I didn't ejaculate my first time!

[Le People]

I'm sorry if the topic is crass, but I've searched the internet for about half an hour now looking for information on the subject. I'm getting no where. Is there any legitimate source that I can look up to explain why I didn't cum my first time? It's bothering the hell out of me, though my girlfriend says she doesn't care. I'm otherwise a perfectly sexually normal male.

[Bright Banana Beard]

This thread should be in trash, this is uncomfortable to womyn.

[Invincible Summer]

Well let me put it this way - just because the hot dog is in the bun doesn't mean you've got any mustard.

[Bilan]

This thread should be in trash, this is uncomfortable to womyn.

Sex is usually a taboo.
Aside from this, it's something which most - if not all - people, regardless of gender, are going to do.
You're not being a "feminist", you're just being conservative.

[Bilan]

Anyway, as for the OP, I don't imagine anyone here will know why. I'm sure most have their theories (e.g. It was bad! :lol:) but without any details (of which TBH I don't think most people want to know) it's hard to give an answer.
Go see a doctor or something.

[Guerrilla22]

Probaly because you hadn't hit puberty yet, or you didn't actually orgasm?

[Bright Banana Beard]

Sex is usually a taboo.
where did I say it taboo?


Aside from this, it's something which most - if not all - people, regardless of gender, are going to do. I enjoy it too, but talking about penis and vagina make it uncomfortable for me to see what this guy have going on.


You're not being a "feminist", you're just being conservative. Poor you and your infantile ideas.

[Le People]

The point of my question is, is there any legitimate sources, besides shelling out money for the doctor, that I can refer to? I know that there is tons of books on impotence, which I know I don't have, and sexual problems. It was my first time, I'm very inexperinced, and I'm merely looking for a source, considering how obscure the topic is. Personally I think it was psycholligical, you know, nerves, but I want to look into it.

[Bilan]

where did I say it taboo?

You didn't. I did. I said it's a taboo, which is the reason why it's never discussed.



I enjoy it too, but talking about penis and vagina make it uncomfortable for me to see what this guy have going on.

Says who? Both men and women are capable of feeling uncomfortable when talking about sex - it stems from the fact that talking about it openly, especially between genders (as opposed to men talking about it, and women talking about it separately) is a taboo. That's something that's been drilled into all of us.
Besides, if you don't feel comfortable reading it, don't. Close the window and look at something else.
The topic violates none of the rules, it is not sexist, not chauvinistic, nothing of the sort.


Poor you and your infantile ideas.

What? You are being conservative. Don't try and dress it up in red, it makes it look worse.

[Bilan]

The point of my question is, is there any legitimate sources, besides shelling out money for the doctor, that I can refer to? I know that there is tons of books on impotence, which I know I don't have, and sexual problems. It was my first time, I'm very inexperinced, and I'm merely looking for a source, considering how obscure the topic is. Personally I think it was psycholligical, you know, nerves, but I want to look into it.

No idea. Google? :p

[Le People]

I've tried it. Nothing to do with this spefic problem.

[Le People]

Oh, and BR, how is this thread any less offensive to women then the thread devoted to discussing which actress one would want to have sex with?

[jake williams]

Oh, and BR, how is this thread any less offensive to women then the thread devoted to discussing which actress one would want to have sex with?
He was joking.

Anyway, your problem (it's not that big a deal, and your girlfriend doesn't seem to mind and that's good, but if it bothers you it still qualifies as a problem), from what I've heard, isn't that uncommon. Relax. Sex is complicated and there are a lot of reasons this could be. Have you had an orgasm with her before?

[Honggweilo]

It's called preformance anexiety, you silly

[RedAnarchist]

I'm going to close this before the resident chit chat morons notice it. To be honest, I suggest you go see a doctor if you're worried, but personally, I don't think there's anything to worry about.