Help me get her out of my mind, please...

[Incendiarism]

I just got back from her house. These past few weeks I quit my job and started drinking daily just to cope with the fact that I wasn't good enough. I've never cried over a woman but I'm so close now...

[Pirate turtle the 11th]

Go dick a randomer.

[Devrim]

Don't drink. It doesn't really help in these situations. It happens, it hurts, and time, not something that we say here will heal it.

Devrim

[Os Cangaceiros]

Sounds to me like you should've taken a page out of your own playbook:


Women, as a general rule, are not worth the trouble nor hassle of getting to know.

[Jazzratt]

Quitting your job probably wasn't the greatest move.

You're going to achieve nothing with this thread because you'll either get honest answers that you don't want to hear or people taking the piss.

[Tower of Bebel]

Get into contact with people you like (those who like you).

[Misanthrope]

You're aren't good enough? Maybe she is just too stupid to realize she isn't good enough for you and that she just lost someone amazing.

[Orange Juche]

The best thing you can do for yourself is to completely eliminate any contact with her (this only prolongs the pain, believe me), and try to just spend as much time with friends or others you care about as possible.

[The Ben G]

Listen to lots and lots of KMFDM or blow stuff up.

[Tablo]

Don't drink at all. Cut off all contact with her and spend time with friends like others have said. Also it does help to fuck other random girls. At least that helped me. :/

I hope you start to feel better. No matter what you are going to go through a painful period of time and at most you will be able to numb the pain a bit.

[Dr Mindbender]

turn to the lord jesus christ.

[which doctor]

not gonna get over her

[Os Cangaceiros]

http://lhsmusicmagazine.com/images/erinkim.jpg

[bcbm]

coke binge

[FreeFocus]

Why do have you oneitis brah?

[4N4RCHY]

Drinking is actually quite healthy. Studies show that drinking alcohol can increase endorphins in the brain, relieving you of your depression. Just don't drive, or drink too much. Your blood needs to be between 10%-20% alcohol before you can start to feel the effects to any significant extent, but more than that can cause health problems.

[gorillafuck]

Your blood needs to be between 10%-20% alcohol before you can start to feel the effects to any significant extent, but more than that can cause health problems.
Your blood needs to be 10% alcohol?

[Tablo]

Drinking is actually quite healthy. Studies show that drinking alcohol can increase endorphins in the brain, relieving you of your depression. Just don't drive, or drink too much. Your blood needs to be between 10%-20% alcohol before you can start to feel the effects to any significant extent, but more than that can cause health problems.
Drinking in small amounts is good. Drinking a glass of wine every night is beneficial, but drinking half a bottle of tequila isn't good at all.

[Os Cangaceiros]

. Your blood needs to be between 10%-20% alcohol before you can start to feel the effects to any significant extent

You and I need to go partying someday.

[4N4RCHY]

Drinking in small amounts is good. Drinking a glass of wine every night is beneficial, but drinking half a bottle of tequila isn't good at all.

Was my suggestion not small enough? One glass of wine doesn't do so much as a buzz!


You and I need to go partying someday.

Cant wait! :D

[Misanthrope]

turn to the lord jesus christ.

lul of the year:lol:

[Guerrilla22]

Definitely try to drink a lot. It will make u feel better and help u forget about her.

[Tablo]

Definitely try to drink a lot. It will make u feel better and help u forget about her.
Ummm, you're joking right? Excessive drinking could cause great physical harm and could potentially create an addiction to drinking.

[RedAnarchist]

OK, can people stop with the suggestions to drink heavily, because any other posts like that will be removed. It's irresponsible, not to mention dangerous to the OP's or anyone's health.

[¿Que?]

I say reflect on your avatar. You can put lipstick on a pig and it's still a pig. Put makeup on David Bowie, well...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ueUOTImKp0k

But really, I just posted this because I decided on a sig and wanted to see how it looked.

PEACE!

[Guerrilla22]

you're joking right?

yus

[Misanthrope]

Step 1: Buy marijuana from a drug dealer
Step 2: Buy a pipe from a head shop
Step 3: Put marijuana in pipe
Step 4: Put a flame on the marijuana
Step 5: Inhale the smoke
Step 6: wait for it wait for it, exhale
Step 7: cough
Step 8: lol your high

[Robocommie]

Don't drink at all. Cut off all contact with her and spend time with friends like others have said. Also it does help to fuck other random girls. At least that helped me. :/


Right, I'm not exactly into the bar scene as some of the folks around here, but how the hell is it this easy to score up random girls?

[Tablo]

Right, I'm not exactly into the bar scene as some of the folks around here, but how the hell is it this easy to score up random girls?
I normally get girls at death metal shows and they are normally very "easy" if that is the best term to use.

[REVLEFT'S BIEGGST MATSER TROL]

I'm not entirely sure how people here can recommend stuff like to go sleep with random girls?

Mabye its cause i'm young (19), or more likely hideously socially inadequate, but its not as simple as that?

Although I am somewhat surprised that you can find "girls" at "Death Metal shows."

[REVLEFT'S BIEGGST MATSER TROL]

Oh and mabye you should like, I don't know? Try and talk to her? And find out why she doesn't find you attractive? She might be able to provide some reasons?

Mabye if you tell her like, that she means so much to you that you can't stop thinking about her and even made a thread about her on www.revleft.com (Protip; good way to subtly plug your awesome revolutionary knowlege to impress!), and that you'd like, be super good for her to have for those reasons? And mabye she'll help you work on being more attractive?

