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Rottenfruit
28th January 2011, 02:25
Ever since i saw the movie Romper stomper i´ve been obessed over the skinhea and neo nazism, i always have found it so "manly" and "cool looking"

but today i figured out why and it had nothing to do with the neo nazism oh no and you can guess what it was.
well ive been looking at pictures of shirtless boneheads/skinheads for 2 days and finaly figured it out when well let´s just say a surden body part of mine grows by looking at sweety musculuar shirtless skinheads :blushing: , and well i think i used the intrest in neo nazism as an excuse to look at pictures of skinheads shirtless
So yeah im a bisexual :cool:

Ele'ill
28th January 2011, 03:10
and well i think i used the intrest in neo nazism as an excuse

Are you a neo-nazi?

Tablo
28th January 2011, 03:11
Anarchists are much cuter guys than Nazis.

gorillafuck
28th January 2011, 03:19
Ever since i saw the movie Romper stomper i´ve been obessed over the skinhea and neo nazism, i always have found it so "manly" and "cool looking"
Honestly this is a really bizarre sort of "intro" to coming out.

Skinheads aren't attractive btw.

Edit: Wait you collected pictures of shirtless neo-nazis because you thought you were interested in nazism? what the hell?

Rottenfruit
28th January 2011, 03:20
Are you a neo-nazi?
NO, like i said i used to hang out on a few nazi sites to look at pictures of well skinheads, heck what i did mostly was collecting pictures of the skinheads for "archicing"

Catmatic Leftist
28th January 2011, 03:24
Why not look at anarchist and red skinheads? :cool:

Rottenfruit
28th January 2011, 03:27
NO, like i said i used to hang out on a few nazi sites to look at pictures of well skinheads, heck what i did mostly was collecting pictures of the skinheads for "archicing"

IF by a neo nazi you mean a neo nazi who has had sex with a black person ,asian and roma plus has a sexual fetish for bald shirtless men :laugh:

Who?
28th January 2011, 03:30
I'm not 100% sure about this, but I'm going to have to say:

http://images.t-nation.com/forum_images/2/9/291e9_ORIG-successful_troll.jpg

TC
28th January 2011, 06:53
Anarchists are much cuter guys than Nazis.

neo-nazis are much more likely to lift weights - anarchists more likely to be skinny or chubby or otherwise not muscular :p.

This thread is, btw, totally trollish.

Rottenfruit
28th January 2011, 07:07
neo-nazis are much more likely to lift weights - anarchists more likely to be skinny or chubby or otherwise not muscular :p.

This thread is, btw, totally trollish.

Yeah but it is not , the reason why i was attricted to the skinhead scene was because i am attracted to skinheads :D

Niccolò Rossi
28th January 2011, 07:14
neo-nazis are much more likely to lift weights - anarchists more likely to be skinny or chubby or otherwise not muscular :p.

They're also less likely to be vegetarians which helps...

Yes, I went there

Nic.

The Fighting_Crusnik
28th January 2011, 07:18
Wow... it amazes me how screwed up one's personal fetish can be...

Personally, I go for the wide, thin, muscular types and the intellectuals. :D

Ele'ill
28th January 2011, 07:27
technocracy will never work

Tablo
28th January 2011, 07:43
Hey, I'm neither skinny nor fat nor a vegetarian. D:

Political_Chucky
28th January 2011, 07:55
Rottenfruit, you must have the shittiest vocab and spelling I have ever heard.

And I think I fit the Anarchist Stereo-type :\ but not for long! Bet you haven't seen a Rockabilly Anarchist :cool:

TC
28th January 2011, 10:16
Yeah but it is not , the reason why i was attricted to the skinhead scene was because i am attracted to skinheads :D
...you only say you just now discover you find them attractive - but you were involved or interested in neo-nazis earlier, before recognizing your attraction...so your causality chain makes little sense (the 'cause' came after the effect!)

Widerstand
28th January 2011, 11:55
neo-nazis are much more likely to lift weights - anarchists more likely to be skinny or chubby or otherwise not muscular :p.

This thread is, btw, totally trollish.

Weight lifting is authoritarian bullshit! :lol:


They're also less likely to be vegetarians which helps...

Yes, I went there

Nic.

Die :scared:


...you only say you just now discover you find them attractive - but you were involved or interested in neo-nazis earlier, before recognizing your attraction...so your causality chain makes little sense (the 'cause' came after the effect!)

He could be attracted without acknowledging this attraction, after all.

Or...

HE COULD BE A NAZI! ALERTA!

