How High & How Low?

[Magón]

To you, at whatever age you're all at, how old and how young of an age, would/do you set for yourself in a relationship? You don't have to specify your exact age if you don't want to.

Personally I'm in my mid-late 20s, and would date a chick who was at least 20, and as old as 40.

What about you?

[¿Que?]

I've heard keeping a nice 10 year bracket either way is the best method for avoiding inter-generational miscommunication and problems.

[xub3rn00dlex]

I'm 20, and have a thing for high school chicks. But I don't generally pay attention to age, I rarely ever ask about it anyway.

[Pioneers_Violin]

10 years either way is about it for me.
Anything more than that and things get kinda complicated.

Still, there's lots of happy couples way out of that range so I guess it depends.

[Nox]

I would also say 10 years each way, but that would make it kind of awkward at age 16...

[Dogs On Acid]

Barely legal

[Luisrah]

I'm 18. I think I'd date an extremely mature 16, or 20, 21, 22...
But I'm dating a 17 lol

[Le Socialiste]

I'm 21. As much as I'd like to believe I'd be fine with 10 years each way (not a possibility until I'm at least 30 :rolleyes:), I think 5 years suits me best.

[thefinalmarch]

16
14-18

[Aspiring Humanist]

I clicked this thread because I thought it was asking how high I was
The answer is very

[Nox]

At age 16, I'd say I would probably go for someone aged 15-17 and the absolute oldest would be 25-28

[¿Que?]

I forget how old I am sometimes :crying:

[xub3rn00dlex]

I forget how old I am sometimes :crying:

You're 18 in my book buddy :D

[Il Medico]

I'm 20, I might be persuaded by a pretty face to dip down to 17, though generally I would prefer to stick with 18-19 on the low end. I don't really have a limit on how much older I'd go, save getting into 40's and such, but generally wouldn't want to date someone much more than 3 or 4 years older than me.

[black magick hustla]

18 is the low end the high end i dont really care while i feel attracted

[kitsune]

Probably two or three years younger to five or six years older, as a general rule.

It's just a guideline, though. I imagine there would be plenty of exceptions. It really depends a lot on the other person. Personality and chemistry are much bigger factors.

[Kamos]

18 is the low end the high end i dont really care while i feel attracted

This. Who cares about age in itself?

[The Dark Side of the Moon]

At age 14, I would say up to 17 as low as 13.

[PC LOAD LETTER]

I'm 22

Wouldn't go under 21 ... maybe 20. Wouldn't go over 24-26.

My 21 year old friend has been dating a 35 year old woman for about 2 years or so. I don't know if I could do that.

[Dogs On Acid]

I'm 22

Wouldn't go under 21 ... maybe 20. Wouldn't go over 24-26.

My 21 year old friend has been dating a 35 year old woman for about 2 years or so. I don't know if I could do that.

I lost my virginity at 16 with a 39 year old married woman with 2 kids. I didn't know if I could do that, but I did.

[NoOneIsIllegal]

I'm 21 y/o currently dating 22 y/o.

I would probably go from (mature) 18 to 24. My looks don't help (I look 17-ish).

[ellipsis]

I'm 20, and have a thing for high school chicks. But I don't generally pay attention to age, I rarely ever ask about it anyway.

This is... quite the post....:rolleyes:

Unfortunately for you, there are real implications, legally, in terms of consent and otherwise with establishing somebody's age before engaging in sexual activity. Consent laws vary by state, and I am not one to tell anybody "what to do", but I would advise you to rethink your policy of non-inquiry.

If I have misinterpreted what you meant, forgive and correct me.