I went on hunger strike

[Sand Castle]

I went on hunger strike back in February. It lasted four days. I just really wanted to talk about this whole situation. I feel it's better to talk with strangers online about it because there is none of the baggage I would get from talking to real life friends, who haven't given me any good advice really (not that I'm expecting anything better here).

It's funny, because Maoist Rebel News reported on it and I was on my university student radio talking about it. But here is what makes it so different. I was on hunger strike for love. I know, it's crazy. I was refusing to eat until I got a girlfriend. It didn't work. One girl bought me lunch, and a few days later said that she felt I wouldn't be good in a relationship.

Through four days of hunger, I only gained a small opportunity which I failed with. It's been almost three or four months, and I don't know what to do now. For the longest time I have tried the so-called "normal" methods. I have been trying dating websites, but I never get anywhere. I tried Craigslist and that got me a bunch of SPAM. I'm only 19, so local matchmakers don't want me as a customer. I know some girls from school and the activism I do, but they are usually with someone already or something.

I have been thinking about a new and longer hunger strike next year, but I don't know if I want to go through with it. It's not something you can turn on and off like a hose. People will say, "oh, he did this shit last year for a little while. He will eat again soon, no big deal, ignore him."

You have to understand, I can't stand being single and feeling unloved. Some people like being alone. If that makes them happy, then good for them. They should do what makes them happy. I'm not one of them. I'm emotional, I need to be held and stuff. I know I'll get made fun of, but I can't help who I am. I haven't ever really had a relationship. I just want to get into one before it's too late for anyone to even bother wanting to love me. I'm sure that if I get into one tomorrow that it probably won't last forever, but having that shot at love is better than having no shots at all.

What are your thoughts? Is there anything else I can do? What has worked for you in the past?

[9]

Ehm, well... honestly, I don't think you should do another hunger strike. If I witnessed something like that, I'd be more than a little weirded out by it. Its just that it seems like you're trying way too hard, and I think more often than not that is actually a pretty big turn-off... it's just, I don't think any women are gonna wanna go out with you when it seems like an act of sympathy, like you're so desperate for a date that you'll take anything you can get... I'm not really sure what else to tell you, bro; sorry.

[RedStarOverChina]

Are you serious? :blink:

[Sand Castle]

Are you serious? :blink:
Yes.


Ehm, well... honestly, I don't think you should do another hunger strike. If I witnessed something like that, I'd be more than a little weirded out by it. Its just that it seems like you're trying way too hard, and I think more often than not that is actually a pretty big turn-off... it's just, I don't think any women are gonna wanna go out with you when it seems like an act of sympathy, like you're so desperate for a date that you'll take anything you can get... I'm not really sure what else to tell you, bro; sorry.
I get that a lot. But the reality is that I am actually that desperate.

[Raúl Duke]

I seriously don't know what advice to give you...

But I don't think a 2nd round of hunger striking will do any good over this.

[black magick hustla]

lower your standards. get involved in things you like. idk. i havent had a lot of luck lately with relationships but it has to do with shitty intimacy issues than any sort of awkwardness with women. i am really good at chatting people up actually. i am also good at public speaking. but sometimes emotionally i am a manchild and a dick

[black magick hustla]

yea and women donmt like desperate people man. its the same thing with men. except men first hit that shit and then regret it while women are smarter about it

[black magick hustla]

i knew a guy who got one of his testicles pulled out by some crazy woman in breakup sex. crazy

[Foldered]

I don't want to sound harsh, but the reality is is that if you haven't been in a relationship, then thinking that is what you need is problematic. I've been in plenty of relationships; I've loved, I've been loved, etc., but I will be the first to tell you that intentionally seeking out a relationship because you want one will never work. The minute you rely on a "relationship" to be happy, to be complete, you begin to undermine the person you're in a relationship with (if you get to that point).
Sit back, enjoy life, be social, and one day you'll meet someone, but DO NOT make that your life goal (I don't care how desperate you are, you will never have a healthy relationship if you are only in one for the sake of a being in a relationship).
And you're only 19. Believe it, or not, you have plenty of time to fall in love and be loved in return.
Your priority should be figuring out how to be content alone before you decide to be with someone; you're idealizing something you've never had, at this point.

[Zapatas Guns]

I don't think another hunger strike will work. To be honest I don't think a hunger strike until you find a partner is appropriate. If you do find someone while on a hunger strike it will probably just be for pity. It may seem like there is no one out there for you but there is. You might have heard that a million times already but it is true.

First and foremost you need to know yourself and have confidence. I don't know if you are a man or a woman, straight or gay, but those two traits are universal. Start hanging it out in places where the opposite sex frequents. I find all sorts of women at block parties, art shows, and farmers markets. The girlfriend I have been with for a year and a half now I found on craigslist. Craigslist! Of all places. I got a lot of spam and baloney looking on CL but there are some real people there. I started with emails and after a while we moved to phone calls and then we eventually met. The dating site you have to pay for are rip offs.

You are 19. You should be playing the field anyway. Most people don't find their soul mate that young. A lot of heart-ach awaits you. Just wait until you find the person you think is the 'one' and it falls apart.

Stick to it. Be yourself. Never stop looking and learn how to flirt so you meet new people all the time.

Flirting is easy and effective but only after you practice it. So like for 2 weeks, make it a point to just smile at someone you find attractive. You don't need to talk to them. Just smile. Every 2 weeks you add something while continuing to do what you did previously. So week 3 Smile and say hi to someone sexy everyday. Then add small talk. Then add a drink or ask someone out. Set a daily goal. Like "I will go out and smile at 5 sexy people today."

It doesn't matter if the person you like is married or with someone else. The point is you are practicing and getting comfortable around the opposite sex (or the same sex if that is your thing). Hell if someone is involved with someone else they might be wanting to break up because they are unhappy and if you are there at the right place at the right time the person they hook up with can be you! I've seen it.

Just keep trying and don't get down when you are turned down. Everyone has been turned down. It is part of the game.

[Tablo]

I have had a bit of a dry spell as far as love goes, but it isn't a big deal. Everyone gets rejected. Sometimes you have to "lower your standards" which is a nice way of saying go for the less attractive and less pursued women. In all honesty relationships and love bring more drama and hurt than I think it is really worth. Everyone should experience it, but you don't need to rush something that will eventually come quite naturally. Message me on facebook if you want to talk a bit more about it.

[Vendetta]

Party more.

[9]

Party more.

this, basically.

[Scary Monster]

Yeah I agree with our fellow commies here. Trust me, it would not be healthy to be in a relationship just because you dont wanna feel alone anymore. I think youd just have to learn to have fun- youre only 19! Girls around our age (im 22) that ive come across are either confused about what they want, or are not very serious about looking for a "lifelong partner". It might not be the case with others, but thats just my observation.

So yeah, just try to have some fun- youll feel a whole lot better if you stop being so used to feeling miserable about yourself, accept who you are, and dont take your life so seriously. Believe me- girls like a guy with confidence, has a sense of humor and is very caring yet not so emotionally intense all the time. Id say these are what most women really care about, unless shes shallow.