Sasha
28th January 2011, 12:23
15 years in anti-fascism showed me that of those who where in the butch/macho drink beer and sieg heil at concerts crowd (so the let say less "political" nazi's) more than 50% who leave come out as gay later, under the leadership its even higher.
so it wouldnt suprise me.

a pretty good documetary about homosexuality in german neo-nazism is this one: http://www.google.com/search?q=schwulle+nazis&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&aq=t&rls=org.mozilla:nl:official&client=firefox-a#sclient=psy&hl=en&client=firefox-a&hs=V8n&rls=org.mozilla:nl%3Aofficial&q=M%C3%A4nner%2C+Helden%2C+schwule+Nazis&aq=f&aqi=g1g-v1g-o1&aql=&oq=&pbx=1&fp=d9008d84f286047

here with english subtitles: http://www.zie.nl/video/ingezonden/18-Mnner-Helden-und-schwule-Nazis/m1dz70pfefv0

Manic Impressive
28th January 2011, 12:29
What's the appropriate thing to say to someone who has just come out?

Congratulations perhaps?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=23ZG6HJVKuQ (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=23ZG6HJVKuQ)

KC
28th January 2011, 13:27
neo-nazis are much more likely to lift weights

That's because most (all) anarchists are socially awkward losers who have an anti-jock mentality and associate lifting with jocks that used to pick on them in highschool.

Widerstand
28th January 2011, 13:31
That's because most (all) anarchists are socially awkward losers who have an anti-jock mentality and associate lifting with jocks that used to pick on them in highschool.

I don't even know what a jock is.

Il Medico
28th January 2011, 14:46
I don't even know what a jock is.
http://www.mecha.com/%7Econkle/mm/photos/brad-johnson-2.jpg
"Hey nerd, get over here so I can give you a wedgie"

Widerstand
28th January 2011, 15:31
http://www.mecha.com/%7Econkle/mm/photos/brad-johnson-2.jpg
"Hey nerd, get over here so I can give you a wedgie"

Interestingly enough I have never met such a person in my entire life.

I guess it follows that either

a) I'm a crypto-stalinist
or b) KC is talking bullshit

ÑóẊîöʼn
28th January 2011, 16:10
Interestingly enough I have never met such a person in my entire life.

I guess it follows that either

a) I'm a crypto-stalinist
or b) KC is talking bullshit

why are you confusing KC with TC?

Widerstand
28th January 2011, 17:09
why are you confusing KC with TC?

I'm not sure what you are saying, is it that I secretly quoted TC even though the post was clearly written and posted by KC? TC wasn't the one making statements about Anarchists being anti-social and whatnot.

http://www.revleft.com/vb/showpost.php?p=2003773&postcount=20

Quail
28th January 2011, 17:21
http://www.mecha.com/%7Econkle/mm/photos/brad-johnson-2.jpg
"Hey nerd, get over here so I can give you a wedgie"
Do these people even exist outside of American movies about teenagers?

Also, bollocks to skinheads not being attractive!

Catmatic Leftist
28th January 2011, 17:33
Do these people even exist outside of American movies about teenagers?

Also, bollocks to skinheads not being attractive!

They most certainly do. People who play football and are buff and pick on nerds are at the top of the social strata in American high schools.

Magón
28th January 2011, 20:26
Do these people even exist outside of American movies about teenagers?

Also, bollocks to skinheads not being attractive!

If you've ever seen an actual American high school or college, you'd see those kinds of guys in no time. They're impressionable people, so they dress as the actors who play jocks do. Which is like the guy in the pic. It's rather sad actually. :lol:

Quail
28th January 2011, 21:05
I guess over here in the UK we have different cliques at school. Maybe it's because American schools seem to make a bigger deal out of sports?

Tablo
28th January 2011, 21:58
I guess over here in the UK we have different cliques at school. Maybe it's because American schools seem to make a bigger deal out of sports?
They do. My high school had virtually no funding for the arts, but had new weight lifting facilities, new football jerseys almost every year, and a lot more awesome stuff for the athletics program.

Os Cangaceiros
28th January 2011, 22:07
That's because most (all) anarchists are socially awkward losers who have an anti-jock mentality and associate lifting with jocks that used to pick on them in highschool.

Hey! That's not true!

I didn't get picked on by jocks in high school!

Os Cangaceiros
28th January 2011, 22:12
As far as the question of "jocks" in American schools go, it depends largely on the school. It's not a constant throughout the U.S. No one gave a shit about sports in my school, for example. The kids who rarely went to class and smoked a lot of pot (aka the kind of people that I liked) were just as popular as the kids who did athletics (although there was a lot of overlap of course...it wasn't some kind of ultra-stratified social hierarchy like how some movies portray it). But I'm sure that a lot of other schools (especially in the South) are the polar opposite.

