was also my third time that i was drunk so it didnt go as smooth as i had imagine it. At this moment of youre life you can just be sure of one thing and that is that you dont know how its done (at least proparly). It wasnt until i turnned 16 that i got my first serious relationship and its first then when i started enjoy it. And no there is nothing wrong with being virgin at the age of 17, there is no such thing as objective concept on when to loose it, that evrybody needs to follow.

[Nox]

Hahaha!!! LMFAO!!! :laugh:


Ok, ontopic: OP i seems to me that you are more concerned about what you think is how you should do, rather then actually wanting to have sex.
Wich brings me to that the concept of virginity (as many before have said) is overated. After having sex the first time you wont automaticly break the ice and become the allmighty kamasutra guru.

I last mine when i was 14, No bragging, but it was also my third time that i was drunk so it didnt go as smooth as i had imagine it. At this moment of youre life you can just be sure of one thing and that is that you dont know how its done (at least proparly). It wasnt until i turnned 16 that i got my first serious relationship and its first then when i started enjoy it. And no there is nothing wrong with being virgin at the age of 17, there is no such thing as objective concept on when to loose it, that evrybody needs to follow.

Everyone says it's 'no big deal' or that they 'regret it' AFTER they've already lost it. It is a very big deal for us virgins that becomes a much bigger deal as we get older. Being a virgin sucks, it feels like you are an evolutionary failure. Virgin 4 life!

[Tavarisch_Mike]

Everyone says it's 'no big deal' or that they 'regret it' AFTER they've already lost it. It is a very big deal for us virgins that becomes a much bigger deal as we get older. Being a virgin sucks, it feels like you are an evolutionary failure. Virgin 4 life!


Dont get me wrong. I know most people have strong sexual desires and needs that they want to live out. Im not denying that when you cant do that its very frustrating. And i dont regret anything, but in my experience to actually loose youre virginity doesnt necessary change the world, like for me it took over two years frome loosing it to have a actual relasionship. And having sexwith my gf for the first time, with just one ONS as experience, it was basicly the same as the first time (but beeing sober and with a person that i loved). So to be short, if you got a strong desire for having regular sex you should try to focus on a relationship with someone, rather then on just screwing someone and beliving that frome there it will take you forward.

[Lanky Wanker]

I was then told by my buddy that her PVC skirt was see-through and she was probably going to come out of her room 'exposed'. My friend and I bounced and we werent around when she finally came back into the living room. I could have totally hit it, but pvc isnt my thing.


I'd prefer leather, but you missed the opportunity of a lifetime! Give her my number. :laugh:

[Lanky Wanker]

My view on losing my virginity is that I don't expect to lose it while I'm at Sixth Form (British equivalent of high school) but if I do that's great. I'll start getting worried if I don't lose it while I'm at college.

College after Sixth Form...?

[Nox]

Dont get me wrong. I know most people have strong sexual desires and needs that they want to live out. Im not denying that when you cant do that its very frustrating. And i dont regret anything, but in my experience to actually loose youre virginity doesnt necessary change the world, like for me it took over two years frome loosing it to have a actual relasionship. And having sexwith my gf for the first time, with just one ONS as experience, it was basicly the same as the first time (but beeing sober and with a person that i loved). So to be short, if you got a strong desire for having regular sex you should try to focus on a relationship with someone, rather then on just screwing someone and beliving that frome there it will take you forward.

For me it's not the sexual desire, it's more the fact that I have failed to pass on my genes (metaphorically speaking), failed to do what every single life form is programmed to do.

[Nox]

College after Sixth Form...?

I meant college as in University ;) Americans call it college

[Lanky Wanker]

I meant college as in University ;) Americans call it college

Ah these silly Americans.

[Tavarisch_Mike]

For me it's not the sexual desire, it's more the fact that I have failed to pass on my genes (metaphorically speaking), failed to do what every single life form is programmed to do.

Ok but thats also the thing, you have been fed this attitude, seems more like its in youre head since (if i get it right) you dont wanna have kids and therefor see it as a faliur. Well its not. This dramatization of the virginity in the west sometimes feels like a revesed form of the one that the chatolic church has a new form of sexual moralism.