Party more.

Yuup this sums it all up!

[Tablo]

Yeah I agree with our fellow commies here. Trust me, it would not be healthy to be in a relationship just because you dont wanna feel alone anymore. I think youd just have to learn to have fun- youre only 19! Girls around our age (im 22) that ive come across are either confused about what they want, or are not very serious about looking for a "lifelong partner". It might not be the case with others, but thats just my observation.

So yeah, just try to have some fun- youll feel a whole lot better if you stop being so used to feeling miserable about yourself, accept who you are, and dont take your life so seriously. Believe me- girls like a guy with confidence, has a sense of humor and is very caring yet not so emotionally intense all the time. Id say these are what most women really care about, unless shes shallow.



Yuup this sums it all up!
^This.

[ed miliband]

I think the hunger strike thing probably scared people, and it almost seems like emotional blackmail - you're harming yourself and you will continue to harm yourself until somebody comes along to save you. Any prospective partner will probably be worried about entering a relationship with you lest you attempt something like that when the relationship collapses (...if it does, of course).

The best advice really is to party more.

[bricolage]

If you actually are serious about this then you really need to sort your shit out.
1. Not eating is bad for you.
2. No one is attracted to to a guy that starves himself.
3. If for some ridiculous reasons 2 is not true then you really think it is a good idea to emotionally force someone into a relationship with you?
4. Get drunk instead.
5. Shit happens. Deal with it.

[Dimentio]

I went on hunger strike back in February. It lasted four days. I just really wanted to talk about this whole situation. I feel it's better to talk with strangers online about it because there is none of the baggage I would get from talking to real life friends, who haven't given me any good advice really (not that I'm expecting anything better here).

It's funny, because Maoist Rebel News reported on it and I was on my university student radio talking about it. But here is what makes it so different. I was on hunger strike for love. I know, it's crazy. I was refusing to eat until I got a girlfriend. It didn't work. One girl bought me lunch, and a few days later said that she felt I wouldn't be good in a relationship.

Through four days of hunger, I only gained a small opportunity which I failed with. It's been almost three or four months, and I don't know what to do now. For the longest time I have tried the so-called "normal" methods. I have been trying dating websites, but I never get anywhere. I tried Craigslist and that got me a bunch of SPAM. I'm only 19, so local matchmakers don't want me as a customer. I know some girls from school and the activism I do, but they are usually with someone already or something.

I have been thinking about a new and longer hunger strike next year, but I don't know if I want to go through with it. It's not something you can turn on and off like a hose. People will say, "oh, he did this shit last year for a little while. He will eat again soon, no big deal, ignore him."

You have to understand, I can't stand being single and feeling unloved. Some people like being alone. If that makes them happy, then good for them. They should do what makes them happy. I'm not one of them. I'm emotional, I need to be held and stuff. I know I'll get made fun of, but I can't help who I am. I haven't ever really had a relationship. I just want to get into one before it's too late for anyone to even bother wanting to love me. I'm sure that if I get into one tomorrow that it probably won't last forever, but having that shot at love is better than having no shots at all.

What are your thoughts? Is there anything else I can do? What has worked for you in the past?

I don't want to come of as a prick or condemn your choice of methodologies, but this was thoroughly mind-baffling to me.

Could you elaborate?

You went out on a hunger strike because you have had problems with the opposite sex? Right?

:confused:

[eyedrop]

So yeah, just try to have some fun- youll feel a whole lot better if you stop being so used to feeling miserable about yourself, accept who you are, and dont take your life so seriously. Believe me- girls like a guy with confidence, has a sense of humor and is very caring yet not so emotionally intense all the time. Id say these are what most women really care about, unless shes shallow.

Why do people always pretend like women don't care about looks at all? It's not like the popular boys at elementary school are the ones who look like train-wrecks. Give up your views of the idealised woman on the pedestal.

A great personality or some other qualities can compensate to a degree, but most women need some physical attraction. Don't expect a woman who spends a decent amount of time caring for her looks to fall for a guy with cheetos popping out of his ears, unless he has money.

To the OP:

Chances are you are either:

*Plain unattractive

*Needy

*Uninteresting

*Not meeting enough people

All of those points can be addressed.

Be, or at least pretend to be, something that people can find attractive.

[9]

If you actually are serious about this then you really need to sort your shit out.
1. Get drunk instead.
2. Get drunk instead.
3. If for some ridiculous reasons 2 is not true then get drunk.
4. Get drunk instead.
5. Shit happens. Do some drugs.

agreed.

[Honggweilo]

call me a macktivist for suggesting this popular controversial book, but this is really a good self-help read getting insight in flirting/dating psychology in the first stages (ignoring some of the chauvinist goals, who later in the book are relativated).

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Game:_Penetrating_the_Secret_Society_of_Pickup _Artists

I think this would be some relativating guidance for you, not to be completely needy, not making dating your goal in life, and just try to find your self-worth and self-confidence.

[Saorsa]

This guy is trolling and you all fell for it.






Surely.

[Ravachol]

lower your standards.

Never do that.


just try to find your self-worth and self-confidence.

Do this instead.

Nobody likes self-pity and the whole 'woe-is-me' thing. Self-confidence, on the other hand, is glorious and proletarian!

[Scary Monster]

Why do people always pretend like women don't care about looks at all? It's not like the popular boys at elementary school are the ones who look like train-wrecks. Give up your views of the idealised woman on the pedestal.

A great personality or some other qualities can compensate to a degree, but most women need some physical attraction. Don't expect a woman who spends a decent amount of time caring for her looks to fall for a guy with cheetos popping out of his ears, unless he has money.

lol my "views of the idealised woman on the pedestal"? :lol: And get over yourself dude. Its not like i said "girls dont care about looks at all". Honestly, most girls really dont care too much about how a guy looks, unless shes a shallow *****. Of course they dont want a 300 pound guy covered in cheeto dust who plays world of warcraft all day- thats just common sense (there are always exceptions though). On the other hand, someone does not need to look like James Dean to get a nice attractive gal. I have a friend who you would say really is not very attractive, but his girlfriend is pretty hot. Sure, its easier for a good looking guy with shit personality to get some hot girl, but for a guy whos not as good looking and is not a douche bag- he has just as much of a chance.

And girls spending lots of time in the mirror putting on all kinds of make up and clothing, and doing their hair for an hour is another story. Its mostly because they have little or no self esteem, no matter how hot they may be or how much you tell them how pretty they are.

[eyedrop]

I'll apologise if I sounded overly personal, I was more referring to the general myth of women generally only caring about mens great personality, which are largely not true.

In my experience women care just as much as men about looks, they just a have a more diverse view about what good looks is. Women aren't those pure humans who manage to see your inherent good characteristics .

Here is a study concluding that women and men care just as much about looks, while women generally think they don't care as much.