Tablo
28th January 2011, 22:54
As far as the question of "jocks" in American schools go, it depends largely on the school. It's not a constant throughout the U.S. No one gave a shit about sports in my school, for example. The kids who rarely went to class and smoked a lot of pot (aka the kind of people that I liked) were just as popular as the kids who did athletics (although there was a lot of overlap of course...it wasn't some kind of ultra-stratified social hierarchy like how some movies portray it). But I'm sure that a lot of other schools (especially in the South) are the polar opposite.
Kind of. My school had stoners that were cool, but there was little overlap. There were also stoners that were not cool, like me.

Os Cangaceiros
28th January 2011, 22:58
Also, Not Another Teen Movie (aka the movie that the jock picture is from) is one of the only "spoof movies" that I like. I guess it would be a guilty pleasure of mine, if I believed in the concept.

Il Medico
28th January 2011, 23:16
My school had an absolutely horrible football team. My main friend group was the art and english people. Though, my best friend was swim team captain, but he isn't really your classic jock. The 'jock' type existed, but weren't dominate.

Oddly enough, I never had any problems with any of them and was generally liked by them. (despite being their complete opposite)

Magón
28th January 2011, 23:30
Everyone at my high school was a soccer kid, or nothing... well maybe lacrosse, but how many Mexicans do you see playing lacrosse for the most part?

Catmatic Leftist
29th January 2011, 00:28
Our school's football team was #1 in the state for a while, but everything else takes a back seat in terms of funding. Our music program got cut last year and our orchestra program completely sucked. The only option for me was joining the Chicago Youth Symphony Orchestra, but it's like $700 a season and I can't afford that even though I'm perfectly capable of qualifying for it.
I was fortunate enough be popular because I tutored half of the jocks and I saved a lot of them from a round of disciplinary action one year. I honestly had more problems with the people in my honors/AP courses because they were all rich and a lot of them were really cocky.

Political_Chucky
29th January 2011, 00:53
My school had an absolutely horrible football team. My main friend group was the art and english people. Though, my best friend was swim team captain, but he isn't really your classic jock. The 'jock' type existed, but weren't dominate.

Oddly enough, I never had any problems with any of them and was generally liked by them. (despite being their complete opposite)
Really? They never made you do the truffle shuffle?
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Il Medico
29th January 2011, 02:05
Really? They never made you do the truffle shuffle?
Youtube video
Haha, no, definitely not. I tend to get along with pretty much everyone, at least I did in high school. In fact, most of the jocks and cheerleader types had a weird obsession with being overly flirtatious and I was the only 'geek' who flirted back. They liked that for some reason.

Pirate Utopian
29th January 2011, 02:36
http://www.mecha.com/%7Econkle/mm/photos/brad-johnson-2.jpg
"Hey nerd, get over here so I can give you a wedgie"
It's that guy from Not Another Teen Movie.
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Blackscare
29th January 2011, 02:49
I really want to know what that fucking bowling ball was for.

Amphictyonis
29th January 2011, 07:13
(sing it with me)

* There's a place in France where the naked ladies dance and the men don't care cuz they wear no underwear.

Rottenfruit
29th January 2011, 17:32
What's the appropriate thing to say to someone who has just come out?

Congratulations perhaps?

I just had to get this off my chest

Rottenfruit
29th January 2011, 17:38
15 years in anti-fascism showed me that of those who where in the butch/macho drink beer and sieg heil at concerts crowd (so the let say less "political" nazi's) more than 50% who leave come out as gay later, under the leadership its even higher.
so it wouldnt suprise me.

a pretty good documetary about homosexuality in german neo-nazism is this one:

here with english subtitles:

Thanks for the link, i am watching it.

StalinFanboy
31st January 2011, 03:15
http://www.mecha.com/%7Econkle/mm/photos/brad-johnson-2.jpg
"Hey nerd, get over here so I can give you a wedgie"

To be totally fair, that is a really nice jacket

Political_Chucky
31st January 2011, 03:26
To be totally fair, that is a really nice jacket

haha if your into letterman jackets I guess. I always liked LRG's variations. Wanted one when I was growin' up:rolleyes:

http://l6.zassets.com/images/z/1/3/0/1308066-p-DETAILED.jpg

StalinFanboy
31st January 2011, 06:10
Yeah that ones nice too.

I really like the colours on the first one though.

KC
4th February 2011, 06:17
Temple of Jawnz has the best one

https://toj.pixi.me/d/1521-3/fumiqp.jpg

Angry Young Man
4th February 2011, 16:06
my best friend was swim team captain,

:wub: Did he wear a speedo?

