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Aloysius
7th September 2010, 04:30
I'm done pretending.
I'm bisexual, but no-one else knows, and I'm not sure how to tell anyone...
Help?

Quail
7th September 2010, 04:43
I personally told my friends while I was drunk. Not the best advice I guess. I've never told my (homophobic) family because I decided I'd only tell them if I got into a serious relationship with a girl, which so far I haven't.

Widerstand
7th September 2010, 04:44
I think most people are more acceptant of bisexuals than to strictly-homosexuals, if that's any help.

Quail
7th September 2010, 04:47
The only problem is that some people consider bisexuals to either be putting it on to get attention, or pretending that they're not 100% gay.

scarletghoul
7th September 2010, 04:52
I don't think it's really necessary to go around 'telling people' like "hello, I am bisexual" or "mom, pops, i got somethin to tell ya..". Just don't deny it or hide it when it's relevant. My brother's gay and he doesn't explicitly tell people, just lets them figure it out. In other words don't be in a rush to tell everyone, but also don't deny/hide it. And if someone gets funny then that's their problem

ellipsis
7th September 2010, 05:03
Yah, I agree no rush to tell the whole world. Its awesome that you are figuring out your sexual being, but most likely there is more to find out about yourself, so there is no rush. If you need to tell SOMEONE, first you just told us and second, think of ONE friend who is a good enough friend that they will keep ur secret and not freak out.

Aloysius
8th September 2010, 01:33
Thanks, everyone.
Yeah, I got a friend.