[Jazzratt]

Oh and mabye you should like, I don't know? Try and talk to her? And find out why she doesn't find you attractive? She might be able to provide some reasons?

Mabye if you tell her like, that she means so much to you that you can't stop thinking about her and even made a thread about her on www.revleft.com (http://www.revleft.com) (Protip; good way to subtly plug your awesome revolutionary knowlege to impress!), and that you'd like, be super good for her to have for those reasons? And mabye she'll help you work on being more attractive?

No one likes people begging for them back. It's very rarely the case that you can fix something like that by filling a load of tickboxes like it's a job interview or something. Sheesh.

Anyway - my advice is not to withdraw from her socially as some people are suggesting, bizarrely. It won't help. "Familiarity breeds contempt" after all.

Also get drunk, not too often though and in company. Make sure you're with good mates who will either distract you masterfully or will take your phone off you when you try to call her and then listen to you angst lyrical. Aside from these forays into drinking though I'd cut back, if you tend to have a beer or two of an evening make sure that you only have access to one or two beers an evening - if you stock up you'll find yourself drinking the stockpile.

If you're as successful as most of the people giving advice here seem to be I don't think it's a bad idea to put it about a bit. I know this utter manslut who never seems to be mopey about shit, maybe there's something to it and even if there isn't you'll have fun finding out.

[piet11111]

i have been told the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.

also cut back on drinking and work out.

[Vanguard1917]

I got 99 problems but ... just kidding.

Hit me.

[Wanted Man]

Oh and mabye you should like, I don't know? Try and talk to her? And find out why she doesn't find you attractive? She might be able to provide some reasons?

Mabye if you tell her like, that she means so much to you that you can't stop thinking about her and even made a thread about her on www.revleft.com (Protip; good way to subtly plug your awesome revolutionary knowlege to impress!), and that you'd like, be super good for her to have for those reasons? And mabye she'll help you work on being more attractive?

No. No. NOOOOOOOO!!!!

[Dimentio]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xMm7gqowAO4

Today's my day

I feel good
And open my heart
[I] let the sun in
Each day should be a gift
And something special

I get up
Look out of the window
Into the blue sky
The ghosts are driven away
And I know for sure:

Today's my day
Today's my day
Today's my day...

I look in the mirror
And wear something special
It is unbelieveable
That one can look so good!

I dance in the street
Laugh the people in their face
Everyone thinks I'm crazy
Because they don't know:

Today's my day
Today's my day
Today's my day...

[thatdevious]

Dude, just don't let a woman define you. Drinking and fucking seem like good remedies, but at the end of the day, just knowing that the world turned before her and that the world will keep on turning should be enough. The healthiest relationship is the one that let's you remain an individual.

[Bilan]

Watch the IT crowd, and then just go do something else.

or become an Epicurean For freedom.

[Incendiarism]

I don't like one night stands, though. I prefer to familiarize myself with the people I'm intimate with, and this is coming from somebody who prefers casual relationships and bachelorhood to marriage and being tied down.

Anyways, I took a short sabbatical and thought critically about everything. For somebody who enjoys being single, I sure was glued up on her, and yet despite that I never once admitted I loved or cared for her. My refusal to admit such simple emotions in turn led to a very bitter and caustic reaction when she moved on...and so instead of acting constructively with my time, I acted self-destructively.

I spent my night with her the other night after I laid down my arms. We had a fun time simply being friends and while I don't think what we had could ever die - I never had the chance to show her what kind of partner I could be - I can settle with the idea that it's all for the best.

[Knight of Cydonia]

log on to revleft daily....every minutes, every hour...don't do anything just log on to revleft... it should help:lol:

[Nwoye]

Oh and mabye you should like, I don't know? Try and talk to her? And find out why she doesn't find you attractive? She might be able to provide some reasons?

Mabye if you tell her like, that she means so much to you that you can't stop thinking about her and even made a thread about her on www.revleft.com (http://www.revleft.com) (Protip; good way to subtly plug your awesome revolutionary knowlege to impress!), and that you'd like, be super good for her to have for those reasons? And mabye she'll help you work on being more attractive?
this is the worst advice in the whole thread

[RHIZOMES]

this is the worst advice in the whole thread

^^^This so hard, DO NOT FOLLOW GANGSTERIO'S ADVICE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD

I'm currently courting a girl at the moment, I hope it doesn't turn out like the situation in this thread :lol:.

[PHUNX]

"courting" only a kiwi would use a word from the 14th century in a everyday sentence :laugh:

[Tower of Bebel]

Dimentio, that was awful. In every possible way.

[MarxSchmarx]

For a few days, put your heart and soul into doing something constructive for people who have it even shittier than you. There are people in your community for whom a broken heart is an immense luxury. I am sure there is some social service type organization where you live that you can help out at.

[RHIZOMES]

"courting" only a kiwi would use a word from the 14th century in a everyday sentence :laugh:

No that's just my weird vocabulary, people always comment on that shit... like when I say "inebriated" sometimes to refer to drunk.

[Jazzratt]

No that's just my weird vocabulary, people always comment on that shit... like when I say "inebriated" sometimes to refer to drunk.

Everyone does that, surely?

[RHIZOMES]

Everyone does that, surely?

People have commented on why I just don't say "drunk" about 5 times now.

[Nwoye]

No that's just my weird vocabulary, people always comment on that shit... like when I say "inebriated" sometimes to refer to drunk.
I love anachronistic or out of style vocabulary. I use the word "charming" quite often.