Bad Grrrl Agro
4th February 2011, 16:26
I'm physically attracted to muscular masculine men but it seems their attitude is a turn off. I have also a deep seeded attraction for butch lesbians too. Does this make me bisexual?

And I'm not into femmes even though I am a femme.

Dr. Rosenpenis
4th February 2011, 16:47
i find the idea of coming kinda out of the closet very interesting
why don't you just completely come out of the closet?
you've already done the hardest part probably by opening the door
what's stopping you from completely coming out?
perhaps you've only admitted that you like guys, but you're not ready to fuck any?

The Red Next Door
4th February 2011, 16:58
Our school's football team was #1 in the state for a while, but everything else takes a back seat in terms of funding. Our music program got cut last year and our orchestra program completely sucked. The only option for me was joining the Chicago Youth Symphony Orchestra, but it's like $700 a season and I can't afford that even though I'm perfectly capable of qualifying for it.
I was fortunate enough be popular because I tutored half of the jocks and I saved a lot of them from a round of disciplinary action one year. I honestly had more problems with the people in my honors/AP courses because they were all rich and a lot of them were really cocky.

At my school, the jock shit was not tolerated and we weirdos were the most consider cool and the jock will talk to us. but yeah, at my school jocky assholism was not allow. Character was more important in our high school sport teams.

The Red Next Door
4th February 2011, 16:58
I'm physically attracted to muscular masculine men but it seems their attitude is a turn off. I have also a deep seeded attraction for butch lesbians too. Does this make me bisexual?

And I'm not into femmes even though I am a femme.

yes.

Bad Grrrl Agro
4th February 2011, 19:14
yes.
Are you saying that as a compliment or an insult?

Political_Chucky
4th February 2011, 22:49
I'm physically attracted to muscular masculine men but it seems their attitude is a turn off. I have also a deep seeded attraction for butch lesbians too. Does this make me bisexual?

And I'm not into femmes even though I am a femme.

Mehh that's a bit of a stereo-type. I know some guys who are pretty toned up and buff and they are really great guys and really smart. I won't lie though, most guys are pretty fucked up and it astonishes me how those types of guys pull in girls, but then I remember the laws of power:rolleyes:

The Red Next Door
11th February 2011, 22:16
Are you saying that as a compliment or an insult?

comp

Fawkes
11th February 2011, 23:38
Jocks like that definitely exist in the U.S. We had a shitload at my high school, I hated them. I never really got much shit from them though which I think is due to my group of friends having a reputation as being the mentally unstable fuck ups, but I'm sure a lot of them hated me (yes, I am aware that I sound like a tool right now). I'm attracted to physically built guys, but their personalities can often be a turn off (not that they all have the same one).

Il Medico
11th February 2011, 23:47
:wub: Did he wear a speedo?
Yes. But not the type you're thinking.

Swim Speedos:
http://img3.prosperent.com/images/250x250/images.hisroom.com/items/speedo-spdo01-8059030-gv.jpg

TC
11th February 2011, 23:52
I'm physically attracted to muscular masculine men but it seems their attitude is a turn off. I have also a deep seeded attraction for butch lesbians too. Does this make me bisexual?

Yes... :p it also means you seriously stereotype muscular/masculine men :p.




And I'm not into femmes even though I am a femme.

Isn't that how it goes more often than not?

TC
11th February 2011, 23:58
i find the idea of coming kinda out of the closet very interesting
why don't you just completely come out of the closet?
you've already done the hardest part probably by opening the door
what's stopping you from completely coming out?
perhaps you've only admitted that you like guys, but you're not ready to fuck any?

Actually i think "kind of coming out of the closet" isn't at all the same as 'coming out of the closet'

In that being closeted implies that you know you're gay/bi but you deny it publicly or at least fail to acknowledge it - whereas in this case the original poster was really coming to a realization that he might be bi...

Also you should know that a lot of people have same sex attraction without an interest in same-sex sex. I do think that the ordinary understanding of being 'bi' as opposed to simply having incidental same sex sexual attraction it should include an interest in sex and relationships...but it is possible to be attracted to someone without wanting to have sex with them (this is obviously the case even with one's preferred gender).

Bad Grrrl Agro
12th February 2011, 13:38
Yes... :p
Good to know!


it also means you seriously stereotype muscular/masculine men :p.
Oh, if you met guys I've been with you'd get it.




Isn't that how it goes more often than not?
At least in my case.

Thirsty Crow
15th February 2011, 00:37
E
well ive been looking at pictures of shirtless boneheads/skinheads for 2 days and finaly figured it out when well let´s just say a surden body part of mine grows by looking at sweety musculuar shirtless skinheads :blushing:
You have bad taste in men.
Unlike me.