[Nox]

Ok but thats also the thing, you have been fed this attitude, seems more like its in youre head since (if i get it right) you dont wanna have kids and therefor see it as a faliur. Well its not. This dramatization of the virginity in the west sometimes feels like a revesed form of the one that the chatolic church has a new form of sexual moralism.

No, I want to have sex/have kids/reproduce but it feels like I can't

[Nox]

I know I'm only 16, but I will be 17 in a few weeks and it feels like the years are passing by but nothing's happening. Not to mention the fact that the number of people I know who have lost their virginity is still very small, but gradually increasing...

[gorillafuck]

why does this thread persist? these shenanigans have gone well past their welcome.

[9]

Move to America and take an abstinence pledge. Then you can just pretend its intentional.

[NewLeft]

Move to America and take an abstinence pledge. Then you can just pretend its intentional.
lol'd Virgin not by choice..

[CountryKid]

I'd prefer leather, but you missed the opportunity of a lifetime! Give her my number. :laugh:

Lol, that time is well gone and passed.


:tt2:

[Ostrinski]

I know I'm only 16, but I will be 17 in a few weeks and it feels like the years are passing by but nothing's happening. Not to mention the fact that the number of people I know who have lost their virginity is still very small, but gradually increasing...If you're that hellbent on losing your virginity you could just walk down the hall at your school and ask people to have sex with you. Eventually you will find someone who will accept your plea. Trial and error man.

[MustCrushCapitalism]

take an abstinence pledge. Then you can just pretend its intentional.

That's my strategy. :tongue_smilie:

[PC LOAD LETTER]

Move to America and take an abstinence pledge. Then you can just pretend its intentional.
Everyone will assume you masturbate obsessively and have choked the chicken likely within the last 5 minutes.

Or at least that's what I think on the extremely rare occasion I hear someone say they took an abstinence pledge.

[Nox]

If you're that hellbent on losing your virginity you could just walk down the hall at your school and ask people to have sex with you. Eventually you will find someone who will accept your plea. Trial and error man.

Pffffft, that would never work, and even if I was super hot the risks wouldn't be as good as the rewards.

[PC LOAD LETTER]

Pffffft, that would never work, and even if I was super hot the risks wouldn't be as good as the rewards.
I mentioned this to someone else on RevLeft recently, but make an online dating profile. There's a few free ones out there.

[Agent Ducky]

For me it's not the sexual desire, it's more the fact that I have failed to pass on my genes (metaphorically speaking), failed to do what every single life form is programmed to do.
Dude, try not being programmed to want to do that. That's evolutionarily wrong. It's not a matter of failing to pass on your genes, it's a matter of having absolutely no desire to carry out that part of "programming". If I was insecure you seem to be, that would fucking destroy me. That there's something fundamentally wrong with not wanting to fulfill this evolutionary obligation, as you view it. But you know what? I give zero fucks. You should too. Whether it's ineptitude or lack of fucks to give (literally and figuratively... XD), you are not a slave to evolution. You don't have to prove yourself to nature or anything. You're not worthless if you don't perform said function right away. Like I said, I don't even want to perform said function and I don't think any less of myself for that reason. So you shouldn't either. :thumbup1:

[gorillafuck]

For me it's not the sexual desire, it's more the fact that I have failed to pass on my genes (metaphorically speaking), failed to do what every single life form is programmed to do.You're 17 for gods sake. ease up on yourself about the failing to pass on your genes thing. I'd be more worried if you had successfully passed on your genes.

[Nox]

You're 17 for gods sake. ease up on yourself about the failing to pass on your genes thing. I'd be more worried if you had successfully passed on your genes.

I guess I'm not in a rush, and I have different views about it depending on the mood I'm in, I made most of the posts here when I was feeling depressed which explains my negative view on stuff. I'm in an ok mood now so my posts should be more optimistic today...

Part of me says I don't care and want to save it for a relationship, but another part of me says that I want to get rid of the curiosity; I wouldn't care if I lived alone all my life as long as I had sex at least once that would be enough.

[¿Que?]

I wouldn't care if I lived alone all my life as long as I had sex at least once that would be enough.
Unless it's like addictive and shit...