Referanse:
Paul W. Eastwick og Eli J Finkel; Sex differences in mate preferences revisited: Do people know what they initially desire in a romantic partner? (http://content.apa.org/journals/psp/94/2/245.html); Journal of Personality and Social Psychology; Volume 94, Issue 2, februar 2008.

[Scary Monster]

I dunno, that study could be BS though. Those kinds of studies are never meant to be taken as dogma, because it might not account for other factors, such as what led the subjects into speed dating in the first place. And i could not gather from just the summary what exact methods they used or how/why they chose the participants.

I dont know what else to tell ya, besides there are plenty of guys who you would think would not have a sexy girlfriend or whatever, yet they do. So like what i said about my friend who has an attractive girlfriend. Bluntly, hes not very attractive himself, but the way he carries himself and his confidence is what led him to go out with a couple other fine ass girls before.

[Jazzratt]

When I look for a prospective partner the first thing I always ask myself is "are they so desperate for a relationship that they're prepared to eschew food for days?"Because things like looks or personality are an overrated way of making that sort of decision.

[Lyev]

As people above have said, missing out on a good meal is not a good tactic for impressing lady-folk, or men. What I say isn't meant to sound mean at all, I have often found myself quite desperate to impress girls, or not come across as some nerdy, awkward mute. Meeting and talking to women; is it a social thing? Yes, it is. Is missing out on food a social thing? No, it's not. I would argue that it might deter some girls. When you get to know them, the opposite sex, or whoever you are trying to impress, are much more intimidating and unfriendly in your head, than they are when you actually meet them.

[Madvillainy]

I think the gettin drunk and partyin thing is probably the best way to go, I never used to be any good at pullin girls or even talking to them but I just learnt not to give a shit, just be arrogant and cocky as fuck and it'll happen. Don't get stressed over it and defo don't pull anymore shit like this.

[eyedrop]

I dunno, that study could be BS though. Those kinds of studies are never meant to be taken as dogma, because it might not account for other factors, such as what led the subjects into speed dating in the first place. It could certainly be bullshit, but I posted it to show that it is a decent support in the scientific community, if not largely believed, that women are just as body fixated as men. And that the reasons that people say they choose partners after are more according to cultural expectations than what they really choose after.




And i could not gather from just the summary what exact methods they used or how/why they chose the participants. Sorry about that, I read a Norwegian article from a science hub based on the study. So it wasn't just some tabloid news at least, but social science results aren't the most reliable facts. The study was done on 20 year olds though, it would be interesting to compare it one with older people where income differences could make more of a difference.


I dont know what else to tell ya, besides there are plenty of guys who you would think would not have a sexy girlfriend or whatever, yet they do. So like what i said about my friend who has an attractive girlfriend. Bluntly, hes not very attractive himself, but the way he carries himself and his confidence is what led him to go out with a couple other fine ass girls before. There are plenty of attractive men with less attractive girlfriends as well, but in general there can be made a decent case for women being overall just as shallow as men.

There is also a strong possibility that a cultural myth of women caring about personalities would serve our male dominated society, in that rich old men with hot wives would like to believe their wives love them and not their money.

[gorillafuck]

In my experience women care just as much as men about looks, they just a have a more diverse view about what good looks is. Women aren't those pure humans who manage to see your inherent good characteristics.
Yeah, and next you'll be saying that girls poop.:rolleyes:

[eyedrop]

Yeah, and next you'll be saying that girls poop.:rolleyes:
Yeah, lavender-smelling soap bars that is.

[ed miliband]

Women care about looks, sure, but not all women have the same taste, and the same is true for men. It is perfectly possible for very attractive women to prefer plain men, just like some men may favour women who other men would not consider attractive at all (case in point: look at the rapper T.I. and then look at his wife). I personally do not consider Megan Fox attractive, I do however consider Chloe Sevigny to be - I'm probably in the minority here, but it's to do with (oh god how many times will I use this word...) taste. So yeah, saying a woman will care about looks is obvious, but it doesn't specify anything in particular. One girl might dig a muscular man, the other might dig guys heroin thin, and so on.

[Wanted Man]

I get that a lot. But the reality is that I am actually that desperate.

Well, surely it has occurred to you by now that it's not doing you any favours? I'm not sure if it's wise to respond to the OP (seems like a joke or something), but in general, what's attractive about someone who's so insecure and needy?


Why do people always pretend like women don't care about looks at all? It's not like the popular boys at elementary school are the ones who look like train-wrecks. Give up your views of the idealised woman on the pedestal.

A great personality or some other qualities can compensate to a degree, but most women need some physical attraction. Don't expect a woman who spends a decent amount of time caring for her looks to fall for a guy with cheetos popping out of his ears, unless he has money.

What are "looks", though? The guy in the OP could work out in the gym until his ass falls off, he can get nice hair and expensive clothes, but no doubt, he would still come across as needy, uninteresting, anti-social, etc. On the other hand, I've known guys with long hair, pot bellies and scruffy old jackets who had more success, simply by having more charisma. If you want to include that, then I would definitely agree with you.

On the other hand, even an ugly person can improve. I mean, do you need to have ginger hair in a ponytail? Do you need to have facial hair with crumbs stuck in them? Do you need your mother to buy your clothes? Is there some mysterious force in the universe that forces your eyes and shoulders downwards, preventing you from smiling, and giving you horrible, incurable body odour and pizza-faced acne?

No, these are all things that can be controlled in some way, and in that sense, looks matter and an unattractive person can do a lot to help himself.

[Sand Castle]

I just need to address some people, so I'll do it the lazy way. Yes, I am for real. I did this back in Feb. If I was trolling I would say "I'm hunger striking now!!!" because that would be way more entertaining. But I'm not trolling, I'm being serious.

Dimentio, I was on hunger strike because I wanted a girlfriend. But that wasn't just it. I also told people that I was hoping to spark some sort of small movement that would help other singles as well. Needless to say, it didn't work.

I returned to Craigslist last night. Last time I received all sorts of emails, mostly SPAM and women who didn't respond back, right away. This time I didn't. But I haven't checked yet today, so I might have some emails.

I have been entertaining the idea of a haircut for the longest time, but I'm worried that it will be like when I was a kid. Back then it was short and I had a cowlick, like Alfalfa in the Little Rascals. I don't want to walk around looking like that now. I'm sorry, but I've been down the hair jell road before and that was thoroughly annoying and sometimes useless. I'm also worried that it will look like some sort of soup bowl haircut. You see, my hair is pretty thin, but long. Upper back length. Do you recommend any good hair styles??

[Wanted Man]

Well, for fuck's sake, go to a nice place and ask them for recommendations. "I want something that suits me, I don't want to look like Alfalfa, and I don't want a soup bowl."

How can people recommend haircuts to you when you're not allowed to post pictures here?

[Sam_b]

Do you recommend any good hair styles??

Why not choose what you like and be yourself? Don't live a lie and constantly try and 'change' yourself in some desperate appeal to the opposite sex. If anything, all these ideas will prevent you from getting into any meaningful relationship.

