Relationship

[Comrade1]

Hey I just hope that you guys dont think its to pathetic that I'm asking for relationship advice on a leftist forum, but well her I am. I was wondering for advice with my girlfriend. She flirt with alot of other guys and I was wondering what should I do? Ive spoken to her about it but it continues...should I break up with her??:confused:

[gorillafuck]

No that'd be pretty overbearing, unless she's cheating on you or something.

When people think their girlfriend/boyfriend is flirting with other people, a lot of the time it's because they're self-conscious and think that when she/he talks to other girls/guys it's flirting.

[Comrade1]

So what should I do??:confused:

[StalinFanboy]

chill the fuck out

[psgchisolm]

So what should I do??:confused:Flirt with other girls. Don't make it obvious just do it and if she sees she sees. Then when she confronts you about it set some boundaries. If she continues to break them break up. Also some girls are naturally flirty as are some guys(me). you just have to get used to it I guess.

[Comrade1]

Hey im chill just lookin for advice lol :laugh:

[Comrade1]

Flirt with other girls. Don't make it obvious just do it and if she sees she sees. Then when she confronts you about it set some boundaries. If she continues to break them break up. Also some girls are naturally flirty as are some guys(me). you just have to get used to it I guess.
Yeah i did this already, she confronted me, she got mad, I said you do the same thing, she just said nothing... so I told her well why should you be able to and not me, so at this point im just confused...

[psgchisolm]

Yeah i did this already, she confronted me, she got mad, I said you do the same thing, she just said nothing... so I told her well why should you be able to and not me, so at this point im just confused...

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. DON'T USE LOGIC. What type of flirty is she? Physical or just talk flirt.

[Comrade1]

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. DON'T USE LOGIC. What type of flirty is she? Physical or just talk flirt.
Both, she talks with the you know what I mean, and physically by like walking by guys and like walking that "show off walk" and like put her hands of guys, but not like that lol, like on one time even held his hand...

[gorillafuck]

This thread is so bad.

[Comrade1]

This thread is so bad.
Hey look im just askin for advice not critisism comrade...

[StalinFanboy]

plz trash

[NoOneIsIllegal]

Dump her if she doesn't agree with Luxemburg's theory of capital accumulation. Loser.

[Comrade1]

hahaha ok that made me laugh:lol:

[Dumb]

You should join her in flirting with the guy. When she does her show-off walk in front of a guy, you do the same thing in front of that same guy.

[Comrade1]

You should join her in flirting with the guy. When she does her show-off walk in front of a guy, you do the same thing in front of that same guy.
haha heyy that would be funny and make me look like an asshole so I like it :laugh:

[Comrade1]

But the thing is like this, she only did it infront of me once, all the other times my friends tell me "hey, your girlfriend was flirting with me" and like they will describe it to me so thats how i find out....

[Dumb]

Guys like to brag about women liking them; that's often the measure of a man, sadly. Don't believe everything you hear.

[NoOneIsIllegal]

Sometimes guys think they're being hit on when really it's just friendly conversation. The downfall of man, I tell you.

[Dumb]

Sometimes guys think they're being hit on when really it's just friendly conversation. The downfall of man, I tell you.

I tend to have the opposite problem. I never realized that "Hey, wanna show me your car" actually meant something. Of course, it would help if I actually had a car...and was at all interested...

But I digress!

[Manic Impressive]

Seems to me you have 2 choices trust her to not take the flirting to another level or don't trust her, if you don't trust her there doesn't seem to be much point in the relationship. Her flirtatious nature was probably part of the attraction in the first place. Why would you want her to change? And trying to change people often pushes them further away and gives them a reason to cheat. Just accept that being flirtatious is part of her personality.

[The Douche]

Challenge her to a fist fight.

[ZeroNowhere]

Read 'Capital'.

[Die Rote Fahne]

Dump her if she doesn't agree with Luxemburg's theory of capital accumulation. Loser.

Best. Advice. Of. Life.

[Manic Impressive]

Challenge her to a fist fight.
OK 3 choices

[Comrade1]

OK 3 choices
LMFAO, and thanks for the advice guys, what im gonna do is just trust her and think twice before I believe everything my friends tell me :lol:

[bailey_187]

Both, she talks with the you know what I mean, and physically by like walking by guys and like walking that "show off walk" and like put her hands of guys, but not like that lol, like on one time even held his hand...

meh, sounds pretty minor, lots of girls do this

if she's doing it infront of u it probably means she sees its fairly innocent

unless its constantly the one same guy. but if its different people, then yeah, minor

[Sugar Hill Kevis]

I'd probably ask your friends, or even some of her friends if you have a good rapport with them rather than ask anyone on this forum. a) It's better to get advice from someone who is more familiar with the situation, b) most people on here are dicks.

