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FinnMacCool
9th June 2010, 04:54
This is not a political topic, so but its a very serious and personal issue that I am dealing with right now.

In 2007 my best friend named Charlie, who was walking down a sidewalk, was hit by a car in a chain reaction type of accident.

A van was speeding down the road, while another car was making an illegal left turn and they collided and Charlie was just caught in the middle of it.

In the car they had found a bong. Also, the passenger in the van came forward later saying that the driver was abusing vicodin at the time of the accident.

However, after some manuvering by the van driver's lawyer, the passagenrs testimony was not allowed to be entered in the court. No mention of drugs was allowed to be mentioned. In the end, all the van driver got was a 200 dollar fine and had his license revoked, which he now has back.

In addition, although the driver pled guilty to the speeding ticket, the court said that he was not speeding.

THe victim's family, who I'm very close to, when they brought this up to the DA, they said that was outrageous and they would look into it. They never got back to them.

I want to pursue my own journalistic investigation into the process for which this man was allowed to get away with murder, basically. But the victim's mother does not want me to get involved, for my own sake, and I feel like I cannot do it without her support.

This is a very difficult thing for me to be going through, so I hope people here can offer some kind of guidance.

synthesis
9th June 2010, 04:56
What does "for your own sake" mean, here? Is retribution actually a possibility? Sorry to hear about your friend.

FinnMacCool
9th June 2010, 04:57
What does "for your own sake" mean, here? Is retribution actually a possibility? Sorry to hear about your friend.

I'm not looking for retribution really; just answers.

Edit: Oh, I see what you mean. I don't know if it's a possibility or not, but I think they are just afraid I will come away disillusioned. But I'm already prepared for that.

synthesis
9th June 2010, 05:10
Well, you have to consider the possibility that your friend's mother doesn't want to be consumed with negativity about the judgment, and just wants to mourn her son in peace.

If that's the case, then you should respect that; if you can do it without her, then do it without her. If you can't, then drop it. If she seems open to the idea of pursuing justice for your friend, then try to be gentle about it.

gorillafuck
11th June 2010, 00:22
Abusing vicodin while driving was certainly wrong, but what's the significance of a bong in the car?

My condolences about your friend, by the way.