With regards to this hunger striking thing, I accept you've been under physical and emotional strain etc but this is a terrible move. If anything, it screams out of attention seeking, and that you are trying to blackmail women into having some sort of relationship with you, to prevent damage to your health or out of self-pity. To be blunt its actually a ridiculously selfish move, and if I was in the position of others I wouldn't touch you with a barge pole let alone become and item.

[coda]

seriously, you shouldn't use a political method of protest and resistance to highlight common/petty personal problems. it truly insults, degrades and demeans those who have used it for bigger causes and ends up detracting meaning from the whole thing. there must be another way to go about it? don't ya think? :) sorry to be mean, but it's true. :(

[Spawn of Stalin]

If you want to look completely awesome, just shave the back and sides with a grade 3 or 4, and have maybe two or three inches on the top and fringe, I did this recently and I honestly feel like I can take on the world.

As for personality, just be an arrogant prick to everyone who isn't a good looking female. Try to get into a position where someone (preferably male) says anything bad about a girlie you're into, it will probably only be in jest, like a joke, but call them out on it, verbally assault them and do everything you can to get into an argument with them. Provoke them to hell because once they start fighting back there is no stopping you, pick up on all their little insecurities and just completely destroy, you're a Communist so of course you know how to do this. It sounds like a terrible idea but it works, I've done it a whole bunch of times and it's actually how I ended up with the girl of my dreams who I have been with for like seven years now. Seriously, if you just act like a complete tosser, but a kind, passionate tosser, you will succeed. Girls dig passion, I don't mean dumb passion like I'm going to tell this lass how amazing she is every five minutes, I mean passion like I'm a motherfucker with a fire in his heart that nobody can put out, I've got my beliefs and I'll defend them to the death...chicks dig it, they do, for seriously. Like I always used to play on the feminist thing a lot, anytime someone said anything that could be considered even remotely sexist, usually unintentionally so, I would be all like "what the fuck so you're a sexist now?", and then take things from there, insulting the hell out of them, making them look stupid as shit, I'd insult their opinions, the clothes they wear, their jobs, their families, everything. If you get scared just take a deep breath and tell yourself you have nothing to lose, even if you do have something to lose, once you get going people will be all like "oh shit that guy is ON FIRE", and you'll look completely awesome and in the end people will respect you a lot more. Sounds like a good way to lose a lot of friends but it works, and girlies dig it, trust.

[Ravachol]

Provoke them to hell because once they start fighting back there is no stopping you, pick up on all their little insecurities and just completely destroy, you're a Communist so of course you know how to do this.


Oh, I'm sorry, I thought Communism was about living labour struggeling against Capital's assaults on it's material conditions. Never mind me, I'm off to 4chan then. :rolleyes:

[Spawn of Stalin]

What is it with RevLeft dating advice threads anyway? You're supposed to be revolutionaries, just get out there and get on with it, by any means necessary.

[Pavlov's House Party]

What is it with RevLeft dating advice threads anyway? You're supposed to be revolutionaries, just get out there and get on with it, by any means necessary.

now now, rape is against the law.

[Spawn of Stalin]

Oh, I'm sorry, I thought Communism was about living labour struggeling against Capital's assaults on it's material conditions. Never mind me, I'm off to 4chan then. :rolleyes:

We can use our skills we have picked up as Communists for other things too, most people don't realise it but I do. For example I recently used my public speaking skills to humiliate this super hairy guy at a house party, it was pretty cool, I gave a rousing speech about how he was so super hairy, and I pretty much ruled. Say what you want, I'm amazing and I know it. With self-confidence you can achieve anything, you can achieve true greatness.

[Ravachol]

We can use our skills we have picked up as Communists for other things too, most people don't realise it but I do. For example I recently used my public speaking skills to humiliate this super hairy guy at a house party, it was pretty cool, I gave a rousing speech about how he was so super hairy, and I pretty much ruled. Say what you want, I'm amazing and I know it. With self-confidence you can achieve anything, you can achieve true greatness.

You can also come off as a complete jackass who'll have his ass kicked once he insults the wrong lad :rolleyes: Overcompensation is just as big a turn-off as 'woe-is-me' shyness. Also, why point out a super hairy guy is super hairy :confused: One would imagine that'd hardly require a rousing speech under a glorious hammer & sickle banner.

[Sam_b]

As for personality, just be an arrogant prick to everyone who isn't a good looking female. Try to get into a position where someone (preferably male) says anything bad about a girlie you're into, it will probably only be in jest, like a joke, but call them out on it, verbally assault them and do everything you can to get into an argument with them. Provoke them to hell because once they start fighting back there is no stopping you, pick up on all their little insecurities and just completely destroy, you're a Communist so of course you know how to do this. It sounds like a terrible idea but it works, I've done it a whole bunch of times and it's actually how I ended up with the girl of my dreams who I have been with for like seven years now. Seriously, if you just act like a complete tosser, but a kind, passionate tosser, you will succeed. Girls dig passion, I don't mean dumb passion like I'm going to tell this lass how amazing she is every five minutes, I mean passion like I'm a motherfucker with a fire in his heart that nobody can put out, I've got my beliefs and I'll defend them to the death...chicks dig it, they do, for seriously. Like I always used to play on the feminist thing a lot, anytime someone said anything that could be considered even remotely sexist, usually unintentionally so, I would be all like "what the fuck so you're a sexist now?", and then take things from there, insulting the hell out of them, making them look stupid as shit, I'd insult their opinions, the clothes they wear, their jobs, their families, everything. If you get scared just take a deep breath and tell yourself you have nothing to lose, even if you do have something to lose, once you get going people will be all like "oh shit that guy is ON FIRE", and you'll look completely awesome and in the end people will respect you a lot more. Sounds like a good way to lose a lot of friends but it works, and girlies dig it, trust.

Single, aye?

[Spawn of Stalin]

You can also come off as a complete jackass who'll have his ass kicked once he insults the wrong lad :rolleyes: Overcompensation is just as big a turn-off as 'woe-is-me' shyness.

Man, if you've never tried it you're not in a position to judge. It's been working for me for like nine years, since I was in school, maybe you could say I only attract dumb girls who like macho attitudes, maybe this is true, but the important thing is that you achieve what you set out to achieve, and I have achieved that as I have found the person I am going to spend the rest of my life with. Perhaps you don't like my method, that's okay and understandable, but there can be no denying that it has proven successful.


Also, why point out a super hairy guy is super hairy :confused: One would imagine that'd hardly require a rousing speech under a glorious hammer & sickle banner.

Okay this super hairy guy is like ridiculously hairy, and you probably wouldn't be able to understand if you weren't in my friendship group (not trying to be a douche here, just, you wouldn't). Like it's a running in-joke, we have been ripping on this guy since we were like 13 and it never gets old.

[Spawn of Stalin]

Single, aye?

No, cohabiting/living as married

[black magick hustla]

If you want to look completely awesome, just shave the back and sides with a grade 3 or 4, and have maybe two or three inches on the top and fringe, I did this recently and I honestly feel like I can take on the world.

