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Purple
25th February 2003, 19:31
my girlfriend.....plese help.....
ill try to sensor this post:
you see i was at my girlfriends cabin this weekend(yes, together with my girlfriend), and had a great time and all that.. the first problem(theres several problems) appeared when we tried to go to bed together for the very first time to do you-know-what.. we took eachothers clothes off in a gentle and polite way, in the heat of the moment... then she took a condom out from her purse, and told me in a whispering voice to take it on. of course; i took the rubber and unwrapped it and then a problem occured..

it was too small.. the condom just wouldnt go on. my girlfriend offered help, and she tried aswell.. but the condom was too tiny, and it was no way it would fit, so we gave up and grabbed an other condom, who fitted excellent. but just as she lead me "in", we heard a noise downstairs, and we became silent and didnt dear to move.
her stepfathers brother(the kind of guy that laughs of everything) came up to the floor we were in, and we laid on the floor at the center of the main room bare naked and i, with a condom on my you-know-what, tried to hide under the bed sheet..

luckily the guy who had so inappropiately entered the scene of lust and tremendous willingness, tought we were just sleeping and left after a couple of stupid remarks i do not dear to write and left us alone to ourself....

but after the incident with the condom, and the " visit" by this annoying guy, the moment had became very changed and the atmosphere were ruined.. out of my girlfriends mouth a profane "sigh" came, and i understood that she didnt wanted to do it anymore, so at that time "elvis left the building", and i moved over to her side, and we fell asleep in eachothers arms..

the morning after we were hugging and kissing at every chance we got, but we were to emberreased to look eachother in the eyes. the next day after i strolled around and behaved grumpy and depressed because of the recent actions..well the resent non-actions...

my girlfriend became pissed at me coz i was grumpy and pissed aswell..

so now my girlfriend walks around and acts depressed and she is extremely mad at me because i were reeelly foolish and all that, but my girlfriend has every right to think im a butt because that is what i am... and that failed time, were our first time and it went directly to hell...

so now i use every chance i got to make her feel better, but ive got problems figuring out what more i can do...

so this is the moment where i beg you to write down suggestions about what i can do for my girlfriend..
dont hold back, write down every suggestion youve got, and ill see what i can use......

you might not see it but im on my knees begging you to write down whatever advice youve got...

please

Goldfinger
25th February 2003, 19:56
well, I have never met you before, so this is a good way to seek advice anonymously from a totally random guy like me, who has no idea who or where you are and will in no way be able to prejudge you.

I think the poem you're writing will do just fine.

Purple
25th February 2003, 20:02
go to hell, a.w. just go to hell, or i tell everybody about your "rise and shine" problem...

Purple
25th February 2003, 20:05
the condom is an entirely different story....

maybe ill tell later...

mentalbunny
25th February 2003, 21:38
Well just try to be nice to your girlfriend, buy her a little present and say "I'm really sorry about the other day, it was a real pain that things didn't work out, want to try again sometime?" or something along those lines. Just tell her how much she means to you and you're sorry that she feels down and it's not her fault or anything and you just really want to do "it" with her, etc (but i really recommend buying her a box of chocs or something!).

Purple
25th February 2003, 21:52
I've got an update in the case of lust, sex and my girlfriend who likes rock n' roll..

My girlfriend now officially thinks that the thing that didn't happen, happened because of her. I am now spending all of my time by telling her how much I love and and charish her, and all that kind of stuff(which I mean; I'm not with her JUST because of the sex). What I'm saying is that my girlfriend now has self-esteem problems, something I'm trying my best to cure... I need more advice on this topic, people.. C'MON!

Goldfinger
25th February 2003, 22:51
then all you really have to do is have a long, honest talk with her about it, and convince her that it wasn't her fault. Don't give up about it, just talk a lot.

RedRevolutionary87
26th February 2003, 02:12
wtf is this in literature?

Socialmalfunction
26th February 2003, 04:50
yeah, just talk to her and tell her exactly how you feel. i wouldnt try having sex again for a bit though.

4514
26th February 2003, 06:12
and after, maybe even during, go down on her and lick that bean like your never licked it before, girlfriends will always wear a smile if you do it right! good luck,
and ice under the tongue helps the next day if its sore.