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MattShizzle
22nd August 2011, 18:45
http://motherjones.com/politics/2011/08/new-bethany-ifb-teen-homes-abuse?page=1

From a Mother Jones article



One day last November, a group of teenage girls dressed in long khaki skirts and modest blouses stepped onto the stage at an Independent Fundamental Baptist (http://www.ifbweb.com/) church in Maryland where Jeannie Marie (a military spouse who asked that her last name not be used) attended services with her family. The young women, visitors from a Missouri girls' home called New Beginnings Ministries (http://www.newbeginningsgirlsacademy.com/), sang old-time hymns, recited Scripture, and gave tearful testimonies about their journeys out of lives of sin. Headmaster Bill McNamara spoke, too, depicting the home as a place where girls could get on track academically, restore broken relationships, and learn to walk with God.
New Beginnings describes itself as a character-building facility for "troubled teens," and what Jeannie Marie heard in church that day was that this might be a place for her daughter to heal. While jogging earlier that year, the 17-year-old (whom I'll call Roxy) had been pulled into a vehicle and assaulted by a group of men. Since then, she had begun acting up at home, as well as sneaking out and drinking. Two weeks after seeing the girls in church, Jeannie Marie and her husband left Roxy in McNamara's care with the promise that she would receive counseling twice a week and stay at New Beginnings no longer than two months. "It sounded like a discipleship program," Jeannie Marie recalls. "A safe place where a daughter can go to have time alone to find God and her direction."



Instead, Roxy found herself on the receiving end of brutal punishments. A soft-spoken young woman, blonde and blue-eyed with a bright smile, Roxy confided to me that she found it easier to discuss her ordeal with a stranger than with the people closest to her. She told me how, in her first weeks at the academy's Missouri compound—a summer-camp setup in remote La Russell, population 145—she and other girls snuck letters to their parents between the pages of hymnals in a local church they attended, along with entreaties to congregants to mail them. When another girl snitched, Roxy said, McNamara locked some girls in makeshift isolation cells, tiled closets without furniture or windows. Roxy got "the redshirt treatment": For a solid week, 10 hours a day, she had to stand facing a wall, with breaks only for worship or twice-daily bathroom trips.
She was monitored day and night by two "buddies," girls who'd been there awhile and knew the drill. They accompanied her to the shower and toilet, and introduced her to a life of communal isolation and rigid discipline. Girls were not allowed to converse except from 6 to 9 p.m. each Friday. They were not allowed contact with their families during their first month, or with anyone else for six months. By that time, Roxy said, most girls are "broken," having been told that their families have abandoned them, and that the world outside is a sinful, dangerous place where girls who leave are murdered or raped.
The girls' behavior was micromanaged down to the number of squares of toilet paper each was allowed; potential infractions ranged from making eye contact with another girl to not finishing a meal. Roxy, who suffered from urinary tract infections and menstrual complications, told me she was frequently put on redshirt, sometimes dripping blood as she stood. She was also punished with cold showers, she said, and endless sets of calisthenics after meals

It's 4 pages (a bit more than 1 on this particular place) but worth the read. Pretty awful.

Obs
22nd August 2011, 19:14
This is not only a horrific way to treat a human being, it's also heresy. Fucking hypocrites.

28350
22nd August 2011, 19:39
This is brutal psychological torture. I'm enraged.

Ocean Seal
22nd August 2011, 19:57
I wonder who the shit-faced girl who snitched was. Seriously, knowing that something like this could happen why the fuck would you put another human being in that situation. Also as Obs said, its heresy. Religion by compulsion...

Thirsty Crow
22nd August 2011, 19:58
This establishments should be shut down ASAP.
As far as the article makes it clear, in no way were the parents informed of possible disciplinary measures which should be enough to anull the contract, and banning the girls from communicating with their parents may be taken as abduction.

Fucking fundies. And some people, enlightened liberals living far away from the States, seem to thing that the freedom of worship means that we shouldn't presume nothing with respect to what fundamentalist denominations actually do, and just leave them be.

This reminds me of "Jesus Camp". Abominable.


This is brutal psychological torture. I'm enraged.
Not only psychological, but physical also.

piet11111
22nd August 2011, 20:28
What kind of idiots are their parents ?
If i had kids and they would not contact me for more then 2 days i would be on the phone demanding to talk to them if they where at camp or something.

But no contact for a whole F-ing month what the fuck is wrong with those parents.

MattShizzle
22nd August 2011, 20:53
These places should be shut down and those running them sent to prison. If adults in prison were treated this way you can guarantee someone would be in big trouble. If another country treated their prison inmates this way there would be human rights investigations. That they sit there during phone calls and make them lie to their parents about what happens is also very disturbing. I hope someone sues them into bankruptcy.

brigadista
22nd August 2011, 21:12
sounds like the handmaids tale
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Handmaid's_Tale

MattShizzle
22nd August 2011, 21:14
sounds like the handmaids tale
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Handmaid's_Tale

Sometimes it seems the US is headed that way. Much of that is what the Christian Right wants.

#FF0000
22nd August 2011, 21:51
Burn every church kthanks