As for personality, just be an arrogant prick to everyone who isn't a good looking female. Try to get into a position where someone (preferably male) says anything bad about a girlie you're into, it will probably only be in jest, like a joke, but call them out on it, verbally assault them and do everything you can to get into an argument with them. Provoke them to hell because once they start fighting back there is no stopping you, pick up on all their little insecurities and just completely destroy, you're a Communist so of course you know how to do this. It sounds like a terrible idea but it works, I've done it a whole bunch of times and it's actually how I ended up with the girl of my dreams who I have been with for like seven years now. Seriously, if you just act like a complete tosser, but a kind, passionate tosser, you will succeed. Girls dig passion, I don't mean dumb passion like I'm going to tell this lass how amazing she is every five minutes, I mean passion like I'm a motherfucker with a fire in his heart that nobody can put out, I've got my beliefs and I'll defend them to the death...chicks dig it, they do, for seriously. Like I always used to play on the feminist thing a lot, anytime someone said anything that could be considered even remotely sexist, usually unintentionally so, I would be all like "what the fuck so you're a sexist now?", and then take things from there, insulting the hell out of them, making them look stupid as shit, I'd insult their opinions, the clothes they wear, their jobs, their families, everything. If you get scared just take a deep breath and tell yourself you have nothing to lose, even if you do have something to lose, once you get going people will be all like "oh shit that guy is ON FIRE", and you'll look completely awesome and in the end people will respect you a lot more. Sounds like a good way to lose a lot of friends but it works, and girlies dig it, trust.

the life of a stalinist

[Sam_b]

Do you refer to your partner as a 'girlie'? That is assuming you are with a female.

[black magick hustla]

play her this
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LtT3AIX3_js

and recite her baudelaires "les litanies of satan"

[black magick hustla]

hey man u know what do a line of coke prowl down the bar and call everybody a tremendous faggiot............girls dig the alp0has. also you know what man???????????????????????? you can gert a g*rl to suck ur d*/ck for a gram of cojke girls love dat sh*/t

[Pavlov's House Party]

If you want to look completely awesome, just shave the back and sides with a grade 3 or 4, and have maybe two or three inches on the top and fringe, I did this recently and I honestly feel like I can take on the world.

As for personality, just be an arrogant prick to everyone who isn't a good looking female. Try to get into a position where someone (preferably male) says anything bad about a girlie you're into, it will probably only be in jest, like a joke, but call them out on it, verbally assault them and do everything you can to get into an argument with them. Provoke them to hell because once they start fighting back there is no stopping you, pick up on all their little insecurities and just completely destroy, you're a Communist so of course you know how to do this. It sounds like a terrible idea but it works, I've done it a whole bunch of times and it's actually how I ended up with the girl of my dreams who I have been with for like seven years now. Seriously, if you just act like a complete tosser, but a kind, passionate tosser, you will succeed. Girls dig passion, I don't mean dumb passion like I'm going to tell this lass how amazing she is every five minutes, I mean passion like I'm a motherfucker with a fire in his heart that nobody can put out, I've got my beliefs and I'll defend them to the death...chicks dig it, they do, for seriously. Like I always used to play on the feminist thing a lot, anytime someone said anything that could be considered even remotely sexist, usually unintentionally so, I would be all like "what the fuck so you're a sexist now?", and then take things from there, insulting the hell out of them, making them look stupid as shit, I'd insult their opinions, the clothes they wear, their jobs, their families, everything. If you get scared just take a deep breath and tell yourself you have nothing to lose, even if you do have something to lose, once you get going people will be all like "oh shit that guy is ON FIRE", and you'll look completely awesome and in the end people will respect you a lot more. Sounds like a good way to lose a lot of friends but it works, and girlies dig it, trust.

wow, i can't believe i skipped over this before.

sorry, but you sound like an insecure asshole who doesn't have any real friends. no, you don't get respect from acting like a douchebag; in fact a lot of people you know probably dislike or even hate you but won't say it to your face. trust me, i've seen the type before.

[black magick hustla]

maldoror's 101 PUA tips


-always wear sweatpants to pronounce thesize of ur dick

-coke

-knecap your granmother

-coke

[Spawn of Stalin]

Do you refer to your partner as a 'girlie'? That is assuming you are with a female.

Good question, no. I guess sometimes I'll say something like "I'm taking my girlie to the Lake District next week", or "I begged my girlie not to buy those disgusting shoes from Miss Selfridge but she went ahead and did it anyway". But I'll never say shit like "Oi girlie, pass the remote I wanna watch LOST", or "Hey girlie, do you fancy going to town in a bit?"

[black magick hustla]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCEQ1XXZTyI

this is the waY

[Spawn of Stalin]

hey man u know what do a line of coke prowl down the bar and call everybody a tremendous faggiot............girls dig the alp0has. also you know what man???????????????????????? you can gert a g*rl to suck ur d*/ck for a gram of cojke girls love dat sh*/t

We don't do drugs and Darkthrone is an awesome band.

[Spawn of Stalin]

wow, i can't believe i skipped over this before.

sorry, but you sound like an insecure asshole who doesn't have any real friends. no, you don't get respect from acting like a douchebag; in fact a lot of people you know probably dislike or even hate you but won't say it to your face. trust me, i've seen the type before.

I'm sorry but I don't trust you. As far as I'm concerned if people still call me, they still like me. You're probably just jealous, I know you'll be out on Friday night putting my technique to the test, you can deny it but I know and you know and I know that you know and you know that I know and that my friend, is all that matters.

[Pavlov's House Party]

I'm sorry but I don't trust you. As far as I'm concerned if people still call me, they still like me. You're probably just jealous, I know you'll be out on Friday night putting my technique to the test, you can deny it but I know and you know and I know that you know and you know that I know and that my friend, is all that matters.

lmfao:rolleyes:

[black magick hustla]

everybody should see the video i posted

[Ravachol]

I'm sorry but I don't trust you. As far as I'm concerned if people still call me, they still like me. You're probably just jealous, I know you'll be out on Friday night putting my technique to the test, you can deny it but I know and you know and I know that you know and you know that I know and that my friend, is all that matters.

This is how that comes across:

http://images.encyclopediadramatica.com/images/d/d3/Internettoughkid.jpg

Seriously, nobody likes overcompensating dudes who rip on people to come across as 'awesome and fiery'.

[Honggweilo]

We can use our skills we have picked up as Communists for other things too, most people don't realise it but I do. For example I recently used my public speaking skills to humiliate this super hairy guy at a house party, it was pretty cool, I gave a rousing speech about how he was so super hairy, and I pretty much ruled. Say what you want, I'm amazing and I know it. With self-confidence you can achieve anything, you can achieve true greatness.

i'm surprised im the first to say this but;

i use marxism-leninism to talk shit and pick up chicks.. shit was so cash :lol:

http://www.omgwtfimages.com/uploads/thumb/thumb_185.jpg

ffs you sound like a horrid lovechild of a macktavist and a stalinogothic lifestylist.. a "stalinist" stereotype on ecstasy and steroids at a frathouse!