[Crux]

Why do I suddenly feel like buying bananas?

[Kitty_Paine]

Part of me says I don't care and want to save it for a relationship, but another part of me says that I want to get rid of the curiosity; I wouldn't care if I lived alone all my life as long as I had sex at least once that would be enough.

Well there's a fundamental flaw in this... like Que mentioned, generally people don't have sex and say, "Well, that was cool... now I'm good for life."

Plus when you have sex it'll probably be with someone who you can have it with again in the near future (girlfriend, prostitute, etc.) so, you probably won't have much of a problem. You're over thinking things, I promise everything will work itself out and you will be a happy camper.

[Crux]

I'm having sex right now. Just took a quick break to let you guys know. By the way, loving the thread.

[Ostrinski]

I'd be more worried if you had successfully passed on your genes.Bumped for emphasis.

[Nox]

I promise everything will work itself out and you will be a happy camper.

I trust you :)

Idk why I'm getting so worried about this, I'm only 16

[Crux]

Bumped for emphasis.
That's what she said.

[Crux]

So...I had threesome last night. How about you?

[Crux]

Never had a devil's threeway before. So I guess in one sense I lost my virginity. So don't worry guys there is a first for everything. It will happen some day. Did I ever tell you about how I lost my virginity in a threesome when I was 16? One of the girls called me up and said they needed me. She opened the door in a towel. You figure out the rest. She's mostly lesbian which is why I am a firm believer in the kinseyscale.

[Crux]

So guys what I am saying is life is magic. One day you too might be called up by a curious lesbian and her friend that want nothing more than jump your bones. Or maybe that's just me.

[Nox]

So guys what I am saying is life is magic. One day you too might be called up by a curious lesbian and her friend that want nothing more than jump your bones. Or maybe that's just me.

I think it's just you ;) That shit only happens in my dreams.

[Crux]

What I am saying is you have to be ready to seize the moment. Life's too short to let opportunities slide through your hands. Christ I am sounding like some kind of self-help coach. Remember confidence is sexy. Don't have it? Fake it. Me I drank several bottles of confidence yesterday. My advice in this regard is stop when you are feeling a buzz bey ond that it might affect your advancements negatively. Also you might fall victim to the dreaded whiskeydick.

[PC LOAD LETTER]

Majakovskij:
>just got laid
>king of the world

[Binh]

1) Probably more than a few people are lying.

2) When guys ask you, grin and say, "ask your mom." That'll shut 'em up. :)

[NewLeft]

1) Probably more than a few people are lying.

2) When guys ask you, grin and say, "ask your mom." That'll shut 'em up. :)
That'll make em laugh too. :lol::sneaky:

[Crux]

Majakovskij:
>just got laid
>king of the world
Yes. This is my sexbrag thread.
So, gang, a few months ago I ran into a dilemma this girl I've been banging lately wanted to go out, but at the same time another friend of mine from out of town, well she wanted to go out too. And I live at home, which is less then optimal for these kind of activites. Which meant I had been planning to go home with girl number one to her one room apartment. So how does one solve this dilemma?
Threesome.

[gorillafuck]

I have faith in you to get your dick wet regardless of what happens, Majakovskij

[Crux]

my solution was very elegant. Double-booking is such a hassle.

[Comrade Jandar]

I'm 16 and a virgin I guess. I've had girls suck my weeny and have had multiple opportunities to have vaginal intercourse but just never went down. I don't really put in any effort at all with the ladies either lol... and I'm a commie nerd. I have the brain of a 13 year old

I would consider oral sex as having lost your virginity.

[Comrade Jandar]

this is the thread in which leftist guys say that they are still virgins

guess revleft is full of pretty huge freaks, eh?!?


Is this surprising though? Armchair revolutionaries, (including me), are not out on the town picking up girls. We're sitting at home masturbating, drinking coffee, and arguing about about whether the Russian Revolution was a bourgeois-democratic revolution or proletarian. By the way 18 1/2 and still a virgin. I have good excuse though; I'm straight edge. Really easy way to feel superior to others without having to do shit.

[Nox]

I would consider oral sex as having lost your virginity.

