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Admiral Swagmeister G-Funk
23rd November 2011, 23:26
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Искра
23rd November 2011, 23:34
Jesus, just tell her to piss off or fuck her :D It's fucking simple.

Admiral Swagmeister G-Funk
23rd November 2011, 23:40
don't worry i'm gonna fuck her senseless, just wanna know what's going on in her weird mind.

ВАЛТЕР
23rd November 2011, 23:43
Her saying she "loves" you is only to test you as to how much you care about her, so she can to boost her ego by seeing your reaction. I bet you said something along the lines of "I love you too" or "I care about you a lot" etc. I doubt she would be fucking you if you said that you are indifferent...

If she just want sex don't allow her to complicate things, because that is what she is doing right now.

I'm with Kontra. Either fuck her, or ditch her completely.

kahimikarie
23rd November 2011, 23:44
sounds like she's confused and maybe in a bad/vulnerable state. it'd be best to refrain from sex/dating and just be a supportive friend for the time being imo.

Admiral Swagmeister G-Funk
23rd November 2011, 23:47
I didn't tell her I loved her back, I don't even love her. I loved having sex with her, and we got together but she came out of a long term relationship not long before that so it didn't really work out.

Don't get why she still wants to fuck though if we're not together but she's not sleeping around. She was telling me how miserable she is and how happy she was with me, but she doesn't feel ready for a relationship. Surely she'd be better off with me knowing that I make her happy etc? Unless she's hiding being polygymous, which I don't care about either but it'd help me be less confused.

Its doing my brain in, I wish I could just turn off my mind and resort to animal instincts and just fuck without emotion. I hate how complicated things have to be.

Misanthrope
24th November 2011, 00:00
>Having girl problems
>ask a bunch of commie nerds on the internet for advice.

If you begin to have strong feelings for her I would break it off, you're just going to get hurt as it sounds like she is using you.

good luck op

Admiral Swagmeister G-Funk
24th November 2011, 00:08
Thanks, thanks. Might just enjoy the sex while it happens/if it happens. Try not to get attached and think about things too much, relations are too complex.

Nicolai
24th November 2011, 08:22
>Having girl problems
>ask a bunch of commie nerds on the internet for advice.

If you begin to have strong feelings for her I would break it off, you're just going to get hurt as it sounds like she is using you.

good luck op

>Implying that none of us has a normal life beside being on RevLeft, or any relationships with other individuals at all.

o̿ ̭ o̿ Umad?

eyedrop
24th November 2011, 08:32
Why does this thread come of as bragging about getting laid? (Maybe I should check myself since I do seem to compulsively read every sex thread though.)

I don't even see whats so controversial, whats weird about her wanting a sexual partner, but no relationship? A relationship is a lot different than just being sexually exclusive with someone.

Nox
24th November 2011, 08:34
Valter and Kontra have got it all wrong.

Fuck her THEN ditch her ;)

RedGrunt
24th November 2011, 08:38
Sounds like she's using you or something, I just wouldn't get attached if you're going to be sticking around.

Zealot
24th November 2011, 09:11
Sounds to me as if she still likes the last guy but she's lonely now and runs to you. She's using you and you're using her, it's like reciprocal emotional abuse.

Misanthrope
24th November 2011, 14:54
>Implying that none of us has a normal life beside being on RevLeft, or any relationships with other individuals at all.

o̿ ̭ o̿ Umad?

>implying I can't get girls
>implying we're not nerds
>implying im mad

Kamos
24th November 2011, 14:57
Why does this thread come of as bragging about getting laid? (Maybe I should check myself since I do seem to compulsively read every sex thread though.)

Revleft's bad influence.

PhoenixAsh
24th November 2011, 15:03
Look, the sex part maybe fun and all.....but take it from me....I am some what of an unfortunate expert on this and continue to make this mistake again and again:

DO NOT FALL IN LOVE, DO NOT GET COMMITTED

Unless you are absolutely positively sure she is going to chose for you. Otherwise it will tear you apart.