[Pavlov's House Party]

The last few posts in this thread, summed up in an image:

http://i38.tinypic.com/if1zsj.jpg

[Palingenisis]

I was stupidly promiscous when I was younger and utterly regret it now.

My advice is cop yourself...You dont have a "right" to a relationship. Get outside your own head. Do some volunteer work. Realise that narcissism and all it entails is counter-revolutionary and anti-working class.

[Spawn of Stalin]

This is how that comes across:

http://images.encyclopediadramatica.com/images/d/d3/Internettoughkid.jpg

Seriously, nobody likes overcompensating dudes who rip on people to come across as 'awesome and fiery'.

Evidently this is false. Like I said before, you may not like my method but it has worked for me in the past and I am a very happy person because of it. I mean come on, I never claimed to be a tough guy, I use my argumentative side to my advantage, it's not like I kick the shit out of dudes on the street to pick up women, and also I haven't even used the technique previously described for many many years because I don't need to because I'm a faithful guy. You want to criticise something I used to do nearly a decade ago? That's cool, I don't mind, because today I enjoy a good life, and I've had more success in relationships than probably 99% of other people my age.

[Spawn of Stalin]

ffs you sound like a horrid lovechild of a macktavist and a stalinogothic lifestylist.. a "stalinist" stereotype on ecstasy and steroids at a frathouse!

What is a Stalinogothic?

[Palingenisis]

What is a Stalinogothic?

Me on a bad night sadly....:blushing:

[Spawn of Stalin]

I am not familiar with the term.

[Honggweilo]

What is a Stalinogothic?

our equivalant of an anarcho-lifestylist, only instead of "fuckin shit up" acts like the authoritarian arrogant chauvinist "stalinist" stereotype portrayed by popular culture, fixated on soviet fetishism and unwaranted megalomania in everyday life.

[Leo]

i don't want to sound like a jerk or anything but hunger strike is a last resort of prisoners who have no other means left to struggle, who are forced into humiliating and dishonorable conditions, who are being tortured and so forth. its not something you do to get laid. my advice is get some perspective.

[Spawn of Stalin]

Oh I definitely don't think I am a Stalinogothic then, I can definitely be arrogant at times but that's about it

[Spawn of Stalin]

i don't want to sound like a jerk or anything but hunger strike is a last resort of prisoners who have no other means left to struggle, who are forced into humiliating and dishonorable conditions, who are being tortured and so forth. its not something you do to get laid. my advice is get some perspective.

I think that I would mostly agree with this. You will achieve much more by getting out there and doing like I said than going on hunger strike.

[Honggweilo]

this week has produced some chit-chat marvels i must say :thumbup1:

[Palingenisis]

i don't want to sound like a jerk or anything but hunger strike is a last resort of prisoners who have no other means left to struggle, who are forced into humiliating and dishonorable conditions, who are being tortured and so forth. its not something you do to get laid. my advice is get some perspective.

I wish I could thank posts here. Hunger strikes even when they dont result in death often leave people blind or in wheel chairs for life.

Im almost tempted to say in this situation just go to a brothel however much I dont approve of such behaviour.

[Palingenisis]

Come to think of it I actually do believe that paying for sex is a LOT more healthy than hunger striking for it...Emotional blackmail is not a turn on!

[Sam_b]

But then neither is paying an often desperate woman for use of her body.

[black magick hustla]

But then neither is paying an often desperate woman for use of her body.


well they certainly get better paid than me

[leftace53]

Hunger strikes won't work because women like to be asked out for food (dinner, coffee, lunch, bagel, ice cream etc...) so you may want to try that, see how it goes.

But alas, I seem to have the opposite problem, although I suspect a hunger strike would help getting me out of a relationship.

[Sand Castle]

i don't want to sound like a jerk or anything but hunger strike is a last resort of prisoners who have no other means left to struggle, who are forced into humiliating and dishonorable conditions, who are being tortured and so forth. its not something you do to get laid. my advice is get some perspective.
Can you please explain the part in italics? Are you saying I should look at things differently?

[Sand Castle]

I was thinking next year I could do something like stand outside with a sign that says "free conversations" or something. Then I can talk to a lot of people and make lots of friends. One of them will either be the one to go on a date with me or help me find a date. I heard trying to make friendships evolve is the best way to get into a relationship.

[Saorsa]

I think you need to make some female friends, and get their advice.

Lesbian friends are always good cos you don't have any sexual thing in between you, you can just be friends. And due to them being women, they know what women like.

Other than that I dunno, find a girl with common interests. Jack off more often. Stop worrying so much!

Smoke more weed.

[Saorsa]

I was thinking next year I could do something like stand outside with a sign that says "free conversations" or something. Then I can talk to a lot of people and make lots of friends. One of them will either be the one to go on a date with me or help me find a date. I heard trying to make friendships evolve is the best way to get into a relationship.

OK sultan is trolling :D

[bcbm]

i hope so

[9]

This is either the worst or best thread on revleft ever.

[RHIZOMES]

For the longest time I have tried the so-called "normal" methods. I have been trying dating websites,

:lol::laugh::laugh::laugh::lol:

Most likely a troll topic, move along people.

[RHIZOMES]

I don't want to sound harsh, but the reality is is that if you haven't been in a relationship, then thinking that is what you need is problematic. I've been in plenty of relationships; I've loved, I've been loved, etc., but I will be the first to tell you that intentionally seeking out a relationship because you want one will never work. The minute you rely on a "relationship" to be happy, to be complete, you begin to undermine the person you're in a relationship with (if you get to that point).
Sit back, enjoy life, be social, and one day you'll meet someone, but DO NOT make that your life goal (I don't care how desperate you are, you will never have a healthy relationship if you are only in one for the sake of a being in a relationship).
And you're only 19. Believe it, or not, you have plenty of time to fall in love and be loved in return.
Your priority should be figuring out how to be content alone before you decide to be with someone; you're idealizing something you've never had, at this point.

Also I agree with this, I only got into a relationship after I sorted my own shit out.


I have had a bit of a dry spell as far as love goes, but it isn't a big deal. Everyone gets rejected. Sometimes you have to "lower your standards" which is a nice way of saying go for the less attractive and less pursued women. In all honesty relationships and love bring more drama and hurt than I think it is really worth. Everyone should experience it, but you don't need to rush something that will eventually come quite naturally. Message me on facebook if you want to talk a bit more about it.

Also this.

[Sand Castle]

I'm not trolling. And I seriously will be doing the free conversations thing if something doesn't happen over the summer. I know this sounds ridiculous, but so is everything else I do. It's normal for me.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EVGJ5qtLoRI

MRN covered it back in Feb.

[Hoggy_RS]

I can't think of anything that would creep women out more than this hunger strike thing....

[ed miliband]

I'm not trolling. And I seriously will be doing the free conversations thing if something doesn't happen over the summer. I know this sounds ridiculous, but so is everything else I do. It's normal for me.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EVGJ5qtLoRI

MRN covered it back in Feb.

