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Princess Luna
14th August 2011, 14:43
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A gay man and a transgender woman have married in a first-of-its-kind wedding for Cuba.
Ignacio Estrada, 31, and Wendy Iriepa, 37, tied the knot as a transexual couple on Saturday at a government marriage office, where they signed a marriage certificate, exchanged rings and kissed before a state official.
Same-sex marriage is banned in Cuba but the couple's union did not break the law. Iriepa, the bride, is legally a woman after undergoing the country's first state-sanctioned sex change operation in 2007.
"This is the first wedding between a transsexual woman and a gay man," Estrada said.
"We celebrate it at the top of our voices and affirm that this is a step forward for the gay community in Cuba."
The wedding, held on Fidel Castro's 85th birthday in what the couple had called a "gift" to the former leader, was aimed at advancing homosexual rights in Cuba.
Some of Cuba's best-known dissidents participated and US diplomats attended in a public show of support.

The bride arrived in a 1950s Ford convertible, sitting up on the backseat and holding a gay pride flag.
"I'm very happy and very nervous," Iriepa said as she stepped down from the car. "This is really the happiest day of my life."
More tolerant
Many gays and transsexuals have been fired from government jobs, jailed, sent to work camps or left for exile.

That climate of persecution was famously chronicled by exiled writer Reinaldo Arenas' autobiographical Before Night Falls, later a feature film starring Javier Bardem.
Today, even if deep-seated macho attitudes toward homosexuality have not entirely disappeared, the island and its government are much more tolerant.
The country's most prominent gay rights activist is Mariela Castro, Fidel Castro's niece and President Raul Castro's daughter.

She heads the National Sex Education Centre and is firmly established in Cuban officialdom.
On arriving, Estrada said he was happy and nervous, but that the day's importance extended beyond him and his bride.
"This is a step forward for the gay community in Cuba," he said.

The couple met three months ago and fell in love, said Estrada, who has AIDS.

http://english.aljazeera.net/news/americas/2011/08/201181445658913808.html

RedAnarchist
14th August 2011, 15:11
Some of Cuba's best-known dissidents participated and US diplomats attended in a public show of support.

Hypocrites telling the Cubans to do as they say, not as they do. How many of those diplomats would support the wedding if it took place in the US?

Tenka
14th August 2011, 16:17
Isn't Iran ahead of Cuba in that regard? Allowing two people born the same sex who love each other to marry so long as one of them gets a sex change, I mean. Iran did it first, right?
I guess it can look progressive to us in The States....

Edit: Though please inform me here, I'm not sure if they're actually allowed to get married in Iran after the sex change.

Jazzratt
15th August 2011, 18:46
A gay man and a transgender woman have married in a first-of-its-kind wedding for Cuba. I'm fairly sure there's something wrong here...

Rusty Shackleford
15th August 2011, 18:54
I'm fairly sure there's something wrong here...
same thing just happened in the US. does it really matter though?

L.J.Solidarity
15th August 2011, 18:54
Gay fail, gender perception fail or general reporting fail?

Tenka
15th August 2011, 19:09
A gay man and a transgender woman have married in a first-of-its-kind wedding for Cuba.
I'm fairly sure there's something wrong here...
I guess he could be considered gay if she has yet to get her genitals inverted to complete the transition process, and has no intention of doing so -- but that's way too much of an assumption for anyone to make. The marriage of a male and a post-op (or even pre-op intent on having the operation) MtF transsexual (i.e., a female) is emphatically a heterosexual union.

Blackburn
15th August 2011, 19:12
Gay fail, gender perception fail or general reporting fail?

I'm leaning towards the last one: reporting fail.

Lenina Rosenweg
15th August 2011, 19:15
Gay fail, gender perception fail or general reporting fail?

Probably all three. I've heard that Wendy Iriepa originally worked for Mariela Castro, Raul's daughter, who has been active in promoting lgbt rights but they had a falling out when Iriepa got engaged to Estrada, who is something of an anti-regime dissident. (I don't know on what grounds, it seems he believes in lgbt activism apart from socialism)So a liberatory meme is given publicity (5 months after it occurred, it looks like) but in a subtle anti-regime context. The wedding itself reinforces bourgeois family norms.

Sexuality and gender identity can be very complicated. It may (or may not)be possible that the wedding is for show, as some sort of political statement.In the US, for the most part, gay men are attracted to other men. This may be in a different cultural context, I don't know.

As far as I know Wendy Iriepa is the first state sponsored post-op Cuban transsexual.

Having said all this, this event is a step forward.

Bad Grrrl Agro
16th August 2011, 12:59
I guess he could be considered gay if she has yet to get her genitals inverted to complete the transition process, and has no intention of doing so -- but that's way too much of an assumption for anyone to make. The marriage of a male and a post-op (or even pre-op intent on having the operation) MtF transsexual (i.e., a female) is emphatically a heterosexual union.
Read the part about her having srs in 2007 that was paid for by the Cuban government. Also, the majority of men I've been with are heterosexual except my current man who is bisexual but in a heterosexual relationship with me. Most of the women I've dated are lesbian (again with some bisexual exceptions) But then again I am looking forward to the day that I can get srs.

Also, she looks beautiful as a bride.