[psgchisolm]

Tell her you don't like it again. If she does it again dump her and don't look back.

[Magón]

But the thing is like this, she only did it infront of me once, all the other times my friends tell me "hey, your girlfriend was flirting with me" and like they will describe it to me so thats how i find out....

You've never told a friend that his girlfriend's hitting on you before, just for kicks? Sometimes even in front of the two of them?

Personally, I've done that several times, told them made up little things and such. Mostly it's to step up their game and shit, other times it's just for laughs. So maybe it's not necessarily your friends telling you the truth, it's them either saying, "Hey man, you've got to pick up your game with this chick or she's going to go off with someone else." OR "You're the most paranoid and hilarious mother fucker I know."

Either way, STEP UP YO GAME MOTHA FUCKA!!!

[Wanted Man]

You've never told a friend that his girlfriend's hitting on you before, just for kicks? Sometimes even in front of the two of them?

Personally, I've done that several times, told them made up little things and such. Mostly it's to step up their game and shit, other times it's just for laughs. So maybe it's not necessarily your friends telling you the truth, it's them either saying, "Hey man, you've got to pick up your game with this chick or she's going to go off with someone else." OR "You're the most paranoid and hilarious mother fucker I know."

Either way, STEP UP YO GAME MOTHA FUCKA!!!

Umm, okay. The locker room is that way.

[gorillafuck]

You've never told a friend that his girlfriend's hitting on you before, just for kicks? Sometimes even in front of the two of them?

Personally, I've done that several times, told them made up little things and such. Mostly it's to step up their game and shit, other times it's just for laughs. So maybe it's not necessarily your friends telling you the truth, it's them either saying, "Hey man, you've got to pick up your game with this chick or she's going to go off with someone else." OR "You're the most paranoid and hilarious mother fucker I know."

Either way, STEP UP YO GAME MOTHA FUCKA!!!Oh lord....

[Lyev]

My advice: don't ask for relationship tips on a internet forum for leftists.

[bailey_187]

My advice: don't ask for relationship tips on a internet forum for leftists.

dont ask on any online forum tbh lol

[Bad Grrrl Agro]

Flirt with other girls. Don't make it obvious just do it and if she sees she sees. Then when she confronts you about it set some boundaries. If she continues to break them break up. Also some girls are naturally flirty as are some guys(me). you just have to get used to it I guess.
This.

Perfect answer. I have a tendency to be flirty when I'm in a good mood and withdrawn or *****y when I'm in a bad mood.

[nuisance]

go on Jersey Shore.

[Magón]

Umm, okay. The locker room is that way.


Oh lord....


It's true, and it works about 80% of the time.

[ZeroNowhere]

LMFAO, and thanks for the advice guys, what im gonna do is just trust her and think twice before I believe everything my friends tell me :lol:
This is actually relatively reasonable. So why the hell are you on Revleft?

[nuisance]

You've never told a friend that his girlfriend's hitting on you before, just for kicks? Sometimes even in front of the two of them?

Personally, I've done that several times, told them made up little things and such. Mostly it's to step up their game and shit, other times it's just for laughs. So maybe it's not necessarily your friends telling you the truth, it's them either saying, "Hey man, you've got to pick up your game with this chick or she's going to go off with someone else." OR "You're the most paranoid and hilarious mother fucker I know."

Either way, STEP UP YO GAME MOTHA FUCKA!!!
You must have some pretty easy going mates.

[StalinFanboy]

Challenge her to a fist fight.



Read 'Capital'.

in this order

[PhoenixAsh]

1) communicate your feelings and that it makes you uncomfortable. This is always the 1st step: communicate

When you did this and it does not change

2) decide if you trust her or if it bothers u to be a persisting problem

If the answer is respectively no and/or yes --> breakup

[Dumb]

You've never told a friend that his girlfriend's hitting on you before, just for kicks? Sometimes even in front of the two of them?

Personally, I've done that several times, told them made up little things and such. Mostly it's to step up their game and shit, other times it's just for laughs. So maybe it's not necessarily your friends telling you the truth, it's them either saying, "Hey man, you've got to pick up your game with this chick or she's going to go off with someone else." OR "You're the most paranoid and hilarious mother fucker I know."

Either way, STEP UP YO GAME MOTHA FUCKA!!!

Sounds like capitalism.

[Rafiq]

Don't get upset, there's nothing wrong with flirting, she probably is just being social. If she wanted someone else over you, shed dump you, trust me.