Um... wow.

I don't think anything can possibly top that.

[eyedrop]

Um... wow.

I don't think anything can possibly top that.Where were all the common youtube trolls?

[RedRise]

Originally Posted by sultan
I'm not trolling. And I seriously will be doing the free conversations thing if something doesn't happen over the summer. I know this sounds ridiculous, but so is everything else I do. It's normal for me.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EVGJ5qtLoRI

MRN covered it back in Feb.
Um... wow.

I don't think anything can possibly top that.

Seriously, I have to agree. Going on a hunger strike is one thing, going on a hunger strike to get people to like you is ridiculous. Not only will girls most likely be put off by this but even if you do find someone, it will probably be someone just as desperate and unlikely to share much with you. You have to find someone you actually get along well with, not just anyone who will take you.

[Jazzratt]

You have to find someone you actually get along well with, not just anyone who will take you.

Ah. To be young and idealistic again.

[gorillafuck]

A free conversations sign, while better than a hunger strike, is still a very bad idea.

[Ravachol]

I was thinking next year I could do something like stand outside with a sign that says "free conversations" or something. Then I can talk to a lot of people and make lots of friends. One of them will either be the one to go on a date with me or help me find a date. I heard trying to make friendships evolve is the best way to get into a relationship.

http://img444.imageshack.us/img444/7818/1273856905892.jpg

[eyedrop]

A free conversations sign, while better than a hunger strike, is still a very bad idea.
Neh, I can image that to be a fun little piece of street art.

[Niccolò Rossi]

Neh, I can image that to be a fun little piece of street art.

I concur. I really wouldn't think it would be weird to see a guy with a giant sign reading "Free Conversations" at central station. It's actually a really cute/funny idea in my opinion. Of course, it would have to be a busy, horrible, impersonal place like a railway station. But yeah, cool idea, I think.

Nic.

[Honggweilo]

next time when you go on strike, play this shit from your boombox

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Clpw2B7Tr44

[Sam_b]

http://images.encyclopediadramatica.com/images/5/50/Hahafrench.jpg

[Il Medico]

Not to be a dick or anything, but that's kinda pathetic. I mean I am not excatly shagging everyone one I meet, in fact I've been single for like 4 years, but it really sounds like your trying way to hard. It makes you seem like a sad strange man/woman. I know I wouldn't date you if I saw you on a hunger strike to "get some", just seems weird.

Instead, get drunk and meet people, if they too happen to be drunk, your chances of going home with someone goes up.

If you want something besides drunken sex, then try to improve the way you present yourself. Make yourself seem more confident and emotionally stable (which going on a hunger strike to get a girlfriend doesn't do that, makes you seem like a desperate nutcase), thus more desirable in terms of someone wanting to be with you. Also, dressing nicer and bathing at least once a day helps too (assuming that your aren't already).

Oh, and don't obsess over politics, that's a bit of a turn off.



i am really good at chatting people up actually. i am also good at public speaking.
Having met dada, I can say this is true. He makes very interesting points about reptiods as well.

[Spawn of Stalin]

Okay sultan I took the liberty of looking on your profile and you're only 19, I wouldn't worry about it, I'm 23 and some people I am friends with (who are mostly 22-25) have never had any kind of meaningful relationship. Just have fun, enjoy life, and worry about girls when you need to, because to be honest a lot of the time relationships are more trouble than they are worth. Eventually you'll meet someone who you're supposed to be with, but going on hunger strike won't get you anywhere.

[eyedrop]

As a representative for the coupled people association (CPA) I reject motionless claims and asserts that life is meaningless. You will never know true happiness unless you find a mate and coupled life is always a bliss without any downsides ever.

[Sam_b]

I love how someone who's 23 is telling someone that they're "only nineteen".

"Well youngster, I remember the days when Stalin was fashionable and the CPGB-ML were leading......."

[Sam_b]

"..........when Mars Bars were 20p and....."

[Sam_b]

"......in fact there perhaps was a Hotel Bristol........"

[Il Medico]

You know what I find funny Sam, the fact that most if not all of the posters here think of you as a grumpy old man. You're not old. Or you have a really good plastic surgeon.

You are, however, grumpy as ever.

[Sam_b]

Shut up, youngster.

[Il Medico]

Shut up, youngster.
Don't look now, but I am on your lawn. :lol:

[Sam_b]

I don't have a lawn, I live in a flat.

[Il Medico]

I don't have a lawn, I live in a flat.
Poor Sam, he's senile, doesn't even know he has a lawn. :lol:

[eyedrop]

How old is grumpy btw? He does care enough about Eurovision to make a thread about it so that should narrow possible ages down to the age groups 10-14 or 40-60.

[Spawn of Stalin]

I love how someone who's 23 is telling someone that they're "only nineteen".

"Well youngster, I remember the days when Stalin was fashionable and the CPGB-ML were leading......."

The point I was trying to make was that we are both young, and that some of my friends who are like 5 years his senior, are in exactly the same position as him, only they're not going on hunger strike over it.

[Spawn of Stalin]

As a representative for the coupled people association (CPA) I reject motionless claims and asserts that life is meaningless. You will never know true happiness unless you find a mate and coupled life is always a bliss without any downsides ever.

I don't think life is meaningless at all, I just think that you should enjoy yourself no matter what. The meaning of life for the individual depends solely on his or her actions, so if you spend your whole life using extreme forms of protest as a means to find love, and never succeed, then that is all you will ever be, the guy who blackmails girls into sleeping with him. So just have fun come what may, you only live once and are far more likely to find happiness that way anyway. In short: BE HAPPY.

Also, what is the Coupled People Association? Like the sick lovechild of a dating agency and a trades union?

[Spawn of Stalin]

How old is grumpy btw? He does care enough about Eurovision to make a thread about it so that should narrow possible ages down to the age groups 10-14 or 40-60.

I watch Eurovision and find this statement both insulting and offensive

[Os Cangaceiros]

This is a weird thread.

[eyedrop]

I don't think life is meaningless at all, I just think that you should enjoy yourself no matter what. The meaning of life for the individual depends solely on his or her actions, so if you spend your whole life using extreme forms of protest as a means to find love, and never succeed, then that is all you will ever be, the guy who blackmails girls into sleeping with him. So just have fun come what may, you only live once and are far more likely to find happiness that way anyway. In short: BE HAPPY.

Also, what is the Coupled People Association? Like the sick lovechild of a dating agency and a trades union? God I suck at making internet jokes.


I watch Eurovision and find this statement both insulting and offensiveIt was supposed to be a weak attempt at playing at the sterotype of Eurovision watchers being either young teenagers or middle aged people (That may not be a universal stereotype though).

I'll refrain from attempting to be funny from now on.:blushing:

[Il Medico]

How old is grumpy btw?
dunno. He looks somewhere between 20-25, but he might be older.

[Sam_b]

How old is grumpy btw?

