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black magick hustla
21st May 2011, 00:41
i moved out again to another country. it is so hard. idk giving a hug to all my friends etc. its not like they are dead i guess. it feels like that tho. i am moving to a country that i know nothing about. dawg i feel so sad.

any tips

Tablo
21st May 2011, 01:27
Well, internet always helps. I always talk to people I miss online. Where are you moving?

Admiral Swagmeister G-Funk
21st May 2011, 01:31
i've never had the pleasure of leaving britain, i'd love to though. good luck with the move anyway.

Ele'ill
21st May 2011, 01:44
i moved out again to another country. it is so hard. idk giving a hug to all my friends etc. its not like they are dead i guess. it feels like that tho. i am moving to a country that i know nothing about. dawg i feel so sad.

any tips

Find a place, near your new place, that you like to go. A park, bar, bookstore, etc..

Walk into a music store and approach an area of music without looking at what it is- close your eyes and pick up a cd. That has become your new chapter soundtrack. Yeah I know you may hate it and everything but you'll always remember it and associate it with your first few months living there.

Magón
21st May 2011, 02:29
It's not so bad, really. It does seem like it at first, but when I moved I just relaxed for a couple of days, and figured it wasn't the end of seeing the friends and family that I was leaving.

If you want to make new friends there, which I'm sure you do, then just do the simple and easy thing, which is to find place you're interested around your new area, and meet some people there. You don't really have to go to wherever on the thought you need to find friends right away, but casual chit-chat never hurts anyone.

Os Cangaceiros
21st May 2011, 03:05
Moving is hard. It's weird seeing people you used to know, too, if you ever move back to your old stomping grounds. Yesterday I went and rode my bike over to my friend's house, but he wasn't there. His younger sister was, though, and I hadn't seen her in, like, six years, maybe? I remember her as just being a vaguely irritating little girl back then, but now she's a very pretty young woman who's graduating high school in a couple days. We talked for a while and caught up on things, but I got this really weird, very unpleasant feeling afterwards, like man, someday I'm going to be old, and it's gonna suck. I have weird existential feelings about time, which I shouldn't have at the young age of 22.

I guess that doesn't really have a lot to do with moving, except for the fact that it's weird to come back and see people you used to know, many of whom have changed so much it's hard to even recognize them as those people you used to hang out with.

Ele'ill
21st May 2011, 03:16
Moving is hard. It's weird seeing people you used to know, too, if you ever move back to your old stomping grounds. Yesterday I went and rode my bike over to my friend's house, but he wasn't there. His younger sister was, though, and I hadn't seen her in, like, six years, maybe? I remember her as just being a vaguely irritating little girl back then, but now she's a very pretty young woman who's graduating high school in a couple days. We talked for a while and caught up on things, but I got this really weird, very unpleasant feeling afterwards, like man, someday I'm going to be old, and it's gonna suck. I have weird existential feelings about time, which I shouldn't have at the young age of 22.

I guess that doesn't really have a lot to do with moving, except for the fact that it's weird to come back and see people you used to know, many of whom have changed so much it's hard to even recognize them as those people you used to hang out with.

The world has moved on. I feel old in my late 20's. People get married, have kids and die. Nothing stays as it was. The friends I've had who died young are forever themselves and I can keep them familiar. Everyone else is a flip of the coin.