Now I am not sure what you told the girl after you two split up. I am not sure whatever the hell is going on between you and what your part was in this new arrangement. I can not say from a few lines.

But if what you say is true and she has feelings for you, but the commitment and trust issues played a part in the break up then maybe have a serious conversation about what the hell she want?

Art Vandelay
24th November 2011, 17:12
Seriously man what are you waiting for. It's like you won the lottery and are wondering if you should cash in your ticket. Just fuck her and be happy you do not have to deal with all the bullshit relationships come with.

piet11111
24th November 2011, 18:12
Your her backscratcher until she finds another guy she does like enough to have a relationship with.

If you can handle that your golden if you cant then get the hell out.

You can test her by saying you are seeing another girl when she wants to make another bootycall and see how she responds when she knows your not exclusive to her.

Admiral Swagmeister G-Funk
25th November 2011, 12:32
Your her backscratcher until she finds another guy she does like enough to have a relationship with.

If you can handle that your golden if you cant then get the hell out.

You can test her by saying you are seeing another girl when she wants to make another bootycall and see how she responds when she knows your not exclusive to her.
I'd rather not know that though. I told her that if this is gonna happen, I don't wanna know shit about her. Its just sex and nothing else. Trying to keep it that way and distance myself from any emotional aspect to it.

piet11111
25th November 2011, 20:10
I'd rather not know that though. I told her that if this is gonna happen, I don't wanna know shit about her. Its just sex and nothing else. Trying to keep it that way and distance myself from any emotional aspect to it.

Thats the point of testing her if she is not ok with you seeing others then you have a problem waiting to happen.

Admiral Swagmeister G-Funk
25th November 2011, 20:39
Neither of us have to know what the other is doing though, surely that's the good thing about the situation? Plus, she's a woman and will find it easier to get laid in clubs full of drooling men, I have to work at my game, hence why I don't wanna know!

black magick hustla
25th November 2011, 20:45
hey bro fuck her and ditcxh her LMAO :chestbumps:

b$#$#$#ches come in flocks bruh

El Louton
25th November 2011, 20:48
Mate. Don't listen to the sexual comments. Just decide if you love her, if you do not then leave her and stay friends or not. Up to you man. Look on relationship advice webistes not RevLeft- we're a bunch of fat nerds! Seriously though man, only you can make that choice.

Ocean Seal
25th November 2011, 20:54
>Implying that none of us has a normal life beside being on RevLeft, or any relationships with other individuals at all.

o̿ ̭ o̿ Umad?
We have normal lives outside of revleft, and relationships with other individuals :scared:

Chambered Word
26th November 2011, 14:59
hey bro fuck her and ditcxh her LMAO :chestbumps:

b$#$#$#ches come in flocks bruh

dont let any wimmin rule ur life bro

S.Artesian
26th November 2011, 19:32
Hey, I've been at this for 50 years, so don't ask me. I don't have a clue.

All I can say is what W.H. Auden said: "The passions of the human heart are as twisted as a corkscrew."

OHumanista
26th November 2011, 19:59
Like some others said she seems great for sex but not for a serious relationshipn (I highly doubt she love you)
So enjoy but don't take it seriously with her

NewLeft
26th November 2011, 20:55
Communist don't date individuals, they have giant revolutionary orgies..

ComradeGrant
27th November 2011, 21:54
/thread

Leftsolidarity
27th November 2011, 22:13
Let your penis do the thinking. Your brain and heart have no place in this one buddy. Just have fun. She's probably using you.

brigadista
27th November 2011, 23:40
some of the comments on this thread are repulsive - i hope shes not reading it - in answer to the original question - you should both move on before someone gets badly hurt

Leftsolidarity
27th November 2011, 23:44
this thread is repulsive - i hope shes not reading it

What's so bad about this thread? Some people only want fuck buddies and there's nothing wrong with that.