If you bothered to look at my profile you probably would have got an answer.

[Sam_b]

I watch Eurovision and find this statement both insulting and offensive

You, young Jedi, have gone up in my estimations.

[Foldered]

I love how someone who's 23 is telling someone that they're "only nineteen".

"Well youngster, I remember the days when Stalin was fashionable and the CPGB-ML were leading......."
Frankly, I have actually had a lot* experiences since 19 (which includes going through most of a degree), so I feel entirely comfortable saying "you're only nineteen." Especially with regard to relationships.

* I've had 3 serious relationships (and other not so serious ones), two with women that were both 4 and 7 years older than me.

[Lyev]

I was actually seriously considering starting a thread in chit-chat about womyn, but I don't think I will now.

[Spawn of Stalin]

I've had 3 serious relationships (and other not so serious ones), two with women that were both 4 and 7 years older than me.

Respect

[Foldered]

Respect
I also failed to mention that the girl 7 years older was a TA in a literature class of mine in my second year. D:

[Honggweilo]

older women are awesome, satisfies my Oedipus complex

[black magick hustla]

i got hit on by some 40 year old woman who had a lot of nasty tatoos and frequented strip clubs and she showed me her titties that was godawful (i was stoned)

[Foldered]

i got hit on by some 40 year old woman who had a lot of nasty tatoos and frequented strip clubs and she showed me her titties that was godawful (i was stoned)
That's an epic story.

[Sam_b]

Frankly, I have actually had a lot* experiences since 19 (which includes going through most of a degree), so I feel entirely comfortable saying "you're only nineteen." Especially with regard to relationships

Well frankly, nobody was asking you. Why not ask yourself this - could I care less if you have had relationships with women older than you? In case you're struggling for an answer, I couldn't.

[Sam_b]

I also failed to mention that the girl 7 years older was a TA in a literature class of mine in my second year

Well fuck me, a bona fide stud right there.

[Foldered]

Well frankly, nobody was asking you. Why not ask yourself this - could I care less if you have had relationships with women older than you? In case you're struggling for an answer, I couldn't.
When you say that it's funny that people in their 20s are saying "you're only 19" you were calling people out. I said "you're only 19," so I happen to be one of those people.
I'm just saying that, considering experiences I've had, I am in a position to say "you're only 19" and to give advice on relationships despite the fact that I am not significantly older than 19.
And I'm not struggling for an answer, obviously you do care on some level, or you wouldn't have responded. Unless you're just so fucking bored that you've gotta seek out stuff you don't care about to respond to.

[Saorsa]

Maybe the OP should try going gay?

[Foldered]

Maybe the OP should try going gay?
This.

[Sand Castle]

Maybe the OP should try going gay?
I don't think that would make things easier. I don't know how many homosexuals are in the US, but I'm sure they're a minority. Also, given the treatment of them in the US, I don't think I'd like it. In short, it would just as hard, if not harder, to find a date. Also, I'd certainly face discrimination. I have actually thought about this before.

[Lyev]

When you say that it's funny that people in their 20s are saying "you're only 19" you were calling people out. I said "you're only 19," so I happen to be one of those people.
I'm just saying that, considering experiences I've had, I am in a position to say "you're only 19" and to give advice on relationships despite the fact that I am not significantly older than 19.
And I'm not struggling for an answer, obviously you do care on some level, or you wouldn't have responded. Unless you're just so fucking bored that you've gotta seek out stuff you don't care about to respond to.Ooh err! Grumpy grumpy!

[Palingenisis]

Do you think MIM would shoot the OP?

The said that even if she becomes a Communist Britney Spears would have to be excueted after a sucessful revolution for all the crap she has done.

[Das war einmal]

our equivalant of an anarcho-lifestylist, only instead of "fuckin shit up" acts like the authoritarian arrogant chauvinist "stalinist" stereotype portrayed by popular culture, fixated on soviet fetishism and unwaranted megalomania in everyday life.


Which is only a problem if he takes himself seriously ;)

I actually thought you ment cybergoths dressing with soviet military clothing (in contrast to similar goths wearing fascist-esque 'chiq'). I actually can appreciate that.

[Sam_b]

Unless you're just so fucking bored that you've gotta seek out stuff you don't care about to respond to.

You seem to care quite a lot about this.

[Dr Mindbender]

To be blunt its actually a ridiculously selfish move, and if I was in the position of others I wouldn't touch you with a barge pole let alone become and item.

to be blunt its actually a ridiculously mysoginist move.

@ the OP- This really is chris chan shit. All i read in the opening post was ''bawwwww! I'm protesting against the nasty evil girls that won't date me!''

You wont get any sincere mutual respect or affection resorting to being so immature. If you think women owe you intimacy then frankly you deserve to remain cold and lonely.

[Sam_b]

to be blunt its actually a ridiculously mysoginist move.


I agree.

[Jazzratt]

Isn't sam_b agreeing with Dr. M like Revleft dividing by zero?

Oh. I see you've already got my coat, how kind.

[Sam_b]

Taxi driver's getting impatient.

[RHIZOMES]

@ the OP- This really is chris chan shit.

Best description of what this is

[Saorsa]

For the OP:

This will help you with your problems. (http://www.fleshlight.com/)

[Scary Monster]

^^Exactly :lol: I think most of our angst comes from sexual repression. Like what Bill Maher (liberal corporate bastard) said in his movie Religulous-- He was suicidal in college. But when he started fucking, he was a new man. :lol:

[Nwoye]

what a great thread.

[The Red Next Door]

Why do people always pretend like women don't care about looks at all? It's not like the popular boys at elementary school are the ones who look like train-wrecks. Give up your views of the idealised woman on the pedestal.

A great personality or some other qualities can compensate to a degree, but most women need some physical attraction. Don't expect a woman who spends a decent amount of time caring for her looks to fall for a guy with cheetos popping out of his ears, unless he has money.

To the OP:

Chances are you are either:

*Plain unattractive

*Needy

*Uninteresting

*Not meeting enough people

All of those points can be addressed.

Be, or at least pretend to be, something that people can find attractive.

You are being sort of an asshole.

[Wanted Man]

Well, I'm glad you resurrected this brilliant thread just to say that.

[The Red Next Door]

Do not worry about getting a girlfriend, Just wait for that special someone, you do not need a human being to make you complete, I have the same problems with having a friendship. I am very need and etc. but I try to make a great effort to be confident and not give a shit about what people say. The best thing do instead of looking for someone to love, is to love yourself first before you love somebody, I understand how you feel, but humans have the right not to be bother or be with you. yourself is your best friend, so love yourself before you try to love others, don't harm yourself over human being, and also people like and love you, Like you make very good and educational videos on youtube, Look at all the good stuff you do, and think about that. You are going to be something great in life, Like a Marxist historian or something cool.

[Blackscare]

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This is chris chan shit

Someone said that, I completely agree. I was on my way to posting that when I read someone beat me to the punch :D As soon as I read the "free conversations" bit I thought of attraction signs.