I'm not so sure about that... You have to draw the line somewhere, would you class receiving a handjob as losing your virginity?

[Comrade Jandar]

Probably. I don't see much of a difference between those things and actual intercourse. If someone is willing to do that with you, then they are probably willing to have intercourse.

[Nox]

Probably. I don't see much of a difference between those things and actual intercourse. If someone is willing to do that with you, then they are probably willing to have intercourse.

Where do you draw the line though? You could argue that making out is losing virginity because most people willing to make out with you would be willing to have intercourse ;)

[Luc]

Well Nox as you can see the whole drawing lines and what not just shows how fucking ridiculous losing ones virginity is. it means nothing. If penal-vaginal intercourse is the noly way to lose ones virginity... does that mean homosexuals will forever be virgins? I think not.


Virginity = Bullshit

:)

[Nox]

Well Nox as you can see the whole drawing lines and what not just shows how fucking ridiculous losing ones virginity is. it means nothing. If penal-vaginal intercourse is the noly way to lose ones virginity... does that mean homosexuals will forever be virgins? I think not.


Virginity = Bullshit

:)

On that note, this thread has been up way too long, it should be left to die...

[Luc]

On that note, this thread has been up way too long, it should be left to die...

Indeed.

[TheGodlessUtopian]

Virginity is a religious concept I believe, so it is bullshit for any atheist to take seriously.

Just sayin...

[Crux]

On that note, this thread has been up way too long, it should be left to die...
I'll be bumping this thread in no time though. As for what does and does not constitute losing ones virginity, if it can somehow be called sex, with someone else than yourself, I say it counts. Or else I'd be yet to lose my gay virginity. Oh technicalities.

[Igor]

I'm not so sure about that... You have to draw the line somewhere, would you class receiving a handjob as losing your virginity?

Sex is not all about penetration, you really have to get this. It's not at all unusual for gay & lesbian people (hell, why not straight?) to have completely normal, healthy sex life without no penetration whatsoever. Would you call them virgins? Thought so.

[Crux]

Bump. You know what I mean. Ah nothing quite like sex in the morning, eh guys? And last night but that goes without saying.

[NewLeft]

Bump. You know what I mean. Ah nothing quite like sex in the morning, eh guys? And last night but that goes without saying.
:rolleyes: Just make your own thread, Majakovskij's sexcapades..

[NorwegianCommunist]

Is it bad that I'm a 17-year-old virgin? It seems like everybody around my age has already lost it, and is constantly bragging about it. It gets annoying whenever I tell someone that I'm a virgin, and they think that I'm a loser:(


I only have 23 years to go before they make a movie about me

Never succomb to peer pressure as another user said.
You should be proud!
I am 16 and I am still a virgin. I don't care if I am 30 and still a virgin.
I want to wait until I find a girl that I love and more importantly, loves me back. That is my goal when it comes to being sexual active ;)

[Crux]

:rolleyes: Just make your own thread, Majakovskij's sexcapades..
It's more gratifying to sexbrag here.

[Luc]

It's more gratifying to sexbrag here.

ooh go sell some newspapers :glare:

[Crux]

ooh go sell some newspapers :glare:
:laugh:

[TheGodlessUtopian]

ooh go sell some newspapers :glare:

Sexy newspapers that tell about your sexual exploits while also promoting leftist revolution; The Theory of permanent sex and Sex in One Bed! :lol:

[Crux]

SEXE : C’est bien, a dit Mao, mais pas trop souvent. (http://www.bopsecrets.org/French/graffiti.htm)

[Vladimir Innit Lenin]

Who gives a fuck what anyone else thinks?

[gorillafuck]

Bump. You know what I mean. Ah nothing quite like sex in the morning, eh guys? And last night but that goes without saying.majakovskij were you gettin' your morning wood sapped

[Agent Ducky]

sexe : C’est bien, a dit mao, mais pas trop souvent. (http://www.bopsecrets.org/french/graffiti.htm)


This calls for....

COMIC SAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAANNNNNNNNNNNNNSSSSSSSSSSSS SSSSSSSSSSS

[Crux]

majakovskij were you gettin' your morning wood sapped
How poetic.

[lombas]

I would consider oral sex as having lost your virginity.

