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Weezer
19th November 2011, 04:33
Thought I would never come back here, oh well.

Well, early September was a trialing time for me and my political beliefs. I'll keep the story brief. Basically, my parents are conservative, not to the extremity, but they're up there. They've never approved of me being on the left, but they can't stop me. Periodically, maybe about every few months, all tension breaks loose and arguments break out.

I'm not the teenager to hate my parents and blow stuff like that off. The very act of disagreeing with them politically gives me guilt. Basically, in early September, after that day already filled with depressing thoughts to the point of crying, my mom accused me of being some kind of cyber-terrorist and talking to "Muslims" online, how dumb my views are, how great America is because she was given a secondary inspection when she returned to the US from Sweden about a month before that, among other things like how I hate my parents, which I certainly don't. She said my internet activities like going on al-Jazerra caused the government to somehow blacklist our family.

I broke down mentally. That night I was woken up several times by the levels of anxiety I was experiencing. It was bad. Basically my revolutionary spark was shattered. And I can't say I really fully believe it anymore. I would like to, but I feel I need to learn even more now.

I became a SPUSA member about two days before this and attended an Occupy event in my local area. But even still, socialism, Marxism, whateverism, just doesn't feel the same.

So, I exiled myself from RevLeft. With the time I spent not being on RevLeft, I focused on music a lot.

My beliefs right now are still socialist I think, but it's just...not the same. I'm also still very pro-Cuban, but that doesn't really reflect any sort of tendency or ideology. I've come back here to learn again.

Sam_b
19th November 2011, 04:46
Look forward to the name change next week!

ellipsis
19th November 2011, 04:51
intense

welcome back.

Weezer
19th November 2011, 04:57
Look forward to the name change next week!

Go fuck yourself you fucking prick.

You're still the same asshole, I see.

Susurrus
19th November 2011, 05:06
Welcome back! One shouldn't allow anyone to try to arbitrarily force them to be someone they aren't, and having that much guilt stemming from someone trying to control you is definitely unhealthy, but I don't know the full circumstances.

Lee Van Cleef
19th November 2011, 05:59
Welcome back. It seems obvious to me that both you and your parents are perceiving political disagreement to mean personal dislike.

I would encourage you all to take a step back from political discussions for a while, and focus on strengthening family relations in other ways. Of course, I am assuming from the tone of your post, that you do in fact want strong family ties.

I would tell them that politics has no bearing on your love for them, and that you hope they feel the same way. While comments about you getting the family "blacklisted" are ridiculous, I would NOT bring this up.

Try to step away from anything that could be contentious, and tell them that you think political disagreements are hurting the family, and that you think everyone would be better off if you spent your time together talking about other things.

Nox
19th November 2011, 10:11
No offense to your mum, but she sounds like an asshole playing with your mind like that.

If she's uncomfortable with your views just 'agree to disagree', always works for me :)

Sam_b
19th November 2011, 16:41
Go fuck yourself you fucking prick.

You're still the same asshole, I see.

Do you kiss your mother with that mouth?

Yazman
22nd November 2011, 14:04
Go fuck yourself you fucking prick.

You're still the same asshole, I see.

This isn't a good way to return to Revleft. If I see you flame anybody again, you'll be infracted immediately. You'll find you are quite unwelcome here if you do it again. Consider yourself warned.

That said, Welcome back to Revleft.