I wouldn't. I wouldn't consider merely giving and receiving oral sex as the perfect way to bond either.

[Libertador]

Nineteen year old virgin here.

I'm honestly waiting for someone that I actually love.

Makes more sense that way.

[Bolshevik_Guerilla_1917]

Just think about it, if you get head or you do something around that area of sexual things, you can consider youself half virgin, thats what I did.:cool:

[Ostrinski]

Revoltuionary Party of Sex Negative Chastites, join. Just chop off your penis, hand it over, and you're in.

[PC LOAD LETTER]

Revoltuionary Party of Sex Negative Chastites, join. Just chop off your penis, hand it over, and you're in.
How do women join?

Do they "ceremonially" and "metaphorically" chop off a non-existent penis?

[¿Que?]

How do women join?

Do they "ceremonially" and "metaphorically" chop off a non-existent penis?
Women have peni too. It's just smaller...no?

EDIT: Just so that people don't think I'm an ignorant pre-teen, I'm talking about the clit.

[Crux]

Brospierre: Yeah...you do that...*backs away slowly* lombas: Why not?

[sithsaber]

Nineteen year old virgin here.

I'm honestly waiting for someone that I actually love.

Makes more sense that way.


You poor poor bastard. (Please be a woman)
(wait that's sexist)
(But don't all men sex from age 6?)
(sorry folks i may be sexist. Blame society and gender roles)

[Zukunftsmusik]

Just think about it, if you get head or you do something around that area of sexual things, you can consider youself half virgin, thats what I did.:cool:

oh I got a head now I'm half virgin for like the zilionixiest time

makes sense

[9]

(But don't all men sex from age 6?)

if revleft is any indication, then lol no.

[PC LOAD LETTER]

Women have peni too. It's just smaller...no?

EDIT: Just so that people don't think I'm an ignorant pre-teen, I'm talking about the clit.
Oh well if we're getting into some detailed anatomy here ... IIRC the clitoris and penis are indeed different expressions of the same sex organ, albeit with the urethra routed differently (and the organ sized differently) ... but it's incorrect to say that the clitoris is a penis, and vice-versa

Biology students (or biologists and doctors) feel free to chime in and lay down some knowledge on myself and Que

[Per Levy]

why is this thread so long?

[Igor]

I wouldn't. I wouldn't consider merely giving and receiving oral sex as the perfect way to bond either.

please do expand on your views on what counts and what doesn't as 'losing virginity'

i'm really eager here

[Ned Kelly]

To my mind it is subjective, if you feel like a particular act renders you no longer a virgin then you are no longer a virgin..

[Agent Ducky]

You poor poor bastard. (Please be a woman)
(wait that's sexist)
(But don't all men sex from age 6?)
(sorry folks i may be sexist. Blame society and gender roles)

It really is sexist. You should probably edit that due to it being.... really sexist....
Don't blame society for it. Recognize it and do what you can to overcome that way of thinking because in no way is it okay...

Also yeah, WHY IS THIS THREAD STILL ALIVE?

[Igor]

To my mind it is subjective, if you feel like a particular act renders you no longer a virgin then you are no longer a virgin..

this. internet people trying to define whose experiences count and don't count as losing virginity end up usually doing pretty stupid (and heteronormative) conclusions so that really shouldn't be done.

[Pretty Flaco]

this thread needs to fucking die. lets get all you virgins some fucking hookers. hell, for a little money ill even render my services. ;)

[¿Que?]

this thread needs to fucking die. lets get all you virgins some fucking hookers. hell, for a little money ill even render my services. ;)
Hey great, I've always wanted to do it with a camaro. Well, really, in a camaro, but close enough. How much?

[sithsaber]

Hey great, I've always wanted to do it with a camaro. Well, really, in a camaro, but close enough. How much?

Banned for soliciting a prostitute

[Pretty Flaco]

Hey great, I've always wanted to do it with a camaro. Well, really, in a camaro, but close enough. How much?

$20

[NewLeft]

$20
That's actually sad.. Only 20? You're worth more than that.

[Pretty Flaco]

That's actually sad.. Only 20? You're worth more than that.

damn straight. im not a hooker, im an escort.